Chapter 72:

Nowadays, big families train their children, the six arts of gentleman must be understood, especially the big families with deep knowledge, inherited for a hundred years-even claiming to be a thousand years, they have more ways to train children, and more careful, the upper class is more careful with the lower class. In rule, there is a saying that "a woman has no talent is a virtue", but the upper echelons completely sneered at this saying.
They are not like ordinary people. Their daughters are members of other people’s families when they marry. But for large families, their daughters are also a bargaining chip. They marry their daughters to get more benefits, so their daughters must understand piano, chess, calligraphy and painting. , Not only to be a good mistress, but also to be a interpretive flower for her husband.
Can't the husband talk about the wind and the snow, and the wife will talk about how many clothes he sewed today?
For them, the female red is just a leisure time to pass the time. The real craftsmanship is the embroiderer, but they can afford a few, more than a dozen embroiderers, why bother to do it yourself? Only when you express your concern will you do it yourself, which means that you value it and will not send it out easily.
Their wisdom and knowledge are passed on from generation to generation. The men and women in the big family are tightly guarded, please man? Etiquette can’t go well. It’s okay before the age of ten. After the age of ten, any man, even his own brother, can’t meet several times a year.
Mrs.? How could a truly learned woman be outside? They are probably also inherited from the family, and they receive the most rigorous education. Even if their daughters haven't finished teaching, they still teach other families?
Therefore, mothers usually educate their daughters. In order to ensure the quality of the next generation of the family, when a large family is married, the first thing to ask is whether the other's daughter is virtuous and virtuous, and whether he reads to read.
They have their wisdom, an excellent lady, she must not only be proficient in literature, but also know how to calculate accounts, know how to cooperate with her husband, and also learn the art of imperialism in the house. If she is an all-rounder.
Let the husband be inseparable from her, become the help of the husband, share the power with the husband, and even some powerful, can control the husband.
Only the daughters raised in this way can ensure the prosperity of the family.
Son, that's even more important.
In addition to the six arts of gentlemen, they have to follow their father and brother to increase their knowledge since childhood. They only have to learn more. Sometimes, they even have to learn the skills of women in the inner courtyard, not only being good internally, but also externally.
Good-looking takes advantage of yourself, but if you don’t look good, you have to pay great attention to your appearance, talking, and temperament.
How to walk, how to raise your hands and feet to look good, what kind of expression on your face when interacting with people, what kind of clothes you wear on different occasions, these are all particular.
Chu Lin was a young man who was trained in this way.
He was born in Changshu. The Chu family in Changshu may not be one of the big family, but it has been passed down for a hundred years. The Chu family is not courageous and can be called cautious. Every time before doing anything, we have to discuss it with our children. Okay, the day lily is also cold.
But this also brought them benefits, that is, not making mistakes, so after so many years, the Chu family has not experienced any storms.
After Lin Yuan took over Changshu, their family also began to delve into it. They wanted to please Lin Yuan, not to mention any benefits, at least not to let Lin Yuan use their family’s ideas, so whether it is money or food, as long as it shows a little meaning, They quickly sent it up.
I heard that Lin Yuan likes male style, and non-stop gave Lin Yuan his best-looking son.
What they mean is: "This son has no great abilities, he is not a clever man, but he looks good and doesn’t cause trouble. He will serve as a cup of tea by your side, or do other things. It depends on you. He does what he does."
Quite a bit of a strong man cutting his wrist.
Lin Yuan didn't believe it at first, and sent his son up as a plaything, this family was willing to?
Didn't the ancients take their faces seriously?
Song Shizhao reminded him.
"Back then, Dong Xian and Hanai Emperor had short-sleeved stories, and Dong Xian also offered his wife Xiaoxian to Hanai Emperor." Song Shizhao smiled, "It is also a good story."
Lin Yuan: "...Mr. is kidding, it's just folklore."
If Emperor Han Ai really had something with Dong Xian, it would prove that he was in good physical condition. How could he not give birth to a child in his lifetime? Lin Yuan felt that the so-called good-looking man was just a fig leaf for the "Yang
痿" incident of Emperor Ai of the Han Dynasty.
If Emperor Han Ai really took in Dong Xian's wife, then Dong Xian's wife should always have a big belly, right? Nothing.
This means that Emperor Ai of Han is not a "waste man", he just likes to be different from ordinary people.
Song Shizhao mentioned another thing: "In order to win Qi Huan's love, Yi Ya chopped his young son into mashed meat and made meatballs to serve Qi Huan's food. This Chu family is nothing more than that. "
Lin Yuan sighed, "This is how people feel."
For status and benefit.
These upper-class families can give up everything, including their own children, and even give away their wives.
It’s not just gifting concubine Ji, gifting a wife, and doing things like that, you know, this is almost tore off one's face and make people step on it.
The wife can be willing, let alone the son.
In this respect, Lin Yuan felt that they were not as good as the people who didn't know a single character.
Originally, Lin Yuan thought that the Chu family were humble. After all, anyone who saw Chu Lin would think that this was a handsome young man with a jade face and a phoenix look like a dragon. He carried the temperament that every young man had in every gesture and action. The maids inside would blush when they saw him, and they started to pay attention to their appearance unconsciously, and even some of the servants would blush when they saw him.
But Chu Lin is indeed a sloppy beauty.
He is talented, but he doesn't know how to use his talents and learns from him. It's just a gadget that raises his value.
But he is very likable, even if he doesn't say anything, the people who talk to him are always talking.
This is also a skill.
Lin Yuan asked him to receive guests. These guests included big businessmen and patriarchs of big families, and then-half of these people wanted to ask him to go, even "If Lin follows me, I will give him all the power of his family to enjoy. "Such words can be said.
Among them was a big businessman named Qi. He fell in love with Chu Lin sincerely. In order to see Chu Lin, he almost had to give Lin Yuan something to him. There was no way. He had no government affairs. It was even more unlikely that Chu Lin would entertain him when he arrived at Lin Yuan, so he began to pay for it out of his own pocket.
Chu Lin didn't know.
He was sent to Lin Yuan by his family and didn't know what he was here for.
No one in the family told him, nor did anyone at the government office tell him that if he couldn't reach outside, he really thought he was here to serve as a servant for Lin Yuan.
Although he believed that he was talented, he also knew that the person who was the most talented person was also a subordinate when he went to the authority, so there was no resistance.
Then he began to receive merchants and patriarchs of large households. Chu Lin felt that he was appreciated by Lin Yuan, so from time to time he had to swipe his face card in front of Lin Yuan, just like a peacock opening the screen, just barely singing and telling Lin. Yuan himself still has many abilities.
Sometimes Lin Yuan wanted to squeeze his face when he saw him inviting pets like a puppy in front of him.
Lin Yuan held back.
At the same time, Lin Yuan began to reflect on himself.
Sure enough, men have no moral integrity, as long as they look good, they basically don't pick men and women.
Hmm... he himself is a man of no ethics.
Then Lin Yuan pushed Chu Lin ahead of others, and he began to pass on Lin Yuan's decree from generation to generation. Outsiders, especially those from large families, felt that being a "male
pet" is also a way to climb the ladder! Such a matter of passing government orders from generation to generation seems to be a trivial matter, but it also means that he can know Lin Yuan's movements for the first time.
For the family, knowing the intent of the superior means that they can react more quickly, scratch the itch of those in power, and then enter the eyes of those in power and be favored.
Isn't this real power?
So they-collectively sent their son over.
They are all pretty.
Angzang is a young man, a beautiful young boy, with a face like a pan-an, with a graceful demeanor, surrounded by fat, thin, thin, everything.
But Lin Yuan was so happy.
"I thought that there were fewer people available." Lin Yuan said to Song Shizhao, "I feel better now."
These people may not be the materials for officials, but they all have real talents, at least knowledge is enough, even if they are not officials, it is good to build civilization for the people. This is definitely enough.
What's more, there are already few people available in his hand, and he is reluctant to let these people be hidden at home.
Song Shizhao sighed, "My subordinates never expected that you have so many plans."
It’s just a good man, and it’s a joke, but who would have thought that just because of this, there are more young and strong under the rule of Nan Bodhisattva. Not only that, but also the next generation of those big families hiding in the house. .
Taking one step to see a hundred steps, Song Shizhao worshipped Lin Yuan: "The strength of the Nan Bodhisattva's mind and the secret of planning make his subordinates happy and surrender."
Lin Yuan smiled at him: "It's just a trail, sir, Qutuo was relieved of his military power."
Most of the emperors are mentally retarded. To be precise, most of the civil and military forces in the Manchu dynasty are mentally retarded. Because they were afraid that the leading general would turn a hand in the troubled times, they gave the next edict cut off the military power of Timur, and the army was millions. The crowd broke up in an instant. From then on, the Yuan army had no more power to contend with the rebels.
Song Shizhao: "South Bodhisattva means..."
Lin Yuan smiled and said, "Maybe the husband will subdue him?"
Song Shizhao looked at Lin Yuan's eyes.
At this moment, his blood boiled!
But Song Shizhao quickly calmed down: "He is a Mongolian after all..." How could he be willing to do things for the Han?
Lin Yuan smiled and said, "Do I only fight Yuan soldiers?"
Song Shizhao's eyes widened.
He stood upright in his clothes and knelt down towards Lin Yuan: "This person must be won!"
He heard the Nan Bodhisattva above say to him: "Then it is all dependent on Mr.".
Song Shizhao is lying on the ground, and the Nan Bodhisattva can tell him to show his talents, even if he asks him to be the devil, he is willing!
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folk:
"I heard that the son of the Chu family is the most favored around Nan Bodhisattva."
"It must be good to want to come to bed!"
"The figure must be the best!"
Chu Family:
"What? Marry me?"
"Who to marry?"
"Is he crazy?! Want to marry my son?!"
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