Chapter 133: Because I just met you

Human life is usually accumulated by countless choices, because it is permeable and exists all the time.
Whether it is big or bad, love or hatred, or eating and dressing, these trivial things are actually a different choice in life.
And as long as a person can make a choice, no matter good or bad, he is a warrior who defeats himself, because living is the greatest success.
So the choice is difficult, but it is also very easy.
Shangguan Qingmeng made two choices, and Yin Hanruo was indeed making a serious choice, but she did n’t spend much time, only about a minute, she was very sure: "Qingmeng, I said these two reasons for me Seems to be occupied. "
Is it ridiculous?
In Shangguan Qingmeng's view, Yin Hanruo is actually the most standard and true answer.
Is like a test paper on the examination room. Not all multiple choice questions are multiple choice questions. In some questions, in fact, all the multiple choice questions are wrong.
Life is the same, because seven emotions and six desires will never be a single existence.
But what if the answer is true and correct?
Shangguan Qingmeng can recognize, but she cannot let Yin Hanruo accept this answer, because life is also a single existence only this time. Sometimes, the authorities must be obsessed with it and make a mistake.
She pondered for a moment, and then asked, "Then tell me honestly, do you still love Lu Tianhao?"
This problem can no longer be described with ruthlessness, but it is overbearing and sharp. She simply dissected all the defenses set by Yin Hanruo and took her heart straight.
This time, Yin Hanruo's choice was very difficult. All her struggles and pains were written on her face. Until a certain moment, it seemed like the pain was numb.
It seems that Shangguan Qingmeng already knew the answer, and immediately asked again: "Do you love Liu Yanbo?"
"Don't love." Yin Hanruo blurted out without even thinking, but she immediately added a sentence: "But I don't hate him, but I always want to be angry with him."
Do not love nor hate, that is a stranger.
So how should Yin Hanruo treat Liu Yanbo's mentality?
Shangguan Qingmeng has seen Yin Hanruo's mind clearly. All she has to do now is make Yin Hanruo see her own mind.
"Xiao Nizi, let my old lady let me solve your worries." Shangguan Qingmeng said in a relaxed tone: "You said that you don't know whether you love Lu Tianhao or not, in fact, it has already explained that you have not To love him again, the reason why you are confused is not that you are unwilling to admit this, but because he has satisfied your illusions of goodness, and illusions are not attachments, but expectations. Become sweet in the taste of life, and you also expect that the gaps and cracks left by time are a landscape that embellishes life, rather than devouring the abyss of the past. But you must know that bitterness is bitter, sweetness is sweet, sweet and sour, bitter and spicy. It ’s not wonderful to be together because they all lose themselves. "
"Nizi, you can have expectations and fantasies, because life is indeed more than just, but don't let them be the whole of your life, let alone be the meaning of your life, okay?"
Shangguan Qingmeng is not a wise man, her disorganized statement is not because she understands, she just conveyed what she saw.
All love has always been like this. You think it just looks messy and without signs. In fact, it is so messy and without signs. Only the talents in it can understand and cut off all the sources of interlacing.
Yin Hanruo turned over and buried his head deep in the quilt, unwilling to speak.
Sometimes, it is harder for people to admit that they understand, than to let her choose.
At the moment, Shangguan Qingmeng is like a gentle and caring big sister. She caressed Yin Hanruo ’s hair and said softly: "Actually, you know very well that no matter whether you love or not, you and Lu Tianhao can't go back to the past. It is impossible to come back again, not to mention whether the Lu family will stop it, just to say that Lu Tianhao himself, no matter whether he came back to you this time is true or false, as early as four years ago, he actually gave you the answer. So Even if you love again, it will only extend the answer, and it will be very short, just like the flashback before the death. "
"This is the opposite of expectation and fantasy, reality."
What is reality?
Reality is life, that is, yesterday, today and tomorrow, in front of it, even time will deteriorate, what can a lost love can resist?
Only by recognizing reality, there will be psalms and distance in life.
Yin Hanruo suddenly raised her head and supported her chin with her hand. There was no previous struggle in her look, and she was not numb.
Shangguan Qingmeng scratched Yin Hanruo ’s Yao nose and quipped: "Can you hold on, your cheap husband is not here now, what cute do you pretend?"
"You hate it." Yin Hanruo blushed. "I said it all, I don't love him."
"Dai De, I know you don't love him, you don't have to stress all the time." Shangguan Qingmeng smiled, she knew that Yin Hanruo was not sincere, but it was indeed worthy of pleasure. "Because you don't love him, he is your reality."
"What do you mean?" Yin Hanruo asked silly.
Shangguan Qingmeng looked disgusted and couldn't make a channel: "Do you really don't understand, or do you think you are confused?"
"I really don't understand." Yin Hanruo shook his head with certainty.
"Your EQ is really in arrears!" Shangguan Qingmeng showed an expression of defeat to you, and then took a finger to poke Yin Hanruo's forehead gently. "You feel wronged about the past today, but you know that people ca n’t go back to the past, so you ca n’t slap Lu Tianhao from the past, so you have to throw your anger all over Liu Yanbo, because you know, except him Liu Yanbo, no one has the responsibility to bear your slap to pay for your past. This is your reality. "
"Also, in the past there was a sense of distance, but now there is no. Without a sense of distance, there is no space, without space, there is no room for expectation and fantasy, and you will find that there is no perfect person. If you are disappointed, you will think that what he gave you will never be comparable to what you have lost and never owned, so you think that Liu Yanbo should fight, and he really hit him without hesitation. , This is also your reality. "
Yin Hanruo still didn't understand, and asked: "So what does this have to do with whether I love him or not?"
"If you love him, would you be willing to beat him?" Shangguan Qingmeng asked, "Is this not realistic enough?"
"Oh ~"
Yin Hanruo nodded as if he knew something.
"You stupid girl, telling you that these profound knowledge is really a waste of saliva." Shangguan Qingmeng reached out his phone from Yin Hanruo and threw it on the bed. "Directly, if you want to get a divorce, go to get a marriage certificate. If you don't get a divorce, just call to get your man back."
Shangguan Qingmeng's words were very strong and emboldened, because she knew that this time, Yin Hanruo's choice would definitely meet her mind.
Sure enough
Saw that Yin Hanruo slowly picked up the phone, but he didn't make a call.
"I can't stand it anymore." Shangguan Qingmeng stood up decisively and decided to add more fire. "You love to fight, I'll go back."
"Qing Meng ~" Yin Hanruo dragged the long sound, which seemed to be particularly wronged.
"My eldest lady, my big boss Yin, what the do you want?" Shangguan Qingmeng is going crazy.
"I ..." Yin Hanruo vomited and couldn't say what he wanted to say for a long time.
Shangguan Qingmeng seconds understand, can't help but laugh: "Are you afraid to call the past, he still refused to come back?"
"Hmm ~" Yin Hanruo's voice is as small as a mosquito.
"Then you will find him back in person!" Shangguan Qingmeng said loudly: "Wife is looking for her husband, it is justified. Besides, your man is so counseling, you still can't clean him up?"
Poo ~
Yin Hanruo smiled, the smile was very bright.
Sometimes, it only takes a few words to open a heart to a person, and it doesn't need a long wait to get out of the past. It only needs to meet a right person at the right time, and everything will laugh away.
Because it happened to meet you, this is the beauty of reality.