Chapter 565: Be loved without fear

When Liu Zhao came back, it was already very late, and it was almost three shifts.
"Not resting yet?"
With a chill, he walked into the upper room.
Gu Jiu sat on the soft collapse and flipped through a book while Yu Ge lay on the couch, writing and drawing with a charcoal pen, very energetic.
Gu Jiu uttered in the direction of Yu Ge'er, "Your son is getting excited. Don't you want to keep the year old today? I just did what he wanted and didn't stop him."
Liu Zhao took off his robe, washed his face with hot water, and felt comfortable before sitting down beside Gu Jiu.
"Is he naughty again?"
Gu Jiu laughed, "It's not that you don't know, your son's idea is so big that he won't listen to anyone who doesn't agree with him."
Fortunately, Yu Ge'er is not a bear child, so he won't mess around outside, he will have a sullen face. For people who don't like it, I even owe a look in my eyes.
Liu Zhao rolled his sleeves, "Why don't you beat him before the new year comes."
Anyway, idle is also idle, hit the kids for fun.
Yu Ge raised his head and looked at Liu Zhao. At a young age, there was a little inquiry and question in his eyes.
Then, he looked at Gu Jiu again, his eyes were already innocent and pitiful. Bright black eyes, as if the next second will be occupied by tears.
Gu Jiu's heart softened, and he quickly comforted: "No one beats you during the Chinese New Year today. Brother Yu is good, keep playing."
Brother Yu wiped his eyes, "Don't fight, be good."
"Okay, we won't fight. Yu brother is the best."
Brother Yu didn't smile, he just lowered his head and continued to scribble.
Gu Jiu lowered his voice and said to Liu Zhao, "I see, you are not allowed to talk nonsense in front of him in the future."
Liu Zhao chuckled, and followed Gu Jiu to lower his voice, "Such a small child, with so many minds, is a lesson."
Gu Jiu gave him a white look, "When you were a kid, you probably were about the same as him. They belonged to unobedient children. Maybe you are worse than Yu Ge'er."
Liu Zhao was heartbroken, "I was much better than him when I was a kid."
"Then why did the mother and queen always say that you were unpleasant since you were young. If you give you porridge, you want to eat noodles. If you eat meat, you want to drink soup. When you ask you to read, you go to dance with swords and guns. If you take your brothers to play, you will beat them to tears, and you will drive away only one nanny..."
When Liu Zhao was a child, he should have belonged to the kind of child who was very skinny, thoughtful, and never blindly obeyed adults.
This kind of child is by no means a good child in the traditional sense.
What do adults think of good children?
Obedient and sensible.
At the age of enlightenment, just sit in the school to read and read, and get full marks on the test.
Parents do what they call, as well-behaved as the most exquisite doll, without parents having to worry about it.
Obviously, Liu Zhao is not a good boy in the traditional sense.
In the eyes of the elders, he is not only not a good boy, but also a bad boy who always likes to make trouble, anger his parents, and fight against his parents.
In addition, he doesn't bother to say nice words, soft words make people happy, and he will only fight against his parents.
No wonder Queen Pei always said that Liu Zhao was unlovable since he was a child. This dislike continues to the present.
The relationship between people is wonderful.
If you didn't like a person since you were young, it is very likely that this dislike will accompany your growth and adulthood.
Even in old age, you may still dislike this person.
If you are a child, you like someone very much. Even if he grew up later, I knew that this person did not look as good as he was when he was a child, and even did disgusting things.
But because of this love, you can hardly dislike this person. It's annoying at best.
In the same way, an adult does not like a child, no matter what the reason is, there is a high probability that when the child grows up, he still does not like it.
The love of parents for their children is almost the same.
Even if they are biological children, they are not likable when they are young and cannot be liked by their parents. There is a high probability that this child will still not be liked by his parents after he grows up.
No matter how good the child grows up and how hard he works, he doesn't like it or he doesn't like it.
The child that his parents liked since he was a child, even if he grows up to be unsuccessful, and even eats, drinks, and gambles, he still receives the greatest tolerance and help from his parents.
Whenever this child gets better and progresses a little bit, he even only needs to be filial to one hundred yuan, or even no money. To say a few nice words, this child is the best child in his parents' hearts, and no other child can compare.
Parents will willingly take out their coffin to help the child.
Even if the fact is, this kid who eats, drinks, and gambles is the worst of all children.
But the child coaxed and said a few nice words, without any real dedication and filial piety. The parents' love for the child can last for decades.
This situation is common in families with many children.
After all, feelings are too mysterious and irrational at all.
Like it is like it, and if you don't like it, you don't like it.
Even if the child he likes is a scum, his parents are looking forward to him and are willing to give him the best.
Children who don't like it, even if they pee on the front of the bed, wait for food and drink, and do their best, they may not get a sincere smile or a good word from their parents.
Perhaps the parents will naturally squeeze the filial child and subsidize the child they like the most.
The human mind is grown by flesh, not produced by machines. Without the love scale, there is no way to make a bowl of water smooth, and there is no way to divide the love into equal parts.
"Because I am an unpleasant person."
Liu Zhao said this easily without any burden.
He seems to have never cared about why others don't like him.
This is rare.
When people are young, they will inevitably care about who likes and who doesn't like themselves. That person doesn't like himself, why?
But in Gu Jiu's memory, Liu Zhao had never been confused by this question for even a second.
Gu Jiu pointed at Brother Yu, then pointed at Liu Zhao and asked, "Do you think Brother Yu will care if we love him?"
Liu Zhao was silent for a moment.
After the silence, he laughed, "He is still young and can't tell what is most important."
Gu Jiu shook his head and said in disapproval: "Different ages have different needs. Yu Ge needs to eat and play now.
His life is perfect with eating and playing. Eating and playing are the most important to him, and he knows this better than anyone else. If you can't give him food or let him play, will he turn the sky over?
When he is a little older, he enlightens and reads. With the comparison of his peers, new needs will naturally arise. You can't deny his needs just because he is still young, thinking that his current needs are not important. "
Liu Zhao nodded and said, "You are right."
These words are not distracting, very perfunctory.
Gu Jiu rolled his eyes and vomited: "Brother Yu is like you, and many old people in the mansion say so. Brother Yu is so cute, why would anyone dislike it. It must be because you were too naughty and disobedient when you were a kid. That’s why it’s not likable."
"Haha... When I was a kid, I guess I was a master in the Fuzhong."
Looking at Liu Zhao's small eyes, he seemed quite proud.
Gu Jiu laughed, and then suddenly said: "I will try to make a bowl of water smooth."
She will have a second child, or even a third child.
She did not dare to say that she treated every child equally. But she will work hard to treat everyone equally and strive to achieve a level of integrity.
Of course, children have different personalities, and parents have different standards and requirements for their children.
Liu Zhao suddenly leaned in front of Gu Jiu, "Are you comforting me?"
Gu Jiu was startled, and tilted her head back, "You suddenly came over and frightened me. I won't comfort you, and you don't need comfort."
Liu Zhao smiled and pointed to the child, "Is he okay?"
"Very good, free development."
"It's too late." Liu Zhao is definitely a strict father, and he is never soft when he beats up a child.
Brother Yu has been beaten several times.
The child was born with a grudge.
Every time he was beaten by his father, I would say that he would not pay attention to his father for three days, Liu Zhao.
But after three days, he would still plunge into Liu Zhao's arms, acting like a baby and behaved. Just be good occasionally. Most of the time, Yu Ge'er was making his own decisions.
It takes a lot of patience to stand on a child with such a personality. Tiredness is the norm.
No wonder Queen Pei always said that Liu Zhao was unpleasant.
A disobedient child, in the eyes of his parents, always cannot get close.
Gu Jiu really likes Yu Ge'er's opinion.
"Children can't understand, but they can't be without their own ideas."
"In your eyes, everything is good for Brother Yu."
"Don't you think Yu'er is not good?" Gu Jiu asked him back.
Liu Zhao thought for a while, "It's pretty good, it's just a beating."
Gu Jiu laughed out loud, "How much do you want to beat him?"
I really want to!
Liu Zhao would not admit that Yu Ge'er's meaty buttocks made him feel very fulfilled.
He really doesn't mind being a strict father.
Gu Jiu was lying in a soft collapse and relaxed.
"What gift did you give the queen mother?"
"Just you saw it, two screens."
Gu Jiu was surprised, "Other than that, is there nothing else? I thought you would add something privately."
Liu Zhao shook his head, "No, it costs money."
Gu Jiu was speechless, "I will enter the palace tomorrow morning, and I will give my mother a gift again."
"You don't have to send it."
"Why don't I give it. I am a daughter-in-law, I should give a gift."
Liu Zhao frowned.
Gu Jiu said: "I know you can't get close to your mother, but only two screens are prepared for the New Year's gift. This is your fault. You will be criticized by others in terms of etiquette."
"Is my Royal Highness being criticized for less?" Liu Zhao didn't care.
Gu Jiu shook his head and said, "This is not what it used to be. You are a very weird person, and you obviously do very beautiful errands, and all the details are considered. But when you treat blood relatives, you are always perfunctory, making people unable to see you. The slightest sincerity. This is not good. In any case, you should also spend a little time thinking about the gift. You can't give a gift and let people gossip.
Liu Zhao laughed, "Because no matter how much energy is spent preparing gifts, it will not satisfy the other party."
"You have been perfunctory time and time again, then she will have more reason to fault you. It is difficult to stop others' mouths. We only ask for a clear conscience and do what we should do."
Liu Zhao took her hand, "I'm curious, why can you do everything?"
"Because it doesn't take much time to harvest more, why not do it?"
Gu Jiu gave him a white look, "Don't use your man's thinking to think about women. You have to listen to me when giving gifts."
"Well, I will listen to you from now on."
Gu Jiu nodded, the ru child can teach.
Liu Zhao sometimes thinks terribly for straight men.
Liu's family has a lot of stinks. I want to control everything, I just slap my face if I don't like it, and refuse to even go around a bit.
Please!
Queen Pei is not someone else, but a mother.
A word of filial piety, like Mount Tai, can't be treated with care.
Regardless of what they think in their hearts, face-saving efforts must be achieved.
It's not that it's not pleasing to the eye, you have to tear your face.
Mother and child, a community of interests, naturally need to be harmonious.
As the saying goes, there are no eternal enemies, only eternal interests.
Putting aside the emotional factors and treating Queen Pei as a partner of interest, all problems will be solved.
Therefore, when Gu Jiu faced Empress Pei, he always calmed down and never got angry.
Brother Yu was tired of playing and put the blocks one by one into the bamboo basket.
Then he drew down from the bed, climbed onto Gu Jiu's lap, took a trip into her arms, and planned to sleep.
Gu Jiu laughed and supported him, "Are you tired from playing?"
Brother Yu nodded, "I want to sleep."
"Let's wash it before going to bed. Look at your little hands, how dirty they are after playing with the blocks."
Brother Yu's eyes half-squinted, Gu Jiu let go, and he leaned back into her embrace.
Seeing that he was too sleepy, Gu Jiu quickly asked the maid to call hot water.
Together with Liu Zhao, she washed Yu Ge'er inside and out, changed into clean cashmere underwear, put them on the bed, and accompany him to sleep.