Vol 2 Chapter 1767: Parents need to accompany more

For Wu Hao and their return, Wu Jianhua and Zhang Xiaoman looked very happy.
As parents, how can they not like their children coming back to them? However, due to various reasons, the children can only temporarily let go of family affection and choose a career.
The children who work alone in the big cities have worked hard, and the parents who are hoping for their children to return home do the same.
The vast majority of children can spend only a few days with their parents during the year. Some may only spend a few days during the New Year, and some may go back during the long vacation.
However, such opportunities are still too few, and most young people have their own lives. After a long vacation, everyone did not want to travel thousands of kilometers, rush back to their parents for a few days, and then hurried back to work exhausted.
What's more, young people will continue to form their own families. After they have their own families, their attention will gradually be allocated to their own families, so that there will be fewer opportunities and time to go back and forth to their hometown.
If both husband and wife are only children, it means that the four elders of two families have to share the limited holiday of such a young couple. Who's going to go? How to arrange the time for the man or the woman?
Regardless of the distribution, both parents have less chance to see their children. In this traditional domestic culture, especially the cultural atmosphere of reunion and filial piety, these parents are undoubtedly the most miserable.
They worked hard for half their lives to train their children to become useful, but after becoming useful, these children all flew away, leaving only a pair of empty nest elderly people to live the rest of their lives alone.
Even so, these parents are still shining for their children. Many parents may want their children to have a house in a big city. These parents can be said to have exhausted their life savings.
But even so, these old people still miss their own children all the time. It's not easy to live by myself, but I still wonder whether the children in the distance are full or not wearing warm clothes.
He even uses the poor savings that he has finally saved to make up for his children. And myself, reluctant to eat, reluctant to wear, reluctant to use. Sometimes the inadvertent words that my child sends in the circle of friends will cause his parents to worry about them, sleep and eat for several days.
This is the parent, this is the domestic parent. They grew up with children and worked their lives for them. One pair, one generation after another, constitutes our country’s ethical and cultural cognition for thousands of years. Because of this, our splendid culture has been tempered and continued to this day. In the history of our country, so many evocative talents have been born.
Wu Hao, Lin Wei and Wu Tong came back, making this originally deserted home become lively again. Wu Jianhua and Zhang Xiaoman started preparing for their return this time more than a month in advance.
The bedding in their room was taken out to dry in advance, and the quilt and sheets were washed in advance. The whole house was cleaned up once and cleaned up.
In order to dress up the family, the two old men bought a lot from the market. In addition to buying a lot of flowers and plants, they also bought a lot of snacks for Wu Tong and their daughter-in-law Lin Wei.
Fear that there are additives in things bought in the supermarket, the two elderly people actually-->>
After traveling dozens of kilometers to the farm, I bought it myself and made it myself.
Knowing that Wu Hao doesn't like to eat these snacks, so he prepared a lot of delicious food for him. The mutton in autumn is the most fat, so Wu Jianhua went to the countryside to buy two goats that were raised by farmers. This semi-large goat meat is the most plump and tender. It is very suitable for stewing and braising, and it is also suitable for barbecue.
Every day at breakfast, lunch and lunch, I have exhausted my mind and changed the method to make all kinds of delicious food. Wu Hao's stepmother Zhang Xiaoman, in order to cater to the tastes of young people, listened to his father Wu Jianhua said that he started to learn a variety of cuisines in half a year.
As for what was not good at the beginning and what failed, it was the old couple who ate them by themselves. It is said that in order to make squirrel mandarin fish, the two old men ate squirrel mandarin fish for half a month. In the end, their father Wu Jianhua directly complained to Wu Hao and the others.
Wu Hao is really grateful for Zhang Xiaoman's stepmother. Although he still didn't call out his mother, he had already recognized this little mother in his heart. Perhaps I don't know when, the image of his mother in his heart has slowly become Zhang Xiaoman.
This time when Wu Hao came back, he found that his father Wu Jianhua and stepmother Zhang Xiaoman were obviously a bit older, and Wu Jianhua's head had more white hair. Zhang Xiaoman's eye wrinkles are also noticeable.
It stands to reason that Wu Tong, a girl who is not worrying, was successfully sent to the university. The two of them should not have to worry about it now, and the mood of life will be lighter.
But the situation seems to be the opposite. Without them playing around, the aging of the two elders is obviously accelerated. Sure enough, parents need to accompany them more. Only when the children are around can they become happy and happy. Even if the daily care is not easy, they always dislike it, but this kind of care, this kind of dislike, has long become a habit and a hobby. Suddenly lost, it feels like life is meaningless all of a sudden.
Wu Hao has repeatedly expressed the hope that his parents can come to Anxi to live with them. Their house is big enough, even if both parents live in, it is very spacious.
If parents are not used to living with them, they can also live in other places near their homes. With Wu Hao's current ability, it is easy to do this.
But ~EbookFREE.me~ For Wu Jianhua and Zhang Xiaoman, this is the hometown where they have lived for most of their lives. When they were old but had to move away, the two obviously couldn't accept some.
In particular, relatives and friends are here, and their ancestral tombs are also here. Traditionally, their homeland is hard to leave.
Wu Hao was also very helpless about this, but ended up to no avail. Sometimes he would think about it from another angle, why he selfishly asked his parents to leave his hometown where he lived for most of his life, and had to live in the city where he lived.
For what reason, this is your familiar city, but for parents, it is indeed a completely unfamiliar environment. The elderly are very poor in adapting to this new environment. Why can't we as children be considerate of them?
And why do you want your parents to compromise? Why don't you compromise? Why can't people who are children compromise once, give up their career and current life, go home and accompany their parents?
Because of work, because of life, because of a better future, because our road is still long. We always use this excuse to persuade ourselves again and again and paralyze ourselves. This is the normal state of life, but also the helplessness of life.