Chapter 1990: Not arrogant

After it was settled, Fang Zhiqiang and Li Xiaoxiao took the little girl and walked towards Zhang Dayou's house.
The sky gradually darkened. On the country roads, the melted snow turned into water, mixed with the soil, and the muddy roads were a little hard to walk.
Fang Zhiqiang took out his mobile phone and turned on the flashlight.
And Li Xiaoxiao was chatting with the girl at this time, "Xiaoyun, the woman just said about you like that, are you angry?"
"Don't be angry, sister, I'm used to it." The girl smiled disapprovingly, speaking very calmly.
From her tone, Li Xiaoxiao could hear that she did not care anymore.
To be precise, seeing her today seems to be completely different from the last time, Li Xiaoxiao guessed, this may have something to do with her delivery form.
After all, she used to endure other people's eyes and insults all the time, and no one wanted to be more successful than her.
Although she is a girl, Li Xiaoxiao knows that in her heart, she must especially want to be a respected person.
And now, she finally realized her first wish, which at least suffices to show that she can succeed! She has the qualifications to succeed!
It is precisely because of this that all the humiliation the girl has suffered in the past has become the driving force for her to move forward, and it also allows her to regain her self-confidence.
"Xiaoyun, elder sister is telling you something in the dim sum, do you have to remember it?" Li Xiaoxiao continued to say seriously.
"Hmm! Sister, you said!" The girl nodded very happily.
"Actually, everyone has their own position and role in this world. For the previous you, although you were born in this ordinary village, you lived with your grandpa at such a young age and were able to Grandpa took good care of him. At your age, it is already a very valuable existence. Many people are not as good as you!"
"So you can't feel that you are useless, you can't feel that you are inferior. Sometimes they say something about you. If you should resist, you must resist. Only by resisting can they realize that you are not so bully!"
After Li Xiaoxiao finished speaking, she looked sideways at the girl. The girl fell silent suddenly, and the smile on her face disappeared.
Mentioning the past is like lifting her scars once again, and it is impossible for her to be in pain.
"Xiaoyun, when one day, after you are truly successful, you will find that when you look back at the past, it is just a joke! Moreover, it is precisely because of that experience that you have a We must be determined to succeed. In many cases, we even have to thank ourselves for the setbacks we have encountered before!"
After the girl heard this, she suddenly looked up at Li Xiaoxiao. Although she still did not speak, Li Xiaoxiao could see from her gaze that she did listen.
"Actually, Xiaoyun, my sister used to be a person who was often criticized. You can ask your brother Fang. At that time, I was very stupid and couldn’t even ride a bicycle. So at that time they all said I was stupid, but I If I don’t take it to heart, I don’t know how to ride a bicycle because I have other advantages, and then I get better and better. Naturally, no one of them said I was stupid, and even praised me!"
Li Xiaoxiao rubbed the girl’s head, and the girl followed with a smile, and then asked earnestly:
Sister, it’s often said in books that we must tolerate others, be courteous, and be a good, civilized teenager, but sister, In our village, everyone did not do this, and I found that even if I did it all, it didn’t work. They would still look down on me and would still scold me often. Why?

These words caused Li Xiaoxiao to fall into a period of contemplation, because Li Xiaoxiao had never had such an experience. Even when he went to southern Yunnan, he encountered simple and kind-hearted people. He had never had such an experience.
But this experience, Fang Zhiqiang has.
"Xiaoyun, let my brother tell you this." Fang Zhiqiang said, "The world is big, and there are all kinds of people. We can't ask others, we can't change others, but we can be the kind of people we want to be. ."
"I gave an example. In the village, someone scolded you, but you didn't respond. They didn't think you were tolerant of others. Instead, they felt that you were weak and spineless, because in their consciousness, there was no existence at all. The word tolerance, because of their cultural qualities, is far from reaching your level."
"I know that when someone scolds you, you actually don't want to pay attention to the other person. You just think that even if you reason with the other person, they won't listen, right?"
"Yeah!" The girl nodded fiercely. She had tried more than once and twice, and the solution was the same every time, so she didn't even speak the truth and chose to be silent.
"Some people, just unreasonable people, to reason with them, don’t you play the piano to the cows? For such people, what we have to do is to save our own energy, not to care about them, nor to waste time on them, and you You know, your life is very long, such people will not be by your side for a long time. When you get better and better in the future, the people around you will also become better and better. Gradually, those people in the small circle before , It will fade out of your sight."
"So, you must insist on being yourself and not being assimilated by them, otherwise, you will still be like that group of people in the future."
After Fang Zhiqiang finished speaking, the girl finally realized that her grandfather was a person with a low level of education, and would not tell her so much. Even if she wanted to listen before, no one would tell her, teacher Not to speak.
After Fang Zhiqiang finished speaking, Li Xiaoxiao continued: "But Xiaoyun, I have to tell you one more thing, and you must also keep it in mind."
"Sister, say!" The first question in the girl's heart has been solved.
"My sister asked you, are you proud to be a student now? Are you proud?" Li Xiaoxiao asked, looking at the girl's eyes.
"Of course proud!" The girl answered without hesitation.
"But Sister wants to tell you, you can't be proud." Li Xiaoxiao said seriously.
Upon hearing this, the girl frowned in confusion, and the pride on her face gradually turned into doubt.
"Xiaoyun, it's just a college student, and it is far from determining your future life. This is just the starting point of life, do you know? So what you have to do at this time is not to be proud, but to bury your head and study hard. Ignoring all the distracting thoughts around you, those who used to scold you may now come back to praise you, praise you, you don’t care about these, because these are stumbling blocks on your growth, they will make you more and more Be proud, become more and more arrogant, and gradually lose yourself."
"Sister, I understand, don't worry, I will stick to my heart and will not be arrogant!"
The girl knew what Li Xiaoxiao wanted to express, she nodded very seriously and said.
"Well, no matter what time we arrive, we must be a person who is not arrogant or arrogant. When we are nothing, we must know that there is only one ourselves in the world. If we even look down on ourselves, who else can Consider yourself?"
"When we are successful, we need to know that our existence is to contribute to this society, to contribute to the convenience of others, and to pay the knowledge we have learned. We are not great people, just people who serve others. In this way, we can truly be a successful person without arrogance or rashness!"
After Li Xiaoxiao finished speaking, the three also arrived at Zhang Dayou's house.
The girl did not open the door in a hurry, but held Li Xiaoxiao and Fang Zhiqiang's hands tightly.
She looked at Li Xiaoxiao seriously, and after pondering for a long time, she suddenly said in a sobbing tone: "Sister...Thank you for telling me something like this today. Otherwise, I might never hear such a thing in my life... …"
"Stupid girl, brother and sister will always be your brother and sister, if you have anything in the future, just call us, we welcome you anytime!"
Li Xiaoxiao gently took the girl into her arms and said softly.
"Hmm! Don't worry, I will remember your words firmly and never forget them forever!" Xiaoyun said word by word, nestled in Li Xiaoxiao's arms.
"In fact, brother and sister are still one thing, I want to discuss with you, I don't know if you will agree." Li Xiaoxiao gently touched the girl's head and continued.