Chapter 2405: got engaged

"It's not... Uncle..." The bald head obviously couldn't react. What I had just said was very clear, but looking at the appearance of Linger's father, it was obviously completely different from what I had expected.
"I know what you want to say. I think we shouldn't be too rigid at this time. No one can tell what the future will be like. I think whether my daughter will be happy in the future depends mainly on it. What the son-in-law does now depends on what kind of attitude the son-in-law has towards my daughter now."
"You may not understand. You said that just now. Why would I still agree to let you get engaged? In fact, from the words you just said, it is not difficult to see that you really want to treat me. Good girl, this alone is enough. I also believe that you will change something for Ling'er in the future. Even if you really can’t change it, I don’t think that is a shortcoming. A man, after all, it belongs to him. Others may not understand the things to do, but as ourselves, we must understand ourselves, support ourselves, and stick to it consistently!"
Ling'er’s father’s words completely overflowed with bald head emotions. Every word he said was bald head’s heartfelt words. Bald head even said this to others once, but few people can truly understand himself. Few, but now, these words of Linger's father are so pertinent in every sentence, as if he can understand all the thoughts in his heart.
"I..." The bald head was already crying.
Looking at the appearance of the bald head, Ling'er's father couldn't help but slowly leaned forward, and then took the bald body into his arms, as if he were treating his own daughter, gently comforting: "From now on, Someone will understand your ideas."
At this moment, Nan Ling'er and Ling'er's mother came back suddenly. Seeing this scene, not only Ling'er's mother was stunned, but even Nan Ling'er looked at the scene in disbelief.
In her impression, her family belonged to Yan father and loving mother, but when she saw her father turning back, how did she look like Yan father?
"Dad... what are you?" Nan Ling'er immediately covered her mouth, looked at her father in disbelief, and asked.
Ling'er's father heard the sound, and then turned his head. After he was ready, his expression became solemn again. Then he looked at Nan Ling'er and said: "Ling'er, I originally thought you had grown up, but now it seems, You are still like a child. You haven't really understood him or empathized. It seems that you haven't remembered the teachings I taught you before."
"I..." Nan Ling'er was completely stunned. Her father had only met the bald head a few times. How could she make her feel like a daughter-in-law who is about to marry into their family? But the bald head has become a natural son of others?
"I said her dad! What do you mean by this? It's all right to work with him, but our daughter is all wrong?" Linger's mother obviously couldn't listen anymore. She was always on her daughter's side. No matter what happens, as long as anyone makes her daughter unhappy, she thinks it is whose fault.
"Listen to me first." Linger's father still said calmly, and then slowly got up. When she was about to speak again, Linger's mother suddenly raised her volume and interrupted again: "What else to say? I always think that you are not good to your daughter. Isn’t this daughter your own? Today, it is still for an outsider to criticize her daughter? The daughter has grown up, and she has her own criteria for judging right and wrong. Do you want to listen to your old-fashioned rhetoric for a lifetime?!"
"Can you stop talking!" Linger's father's sudden high pitch made everyone present stunned. Ling'er's mother couldn't help but pause. Ling'er's father is a person who is not easy to get angry, even if he has been to Nan Ling. He is so harsh, but he has never spoken in such a high volume.
"You..." Ling'er's mother was speechless for a long time, but she couldn't say a complete sentence.
"Do you think I'm fierce to my daughter and harsh to my daughter, is that all for her? Do you think that you doting on your daughter is unreasonable, is that good to her? Have you never noticed that Ling'er can have it now? Why are these three upright views? You are right. Ling'er is indeed an adult now. Whenever you listen to her, you feel that what she says makes sense, but have you ever wondered why? She was born as a blank sheet of paper. Apart from the school education, who has always influenced her?"
"Since that's all for today, Linger, I also want to hear what you think of this matter." Linger's father suddenly stopped and looked at Nan Linger as he spoke.
Nan Ling'er was also stunned at the moment. In her impression, her father was in the image of a strict father, but in fact, he did not really betray herself several times. Every time he was angry, his words still seemed calm. , But the words that came out made him unable to refute.
"I..." Nan Linger was stunned. After sorting out her emotions, she finally said: "I know that bald head and I are not the same person. Since I chose him, I should accept him to do something I don’t want. What he is willing to do, after all, he has his own three views and his own choices, and I cannot interfere. Thinking about it carefully, it is indeed because of my selfishness that I want him to become the kind of person I imagined. , But I didn’t think about making myself the one who understands him.

I have to say that these words of Ling'er's father still had a relatively large impact on Nan Ling'er, making her sober up instantly.
Ling'er's mother on the side was still completely dumbfounded. She looked at her daughter who had just made an aggrieved expression. Now that she has become so open-minded, she is also somewhat overwhelmed.
However, for her, right and wrong will never change. As long as her daughter is unhappy, it is wrong, and as long as her daughter is happy, it is naturally right.
Seeing Nan Ling'er's completely relieved expression at this moment, Ling'er's mother also said helplessly: "You are all good people, and you are all high-level. Only I am the one who doesn't understand anything!"
Ling'er’s father ignored her at the moment. He nodded seriously in response to Nan Ling'er’s reply, and then said: "Ling'er, I chose him not because of how much I like him. You should Knowing me, when I was young, I was the most annoying of these social gangsters. I chose him because he really loves you. If you ask me why I can realize this, I can tell you that he just said to me Those words reminded me of my back then, when facing your grandparents, I had similar thoughts in my heart, but at that time, I did not say them."
"Speaking of this, you may have to ask again. Over the years, you haven't seen how much I love your mother, but in fact, marriage is not about falling in love. The love after marriage is embodied in oil, salt, sauce and vinegar. It’s true that I can bear her unreasonable harassment, and can also tolerate her mischief, and can accommodate her little princess temper for so many years, not because of how good I really am, but because I love her."
Ling'er's father took advantage of this opportunity to show her even Bai. He just made Ling'er's mother unhappy. At this moment, Ling'er's mother doesn't remember at all, because he just couldn't bear what he said just now. She blushed a little, after all, she was already such a big person, she was still a little embarrassed to say these things in front of the child.
"I'm so old, why are you still talking about this..." Linger's mother couldn't help but twisted.
"Because we have all reached this age, this is even more important."
Linger’s father said seriously again: "Ling’er, maybe you don’t realize it now, but after marriage you will understand that marriage is completely different from what you imagined. At our age, you can fight like me and your mother. There are not many marriages that can't break up. Some of them seem to be in harmony, while some marriages are dead in name. In daily life, it's just as simple as having a meal together."
Nan Ling'er listened to her father's words earnestly. For some reason, many children felt that their parents were nagging, but Nan Ling'er never felt that her father was nagging. When preaching, Nan Ling'er listened very seriously. She explained to herself that what her father said was really reasonable.
"You said he went out this time to help a friend. I just asked. His friend is the former president of Mingda Group, Fang Zhiqiang. This young man is a person I admire very much. With my own strength, he led Mingda through various difficulties. This time Mingda was killed because he did not appear in time. If not, I believe Mingda will not fall like this."
"A man, to be able to do everything for his friend, his character will not be wrong, so I chose him."
Linger's father was very straightforward, and the bald head on the side could not help but nod his head again and again, and at this moment, Linger's father looked at the bald head again, making the bald head startled.
"I will tell you here today, even if it’s the day you get married, I won’t tell you anything. I’m not going to tell you. I’ll be nice to my daughter, and I won’t ask you to accommodate her. , Tolerate her. Because these are based on one point: love, I believe that as long as you love her, you will naturally know how you should treat her instead of listening to what I said."
Hearing this, the bald head couldn't help nodding, but didn't say anything. He felt that Linger's father's thoughts were very similar to him, and he didn't like to express many things.
He has seen many new couples who swear each other when they get married. They are very touching, but in fact, he doesn't think those are useful, just like the simple words of Linger’s father just now, as long as you love her, naturally Knowing how to treat her, not as simple as saying something touching.
"Ling'er, I just heard that you are going to break up?" The words to say are almost the same. Ling'er's father immediately turned his attention to Nan Ling'er. Next, it was time to solve the problem.
When Nan Ling'er heard the words, she couldn't help but stroke her hair, and then she couldn't speak.
"In my opinion, I don't want to break up. Today, I and your mother have finished the inspection. This son-in-law is very good. If you can marry him, I and your mother can rest assured."
When Ling'er's mother heard this, she immediately wanted to express her opinion again. After all, she had so much opinion about her son-in-law before. Now if she suddenly changes her attitude, doesn't it seem that she is too unintentional?
"I……"
But when Ling'er’s mother’s voice just came out, Ling’er’s father said again: "But Linger, you have to take what I said to you just now, you should also take it to heart. The days will be long, and you can’t be that wayward all the time Selfishness, love is mutual. When people pay for you, you should also respond, instead of blindly letting people accommodate you and consider you, understand?"
"Well! Dad I know!" Nan Ling'er nodded fiercely, as she had won.
Linger's mother on the side saw that she had been completely ignored, and then she could only sigh helplessly.
"Her mother, what do you think?" It was a coincidence. At this moment, Linger's father looked at her with a smile and asked.
Ling'er's mother raised her eyes and looked around. She didn't know what she was looking at, and then nodded and said, "Well, I think...her dad is right!"