Chapter 20: Twenty times being attacked:

Until the second week, Mr. Li never returned, and his child Li Xiang disappeared abruptly one day, as if they never appeared, as if a character in a painting was completely wiped out, who Don't remember.
Lu Jianyan has encountered this situation before, so even if he doesn't know the principle, he is not panic.
Lu Jianyan never agreed on the problem of cooperation with the drug-free medicine. He couldn't say why. It was a sixth sense. He always felt that the drug-free medicine was more dangerous and dangerous than what he showed.
The patience of the medicine was not exhausted, so the two went to kindergarten together during the day and secretly met at night.
In frequent exchanges, Lu Jianyan helped solve another mystery smoothly: How did the medicine without any trouble sneak into Lu's house?
Answer: Of course it was because someone helped him.
The medicine is invincible and it is amazing. It is only six years old. With short arms and short legs, Lu Jianyan Gao's body shape is not available. The Lu family is not just anyone-just by means of a secret passage-where you want to come and want to go, if it is really so easy for a child to come back and forth several times, then the Lu family ’s bodyguards The team can resign with all blame.
The main reliance on medicine is the professional response from the pharmacist and the pampering of two parents.
Reasonably, it is understandable that the parents of the pharmacist are infatuated with him because of his illness. But Lu Da Lu Mom? Really kidding? Lu Jianyan felt greatly frightened. It's still possible for Father Lu, but it's unimaginable for Mother Lu to participate. As a son who grew up under the mother's toughlove, Lu Jianyan had to shake M to say something, this must be strange!
Have it?
Of course there is!
Since Lu Jianyan was called a parent by the kindergarten director last time, mother Lu has been paying special attention to the eldest son's every move, carefully analyzing every sentence, even every expression, and doing all she can to the son. The bottom line is good, and I will continue to reflect on whether I am really too harsh.
And all this starts from why mother Lu was called to her parents.
The kindergarten principal showed Lu Jianyan a video of Lu Jianyan's "self-abuse", that is, when Lu Jianyan had just been reborn, she struck her own section in order to confirm the truth.
As mentioned earlier, cameras are everywhere in Montessori kindergarten, and the bedrooms are no exception (only the bathroom and the locker room have cameras only at the door). The responsible lunch break teacher noticed that Lu Jianyan was wrong, and while the director wanted to adjust In the video of the floor fight, Lu Jianyan's anomaly was mentioned, and then I saw this.
This kind of thing seems impossible to adults this time.
"Yan Yan's performance in school is normal. We have deliberately adjusted his monitoring these days and there are no abnormalities. If you need, we can also give you a copy. But we believe this is not sleepless It ’s impossible to only respond to this yi times. If it is a sudden imagination, he will not do it so smoothly, so purposefully, and it is just the time for the teacher to go out. I want to ask you to understand Is there anything wrong with Yan Yan at home? "
Although the principal did not speak directly, in fact, mother Lu had similar thoughts. Lu Jianyan's reaction was a bit masochistic.
Lu Muzi carefully thought about it in her head, but shook her head: "Yan Yan is not different from usual at home, at least when I see it."
"Is there any change in the family or the friends around him? It is similar to arguing with friends, family changes or something."
Mother Lu frowned, apparently thinking of something. If you must say something happened recently at home, it is that she and her husband gave birth to their common child.
This story tells us that we can never underestimate any minor changes that will cause much follow-up. If Lu Jianyan knew that it was just that he habitually stumbled himself a few times during his rebirth, his mother would worry about the disorder, and he would be very guilty. Unfortunately, he didn't know.
Mother Lu was very worried about her son's "masochism", but what she was most worried about was that her son would have such outrageous behavior, which was caused by the extra brother Lu at home.
It stands to reason that as a multi-member family member who already has an older sister on it, Lu Jianyan's exclusion of his brother should not be so horrible. but……
The situation of the Lu family is quite special. They are actually a reorganized family. Before Lu and Mom met each other, they had a less enjoyable marriage experience. These past events helped them quickly understand each other's pain, and also prompted them to build deeper relationships. But no matter how suitable their second marriage is, they cannot avoid the problems brought about by the reorganization of the family.
For example, Sister Lu was not born to Mother Lu, which is why she and Mother Lu have no similarities. Only ghosts can be seen like it.
Regarding this matter, Sister Lu clearly knew that, compared to her biological mother who kept feeding her an annoying ya0 just because she thought she was crying, of course, she liked Lu mother who was everything around her. Because of the past that Sister Lu encountered, Mother Lu couldn't help but want to follow her.
Lu Jianyan also knew this very clearly, because no matter who was at home, he did not conceal the matter, or it was proposed by sister Lu. In elementary school, she had watched many dog ​​blood dramas on TV and concluded An experience-no matter what kind of drama conflict, dog blood misunderstanding, in the final analysis, only one sentence, everyone is unwilling to speak well. Have to hide it until a bigger hidden danger erupts.
Sister Lu did not have the intention to be such a protagonist, and Lu and Dad naturally respected all the ideas of Sister Lu.
But because of this, from the subjective feelings of Lu Jianyan, he rarely felt the emotional threat from the eldest sister, even if mother Lu explicitly told her son that if sister Lu is good enough, he would get most of the directors and the Hanoi Lu family. Admit it, then Sister Lu will be the undisputed heir.
Compared to blood, the Lu family valued ability more. Mother Lu also voted for it.
In fact, Lu Jianyan always felt that Ms. Lu preferred Sister Lu more because she was her only daughter.
But Lu Jianyan would not be jealous of Sister Lu anyway, because Sister Lu already existed when he was born, and she was like parents to Lu Jianyan.
Brother Lu is different. He is the outsider and aggressor from Lu Jianyan's life. He took away the attention of his parents and sisters to Lu Jianyan, and took up the time that his family could bring Landing Yan to play. Lu Jianyan even because My brother was told to be quieter while he was sleeping.
Sister Lu has gone through a period when a baby needs special care (when Lu Jianyan was born), and she adapts quickly. Lu Jianyan may not be necessary. He may even feel that this is a kind of situation where her sister does not stand by him. "Betrayal" on the side.
Even though Mother Lu has done as much as possible, but who knows whether her usual actions will lead to misunderstanding of her son?
When children are not sensible, it is always difficult to understand the real meaning behind some of the parents' slightly coercive actions.
The principal of the kindergarten also gave another idea. Although Father Lu and Mother Lu had already consulted their daughter and son before conceiving their third child, they only confirmed their 100% agreement and acceptance before they started. Preparing for pregnancy and having children. But the mood of the child changes a lot. Perhaps the moment before, Lu Jianyan sincerely wanted to have a brother to play with him, but the next moment he didn't like his brother's crying.
It is even possible that Lu Jianyan had agreed to have a younger brother, but he was still in the stage of ignorance and did not really understand how much trouble and change a new life would bring to his life.
"Maybe there is something in these changes that Yan Yan doesn't like. But he has promised that you will accept the third child. Such inconsistencies have caused a lot of psychological pressure on Yan Yan. After all, Yan Yan has always been a sensible person. Obedient child, on the one hand, he doesn't want to be indifferent, but on the other hand, he really can't accept it. He can't adjust his emotions at all, and he suppresses and suppresses ... boom. "
The principal knew about the second marriage between mother Lu and father Lu. At that time, sister Lu also graduated from this kindergarten. She was so happy and proud to say to everyone that she had a new mother who was very good to her. Fairy tale books are deceptive! Not all stepmothers are vicious!
Mother Lu thought that she would show more love to her children, and her older son would gradually get better.
However, after knowing the medicine father and mother, Lu mother had to admit a reality. Some children's psychological problems are actually pathological, and they directly affect genes and nerves. This is not a casual sentence. Just click on it ". Those who say such things are actually extremely irresponsible.
After confirming that the medicine was not in trouble and could not bring more changes to Lu Jianyan, mother Lu finally decided to take her son for psychological counseling.
The psychiatrist you are looking for is an expert who has been giving medicines without a problem to do psychological counseling.
Medicine's special extreme has determined that he has to check his mental health regularly since he was very young, lest he go on an irreversible path. It was only after many years of searching and comparison that Yaomu Mommy identified this outstanding psychiatrist, and the other party returned to China with the pharmacist. If it weren't for the relationship with the medicine mother, it would be unlikely that the other party would take the time to provide psychological counseling to Lu Jianyan.
However, the first thing I talked to the doctor was not Lu Jianyan, but Ms. Lu. She briefly explained the situation of their family.
"Listening to your description, there are indeed some minor problems."
Even Sister Lu, who has a big personality, has expressed frankly her dissatisfaction with her new brother at home, like he always cries, is very noisy, or thinks his brother is a little ugly.
But this is a contradiction between children that normal multi-child families will face.
On the contrary, like Lu Jianyan, it was strange that he did not complain about his brother at all. Mother Lu interpreted the various performances of Lu Jianyan's rebirth as having been struggling to suppress her dissatisfaction with her brother.
If Lu Jianyan knew that he was so identified as having a psychological problem, he would definitely say: Not to complain, it was already complained before the time went back! He didn't like repeated complaints, it was a childish thing for a child.
Is maturity wrong? !!