Vol 3 Chapter 4: 1 sing 1 sum of mother and son

Qingu never thought about it: Oh, I’m getting older and my children are older, so I should let my children serve me, so I should just stretch out my hands and open my mouth.
No, even in her last 80s, she never thought about asking her children to leave their lives to serve her.
She willingly gave birth to several children because she wanted them to have a happy and fulfilling life, so that they could have a good life and experience the wonderful world.
Rather than "raising children to guard against old age", the purpose of having children is to allow them to support themselves in the future.
It's like a tool. It takes a lot of effort to make a stool, just let yourself sit... Everything is aimed at yourself as the starting point.
It's not about raising children to guard against the old. After all, most people have not yet reached the heights Qingu once (winners in life), and they can fully organize their lives on their own without adding burden to their children and grandchildren.
It was like when Qin Gu faced death at the end, she accepted all that very calmly. Although the doctor said there was hope through the operation, she was determined not to have that hope.
If the eyes cannot see and cannot perceive the colors of this world;
If the ear cannot hear and cannot hear the sound of this world;
If the mouth cannot eat and cannot taste the taste of this world;
If you can’t speak and cannot communicate with the world;
If the body can't act and control her own behavior... Such a life, she would rather not!
Therefore, Qin Gu is determined not to let others use a knife to intubate himself...
Therefore, looking at Zheng Lin from an older mentality, even though each physical experience is different, the mentality and thinking are different. 35xs
But the other party wants to use this method to win over people's hearts, so that she can serve the family like the client?
No, that is absolutely impossible!
In Qingu's own opinion, since they have entered into a marriage, the two must have a basis for feelings.
Well, take 10,000 steps, even if the other party has an excuse that this is an arranged marriage and has no feelings.
You can get a divorce. Since you are not divorced, you still need to exist in this marriage. Achieve the most basic loyalty to marriage.
But what's the matter with the client?
According to Qingu's information, in this time and space, at least in the current social background, it is not the rule of three wives and four concubines.
The wife of the Ming Media who is currently married hangs at home to serve his mother, but he brought a "true love" woman back from outside, and asked his wife to take care of this woman and give birth?
And this wife has to work hard to serve this family? It's ridiculous. 35xs
As for Zheng Lin, from her point of view, whether it is the love and tolerance of her son, or the desire to keep the daughter-in-law to keep this family... Strictly speaking, it is to keep a free labor who can take care of her with no complaints.
These are all right.
Even the thinking here is deeply rooted in the belief that everything for a wife to serve her in-laws is justified.
But as a person who had been a mother-in-law, Qingu really didn't think it was justified for her daughter-in-law to take care of her.
The marriage between the daughter-in-law and the son is that the two of them have a relationship foundation, and they are their own little family.
The daughter-in-law takes care of herself based on her love for her son (and the son is worthy of her love).
Therefore, in a situation like the client, there is no feeling at all with this husband, but the mother-in-law uses feelings as a threat.
"I treat you like a daughter", "I know you work hard", "This family depends on you", "I can't live without you" to let the client stay and serve this family, how selfish it is.
Qingu doesn't have the kind of "respecting the old and loving the young." She feels that you should respect and respect you when you are old. She is extremely disgusted with such emotional and moral kidnapping.
Qingu retracted his thoughts, closed his hearing decisively, and raised his body quietly...The client's body didn't know how long he hadn't slept once, and a feeling of exhaustion came from his whole body.
Qingu really fell asleep soon.
I don't know how long it has been before, Qin Gu was awakened by a thunderous rebuke.
Opening his eyes, he saw a short poked man with a horoscope beard standing next to her bed, yelling and attacking.
Oh, it turns out that this man is Zheng Genbin, the client's husband.
I thought that the yushu grew up in the wind and was suave, and the client was so fond of them and willing to serve them as a slave.
The man was about to rush to beat the woman on the bed, while Zheng Lin stopped by and shouted at Qingu, "Yuxiu, you go, you go... I can't stop this bull..."
Then Zheng Lin tried to persuade Zheng Binggen: "Binggen, Yuxiu has just woke up, don’t be stupid...Binggen, anyway, look at Yuxiu’s housework and take care of me these years. For the sake of her, you must not beat her, she is like my daughter..."
The meaning is to let Qin Gu get up and run away quickly, so as not to be beaten by her son~EbookFREE.me~ What Qingu saw is that Zheng Lin is very weak in front of her, take two steps and rest three times. Kind of.
Even if this man is short poked, it is definitely not something an old and weak woman can stop.
From Qingu's point of view, it is obvious that two people are playing double acting there.
However, the previous client was very fond of this.
For women, at least most women, they are not afraid of suffering in the husband's house. As long as someone understands that they feel sorry for them, they will feel very comforted and contented.
However, many times, people just say a few words like this.
(In fact, it is a better situation to be able to say a couple of ‘good’ words to the wife. It is the more proficient mother-in-law who treats the daughter-in-law like this, and most often they don’t even have a word of ‘good’.)
Qingu has not experienced anything and has not seen anything, so she does not feel that she is grateful to each other in a word or two.
She was still thinking about how to find this pair of scumbags to settle accounts. After all, she put such a big green hat on her client's head. He felt that she had the ability to love and is romantic, and you can leave. Marriage, whatever you do.
Since you want to occupy this position and let me be your servant, then you should pay the corresponding price.
Unexpectedly, this man would come to the door by himself.
In fact, Qingu slept for a long time this time, sleeping for two days.
That Yue Shiqin has happened to have a severe fetal movement in the past few days. He started to have labor pains yesterday.
Shocked, everyone circled her around.