Chapter 505: proposal

"You watch and you still watch TV. Everything is for the sake of others. When can you really think about it for yourself? Now that you are so tired of yourself, if you say that you will have to Will you continue to worry about other people? Obviously these things will be unrealistic.
Anyway, I think it’s best for you to slowly pull these things out of your hands. Otherwise, you yourself will always be restrained by these little things. What else will you use to cultivate in the future? What own time? Obviously, if you continue to be like this, in the future, you can only help them to do these messy little things, and there is no time to do their own things by yourself. Obviously, this is not worth it no matter what the calculation. Well, you are right, although it may indeed be easy for them.
And in fact, it still has a very big impact on you, so doing these things at this time usually also needs to be considered. I have indeed heard you say, I also know how your past is, so I know that you may not think that these things he did before will make you very tired, but in fact, have you ever thought that you used to say that you are Ye Tian’s maid, but you only serve him alone, and you too Just take care of him alone.
But now suddenly there are so many people. Have you ever wondered if you alone have so much energy and so much time to take care of so many people in all aspects. If you don’t If you have that time and that energy, don't take care of this porcelain work.
Moreover, they are not the children of the rich family, nor the eldest sons. Before you, they must be very handy in doing these things. It is only because of you that they did these things. It will become very easy.
Now you have cleared all their affairs to your sister as soon as you come here, but they just don’t have to worry about anything, but if you say that you have to do things by yourself in the future, will they? It becomes like a child, unable to do anything.
In fact, a lot of times, you may feel that you are helping them, but in fact, if you leave, you can be regarded as being on the beach. After all, there are people who have been relying on others to help themselves make the world after they are so old. The trivial matters in life, almost everything is arranged in an orderly manner, where do they have the time and opportunity to train themselves to think about these things in every aspect? So I also hope that you can also think about it, after all, you may indeed have this ability. You have to do these things well, but you also have to think about them. If you don’t have the time or energy in the future, then who else will help them do these things? He is obviously impossible, and they are not the kind of people who can get rich and can buy so many things.
And if they return to their homes in the future, it will definitely be impossible. Most of them will be accompanied by maids, so if you do so much for them now, it may make them wonder why you will be in the future. If you don’t follow them to do these things, if they always push these things on you, and it feels like you should do them, do you think you will feel comfortable in your heart? You are only helping you, but their affairs are actually In the end, it will become that you must help them do these things. Obviously, the conditions and results of these two sentences will become completely different in the end. I hope you can let them know that you do them for them. Doing these things can make them feel grateful to you.
After all you have done so many things, they should be thankful and thank you, and they should also learn to share it by themselves, not that as long as you come, everything will become very easy, anyway. Well, I don't want them to think like this. "
In fact, to be honest, all these things Jia Qingqing said were all because of the experience he had when he was young. When he was young, because of his poor health, he said that he would always need someone by his side, and also because of his special physical condition. For the sake of, so at that time, almost twenty-four hours, there was a need for someone to be there, and someone needed to take care of it, otherwise, a little thing might cause the whole body to collapse completely. So almost even if it’s me, I rely on the people in my family to take care of me little by little. Even though I am now this old, if I don’t have Ye Tian, ​​I might still be like before. To grow a life, the whole person is completely sick, and there is no ability to take care of himself. Obviously, Jia Qingqing hates that kind of life and that feeling very much, and that way will only make Jia Qingqing feel like a cripple.
"I think you should also know what I was like before. To be honest, I really don't want to mention that gloomy history. After all, the way I was before really made the people in my family bear too much for me. At that time, they basically couldn’t do anything, and they didn’t have any time of their own. They basically stayed with me 24 hours a day, and I was afraid of being the one who took care of me. If you don't pay attention, you will get hurt again, or you will die immediately.
Maybe now their health is indeed much better than mine, so naturally there is no need to have others take care of them, but obviously, to be honest, there is a very lazy element in my heart. It’s inside, so when they do these things, they naturally think in their hearts that if someone can help me, then I can definitely do less, then I don’t have to do these things anymore, so they say The idea must be like this, but I don’t hope that because of their ideas, you just happen to have them again, so you become the person who can do things for them. Obviously, you will be affected in the end. People will only be you, and in the end, as long as you don’t help them to do these things, you won’t get any benefit at all, but instead will make them think that what you did was very wrong. Why did you do it before? But now they don’t do it?
I naturally want you to think clearly about these things. I didn’t mean to scold you. After all, I know that if I talk about you now, I might not be qualified. After all, I have a lot of places. Didn't do it right, but I know this. I definitely want to tell you, as your best female friend. "