Chapter 3393: Covered with water

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The woman quickly shook her head and waved her hand: "We have always been poor people. Where are the children of the poor people who are spoiled, and the children of the poor people are all suffering and growing up with grievances ... The spoiling is the business of the rich and wealthy. "
"Doting does not mean material." Xu Yun said seriously: "Doting refers to spiritual and educational. Many rich children born with a golden spoon in their childhood have always got the best material life. , And was not spoiled, and very sensible, knowing what is grateful. "
The woman was stunned for a moment. This was a truth she had never heard of before.
Doting is not physical, but spiritual?
"Perhaps you have always owed him materially, but you have always spoiled him mentally." Xu Yun said: "If not, he will not be what he is today."
"He is very good, he is a very sensible child." The woman quickly said good things to her son.
"It's very sensible? If it wasn't me who came to me today, but President Song, I believe he would not continue to use him." Xu Yun said politely: "If he is my driver, I will also be indifferent. Fire him without hesitation. "
The woman ’s expression was obviously surprised: "Why ... why ...?"
"The reason is simple. Because he doesn't take the most basic filial piety seriously, he will definitely not be loyal to his work, his position, and even less likely to be loyal to his company or his boss." Xu Yundao said: " Can you understand such a simple truth? "
The woman shook her head.
"Then I think about it and say it more simply." Xu Yun is not impatient. If this is a woman's son, I'm afraid it will already be impatient?
There are really few children who are impatient with their parents, and even poor.
Xu Yun continued: "You, as his mother, have nurtured him so hard, since he was so difficult to pull him to today, he is not grateful to you. Then I, as a boss, just give him a salary to let him live He has n’t taken care of his other things, and he certainly wo n’t be grateful to me. You said, why would a boss like me reuse this kind of employee who does n’t know how to be grateful?

The woman nodded suddenly, and at this moment she really understood the meaning of Xu Yun's words.
"So I said, if I have such an employee, I will definitely not reuse it." Xu Yun said: "People who can't even write filial characters will never write loyalty. Why should I let such people do it for me what about work?"
The woman bowed her head in shame.
Think about her education for her son ...
Xu Yun is right. She is a typical kind of parent who spoils children mentally. Her spoiling of her son is unconditional. Although there will never be material satisfaction, she will always be spoiled mentally.
Since she was a child, she would not let her son suffer any grievances beyond material.
Because she always felt that her son had been aggrieved materially, she could no longer be aggrieved in other ways.
It is precisely this practice that makes this guy who has been indulged mentally will never be grateful for his mother's care for him.
He had never thought about how difficult it was for his mother to take care of him alone and raise him, but instead felt that his mother was sorry for him and made him so difficult.
The initial error of all these lies not in him, but in the education of the mother. It is the mother who keeps emphasizing that she is sorry for him. It is the mother who keeps emphasizing because she made him so difficult.
So, subtlely, he thought this way, thinking that everything was the mother ’s fault, and the mother had always owed him the debt! Not gracious with him!
"Your son is like you are today. It's your fault that you have no filial piety to you." Xu Yun said: "We have a saying in China that we are not filial to our father. Parents, we should sometimes think more about it.
At this time, the driver bought the coffee back.
Xu Yun took a cup of coffee and handed it to the woman, and the woman's first reaction was to give her son a drink, because the son only bought two cups.
But at this time, Xu Yun's eyes fell on the woman: "Hua Xia also has a sentence called filial son under the stick. If some of the children are not things, it really doesn't matter if they swear a few words. "
"I see." The woman nodded.
The driver was a little ignorant and didn't understand what they said.
"If you feel that my mother has embarrassed you, then you will not be my mother in the future." The woman suddenly said to her son: "You will be like this. It is a mistake of my education. I will bear all the consequences."
"Mom? What do you mean by that?" This was a long time "mom" from him. It didn't matter to him, but his mother was now in tears.
The woman turned and left, throwing away the coffee in her hand.
The driver is even more embarrassed this time, thinking you will not drink it for me! This cup of coffee is 15,000 won! Because Xu Yun wanted it, he didn't dare to buy the cheapest and most expensive coffee.
To know that 15,000 won is enough for him to eat a very, very large meal, he has never been willing to spend more than 5,000 won for a meal!
Although he took the invoice to reimburse the money, he still felt distressed!
Fifteen thousand won, I can buy several Chinese cabbage.
"Mom ... what do you mean?" Although he called Mom, he still heard some complaints in his tone, as if the mother's behavior in front of Xu Yun did not give him the so-called face, which made him feel very Embarrassed.
So he was a little uncomfortable.
But the woman never looked back at him again.
Only when a close relative is about to "leave" himself will he find how precious this "close relative" is ... so when his mother no longer ignores him, his heart is really lost!
This kind of taste is uncomfortable, and it is even more uncomfortable than the kind of feeling that he didn't want his mother to appear, but when his mother appeared, he lost face.
"It's hard to cover the water." Xu Yun said with a cup of coffee: "The cup of coffee is spilled. Can you put the spilled coffee back into the cup?"
"Of course not." The driver answered without even thinking about it. There was no need to think about this question at all.
Xu Yun nodded: "Sometimes, the same is true of the family. When you think it's okay, you can hurt it unscrupulously, but when your family is like this cup of coffee, it is difficult to find it back."
The driver's throat was loosened. Although he was a little worried, he felt Xu Yun's words were alarmist.
After all, it was a fuck! He didn't believe his mother would neglect him.
"You have been unscrupulously neglecting your own mother, did you suddenly think that when your mother is about to neglect you, you will still feel very lost?" Xu Yun smiled: "This is family, and you are today It is precisely this most precious feeling that is lost. "
"I ... I will not lose." The driver naturally refused to admit.
"In the past, you didn't call her mother, she had to obey you. And today you called her, she didn't care about you anymore." Xu Yun said: "Your family relationship seems to have fallen into a very deep crisis. Make up for it, maybe there is a possibility of getting it back. "
"What did you tell my mother?" The driver couldn't understand.
"I just told her that your filial piety was caused by her behavior. And your filial piety will become a roadblock in your work and career, because no boss will train an unfilial employee." Xu Yundao.
Perhaps the driver has not been able to understand his mother's pains so far.
Her mother can come down hard, in fact, hope that he can wake up and understand what is "filial piety", so that he will not be fired by the boss in the future ... When I think of this, even if the son calls her "mother", She ignored it too.
Xu Yun ’s education is very thorough. She knows that if she ca n’t give her enough lessons, her son wo n’t be sober and conscious.
Xu Yun looked at the "cruel mother" who left without looking back, and only admiration remained in her heart.
The driver was completely stunned and stayed where he didn't know what to do.
Xu Yun waved him back to the car: "Don't stay in such a place where you can see the warmth and sadness of the society. I don't like sensational people, so you still take me to a bustling place There are more beautiful women, at least so I can feel more comfortable. "
Although the driver wanted to speak to his mother at the moment, Xu Yun gave an order, and he could only obey the order quickly. He decided to go home at night and take out his savings to buy some beef and have a meal with his mother. Talk about it.
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