: Chat after the end of Volume 1

I thought I could finish writing at noon, but found that once the wave broke, I couldn't stop rushing ...
Although I stayed at home for a day, it felt good.
The reason to arrange a day off is because the human brain is very interesting. If I write every day, I write the same month, whether it is a thousand words a day or six thousand words a day, as long as I think of it as a working day, the brain I think it's always tiring to work.
But as long as you take a day off and do nothing for a day, your brain will think that taking a day off completely will eliminate great fatigue.
This is why I have a day off.
Of course, this is only the foundation.
The new definition of the next level is to be able to completely relax in a short time.
The next level of definition is to jump out of the definition of "rest and work" and re-use a better word to make rest and work not conflict. This is simple to say, but difficult to do. I tried it and failed.
Of course, we will continue to try.
Hehe, do n’t say that, storytelling.
Because there is no ending yet, there is no way to say too much, only part of it.
One.
The main issue of the first volume is the "balance between the expression of the author and the needs of the reader" that I have been thinking about.
Actually, I was hesitating when I started writing.
First of all, it is clear that everything I write in the book does not exceed the scope of writing, that is, any writing is allowed.
Human beings create and express words, not to "must follow a certain model". If so, art and culture are dead. Even the novel itself is constantly evolving.
It's just that some are more artistic and some are more reasonable, some are more interesting and some are boring, some are more ornamental and some are more plain.
I know that some people will hate some of the methods that appear constantly in the text, and some long stories.
As long as it is not a swearing threat, readers have unlimited comments.
But I am not conclusive, because I cannot consider the problem from a single perspective, simply from two perspectives.
First, from the perspective of some readers, markets, and novel techniques, those contents are too boring and redundant, which is very inadequate.
Of course, readers will definitely like it.
The second angle is that yes, grades and income are important, and ornamental and interesting are important, but at some times, it is more important to express the intentions of the characters in the book and me in more detail.
In my opinion, the two angles are not opposite, but few books can really achieve the perfect fusion of the two.
Even those world famous books.
The reason is simple. Whether it is the pursuit of artistry or marketization, many words and many things cannot be elaborated. This leads to the fact that no matter how great a work of art is, it is difficult to be understood by the public. Not understood by the public, does not affect value, but affects function.
Moreover, a large number of novels, ancient and modern, Chinese and foreign, have caused disputes because of different interpretations. If the sentence is unpleasant, readers cannot understand the author's intentions at all unless the authors speak directly.
However, I want to make it clear, so there are a lot of places in this book that make people feel that they are not artistic, interesting, or inadequate.
I can't say right or wrong.
If I think wrong, it means giving up a direction, giving up the possibility of being better in this direction, or even giving up a future. The road is narrow, it may be closed yourself.
Nor can I be right. If I think it is right, it will inevitably form a force that hinders my progress, and let me ignore another angle.
Life is the process of trying. I tried it. After finishing and summarizing, I will definitely do better next time.
So, I just defined the impact of this writing as "feedback".
In my language system and life system, feedback is neutral, but the effect is positive, because it is simple, any feedback can make me improve.
two.
My initial impulse to write this book was "share", not really "preach."
When I wrote the end of the first volume, when I wrote, "People who lift themselves to a high place also set aside a distance for falling." I thought about it for a long time.
In fact, this sentence is not what I want to express. As far as the novel is concerned, it is not necessary, because it has been said elsewhere.
However, for me personally, this sentence is very important, making me sweat coldly behind me.
I've been a stupid person since I was little, and can even be said to be stupid, yes, stupid.
I also said in the testimonials that I feel that my brain has only completed development in the past two years.
See, I've scolded myself like this, without self-protection at all, so it's not sophistry (manual squinting) that doesn't say right or wrong.
For a long time, I was especially afraid of being praised too much.
Because I feel that I am too ordinary, whether it is myself or others, holding me too high, once it falls, it will be miserable.
So, I recently gave myself a new identity definition, student.
The previous definition was lifelong learners, and I think this old definition is a little bit arrogant.
Many students in their thirties may find it awkward, but when I set myself up for this position, I was suddenly very relaxed.
In this way, I can pay no attention to other people's affirmations or negations, and I will not overreact to other people's accusations and attacks, which will inevitably make myself more modest. Anyway, I am a student, what am I afraid of?
Of course, this is my recent definition of identity. It's not good enough, but it has already begun to show results.
So, will a student go "preaching"? will not.
I really just share.
But more wonderfully, I originally thought that this book was just my personal share, but when I built the preliminary world, I found that the words and deeds of "Su Ye" were beyond my control.
In other words, many places in the book are indeed under my control, but when I write, there are often more places than I originally expected.
This world, called the World of the Gods, was not built by me alone. It was built by me and the characters inside, and even the readers.
So, it ’s not me preaching or even sharing, it's the characters in the book, lend my hand to show themselves more clearly.
I have never been arrogant enough to feel that I can "preach."
A few days ago, I discussed with an author friend in the author group. The two sides have different views. Of course, just discussing is not a dispute.
He said that he thought people could not be convinced.
As a result, my first reaction was that I have been persuaded. I am often persuaded by better theories and thinking.
Or, rather than being persuaded, I would accept a different perspective.
Because I am a student, I am very rash, sometimes irritable, often make mistakes, and often impulsive. Many of the contents in the book need to be improved.
Please also refrain from threatening to take the ticket in the future, or threatening to unsubscribe with abandoned books, except for jokes.
If you have any dissatisfaction, convince me, or help me open another perspective. (Manually squinting smirk)
three,
I ... I'm just chatting, saying everything.
Think about it, forget it, love it.
This is good, not high or low, not afraid of falling.
four.
Always be alert to "expensive" and "low", always alert to "respect" and "humble."
Fives.
Some readers have been letting me push books before, and I have promised to take this opportunity to talk briefly.
In fact, the books I have read in the past two years are quite complicated. Some books are ... not meaningful, or not suitable for anyone.
For example, I read more than 20 books on quick reading skills a month, and guess what conclusions I finally draw?
"Complete" fast-reading books are of low value. They are also particularly prone to the knowledge illusion that they can understand, understand themselves, they are the same thing, and they are almost the same.
Any valuable book and content needs to be read again and again.
Of course, low value does not mean that it is useless. Quick reading is especially suitable for book selection, and it is especially suitable for lazy people, such as me (covering my face) most of the time.
This time, I still recommend the "self-management system" that is useful to everyone.
Yes, it is useful for everyone, from children down to the elderly.
The self-management system, my perception is that it is mainly divided into four major areas: emotional management, energy management, time management, and knowledge management.
Knowledge management is the most complicated and it varies from person to person, so I won't say much.
I only paid attention to time management in the beginning, but didn't realize the importance of emotion management and energy management until I learned a little judgment method.
Make a list of what you want to do, what you want to do, what you should do, and then write the six items "ability", "motivation", "emotion", "energy", "time" and "method".
Then judge whether each of these six factors affects occasionally or always.
As a result, I was surprised to find that for me, emotions and energy turned out to be my constant influence factors. No matter what I do, if these two factors have a great influence.
Including rest, including play.
I was listing the tables at the time, which was more intuitive, and then I was shocked.
Capabilities, motivations, and methods sometimes affect and sometimes do not.
Time is a broad latitude, and it all theoretically affects it.
So, obviously, emotion, energy and time are the top priorities.
In fact, these three areas are very difficult. I have been struggling slowly ... No, it is climbing. All areas are big pits, but I climb in three big pits at the same time.
1. Energy management.
I haven't done enough energy management, and I haven't read a lot of books. I mainly recommend a book called "Energy Management", authored by "Jim Loll and Tony Schwartz".
A very popular book explaining all aspects of energy management.
Then it ’s nutrition, all kinds of fitness, energy management do not need to read too many books, continuous exercise is the most important.
This knowledge, I all read the headlines today, and then all kinds of different opinions, all of which made me mentally ill.
Anyway, the body is first, and energy management is basically physical management. Especially after my tinnitus, I knew better.
2. Time management.
After years of development, the time management system has a clear context and clear direction, but often absorbs things from other fields, such as target management.
Three main entry categories are recommended.
For the workplace, or time involuntary, I recommend "Xiao Qiang's Promotion", author Zou Xiaoqiang, the first person in the field of time management in China. Easy to understand, throw various methods directly, just follow the instructions.
This book is useless and has to be done. In other words, all the books pushed this time are the same. It is useless to look at them and must be followed.
Freelancers, or those who have more time for themselves or management, recommend "Single-Core Work Method Schema", artifact, real artifact. Okay, because it suits me especially. This big man is also the author of "Illustration of Tomato Working Methods", and both books are worth reading.
There is also a book "Just Do It", also by Zou Xiaoqiang, mainly for making annual plans. Many of the specific methods in it are great. I have used the "habit training card" for two or three years, and I still use it.
In addition to these three books, there are many other books.
There is also "A Strange Life", which tells the time record of the magical experience of the big brother Lyubishev, the real big cow, the author is "Granin", and the accompanying manual is very important.
I used the method in it for half a month to record time, uh ... uh ... As a result, I finally saw how confused I was. After reading this book and recording for half a month, I feel that my life is clear.
This book allows me to clearly see how big the gap is between myself and a good person. The intuitive gap in dataization is really cool.
Of course, there are time management classics "Getting GTD" and the more famous "Seven Habits of Highly Effective People".
The latter is a book that I particularly admire, but this book ... is not a technique, it is close to a kind of "Tao". After reading it, it feels nothing, but the more I see, the less I understand, and I need to read it in conjunction with "RIA demolition calligraphy" Introduction.
Some books in the field of time management or similar fields, such as "Eating That Frog", "Time Investment Law", "The Miracle of Morning Diary", "Procrastination Psychology", etc., are all very good. You can go online to search more, but there are many.
3. Emotion management.
This is the biggest pit of the three major areas.
In this field, there are many classifications and the system is more complicated. Far more than the first two, because they are basically neurological and psychological things, they are very tiring to learn and extremely difficult to use.
There are too many books in this field, and I am not a professional myself, so I dare not say anything good, and only come up with books that I have read and that are "true and effective."
I recommend an introductory book "Effective Compression Act" by "Hendley Wessinger" and "JP Pauli Frey".
Easy to understand, many specific methods, mixed with scientific explanations.
If you want to know more about emotion management, I recommend reading two books.
One is the author of "Emotions" is "Lisa Federman Barrett", a very thick book, which is a relatively new research result, and put forward a "emotion construction theory" that completely subverts my old cognition.
One is "Change: Principles for Problem Formation and Resolution." After reading the above book, it is easier to understand it.
The above three books are mainly psychology supplemented by neurology. It should be regarded as "the most scientific type in emotion management books".
The concept of "definition" in this book is basically born out of these two books.
Of course, it would be better if I could read "Cognitive Psychology" first, but I didn't even read this book. I only stopped reading it when I was planning to read it, haha.
After reading these three books, it is highly recommended to take a look at "DK Mindfulness" and look at ancient meditation from a neurological and psychological perspective, and you will find something particularly interesting.
These books are all impressed by me, and there are some books that have either been read quickly and shallowly, or have read other people's mind maps and read notes, or are simply reading or sharing books, so they are not recommended. .
There are many such books, and if you search for them, you will.
By the way, there is a concept I think is particularly important in emotional management called "habitual defense", which can be found by searching online. The first time I came into contact with this word was "Study Hard", which I read repeatedly. I then read the relevant content many times, and then I encountered many things before I thoroughly understood the concept. Finally, I continued to use it, and gradually did good emotional management.
4. Finally.
Finally, I would like to recommend a book, "This is enough to read," a masterpiece by Mr. Zhao Zhou. Also recommended before.
What I didn't finish last time is that this book is useless to read. There is a RIA reading method in it, which needs to be used continuously to be useful.
Moreover, it is not easy to use it by yourself. You need to join a reading club called the "Book Splitting Gang" for continuous learning and practice. But this reading club tends to ... the older and younger people are furious, hahahaha ... not hacking.
Find it yourself, look for the book-breaking chapters in various places. However, this was originally an offline reading club, and now the epidemic ... So it ’s not a good time, and you are willing to learn and search online, because this is a loose organization in different places, people from different places are suitable to join different cities, and some Small cities do n’t have it.
Basically, this is the practical manual of the well-known "Intentional Practice".
I……
It's 11 o'clock in the evening, and it's a little confusing, which fully proves that my time management and energy management need to be improved.
In fact, there are a lot of recommendations, but it is really confused, so I won't say much.
I looked at the number of words, more than five thousand, plus yesterday's change, I don't seem to be resting today.
By the way, in order to learn growth books, in addition to "It is enough to read", two more books are recommended.
One is the well-known "Intentional Practice". If there is no relevant knowledge, this book will be regarded as a story ~ EbookFREE.me ~ Various counter-intuitive and common sense, it is difficult to believe, but if you have the three If you look at the knowledge of this book, or understand psychology, you will find that this book is too divine.
This book should really be read by every child and know how to acquire ability from an early age. No, I will buy more sets and give them to my nephew, niece, nephew, niece, niece ...
There is "The Way of Learning", authored by "Barbara Oakley".
There are many books, so I won't talk about them.
In addition, all the books pushed this time have one thing in common. They must be used to explain their behavior and used constantly, otherwise they are useless.
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