Chapter 40: Psychotherapy

Chapter Forty
【Ji Wenbin, male, 34 years old. Chief Physician of the Department of Psychiatry, Chief Physician, Master of Psychology, Member of China Mental Health Association...
Next is a long list of resumes, Zhuang Yan glanced roughly, including national second-level psychological counselors, internationally certified hypnotherapists and so on.
Look down again.
[Indications of various neuroses (anxiety, horror, obsessive-compulsive, hypochondria, etc.), schizophrenia, mood disorders (mania, bipolar, depression), insomnia, stress disorder and other psychological problems...]
13:45
Zhuang Yan closed the information found by someone and put the phone on the table. Within a few minutes, there was a little movement at the door. Then the door of the box opened and the waiter led a person in.
"The 888 box is here."
The man walked to the seat opposite Zhuang Yan and sat down, raised his eyelids, and said hello: "Zhuang Yan."
Zhuang Yan twitched the corners of his mouth, and responded indifferently: "Yan Xi."
Yan Xi seemed to smile, then turned around and asked the waiter to order a pot of tea: "I don't like coffee, just this."
The waiter collected the menu and closed the door smoothly when he went out.
"I have been busy recently. I have been on a business trip a few days ago. I have only had time to talk with you in person these two days." Zhuang Yan's good-looking brows were slightly frowned, his lips tightened, and his tone of voice was irritable.
This kind of irritability was not aimed at Yan Xi alone, as if he had something upsetting that he couldn't handle recently, and a depressed breath came over his face.
Yan Xi hadn't waited to see Zhuang Yan all the time.
When Zhuang Yan was still abroad, bearing Xu Qing's name Bai Yueguang, Yan Xi had no good impression of him.
Less than two months after returning to China, Xie Ning was abducted, and Yan Xi was even more dissatisfied with how the old man looked at his son-in-law.
He smiled at Zhuang Yan and raised his chin: "It's not easy to see you."
Zhuang Yan ignored the ridicule in his words and went straight to the topic: "When you asked Suchuan for my contact information before, I guessed that you were afraid that you might want to talk to me about something."
Yan Xi said.
Zhuang Yan continued: "It just so happens that I have something to ask you."
Yan Xi said with a cold face: "Xie Ning's matter?"
"Yes." Zhuang Yan nodded, "Xie Ning's matter."
Yan Xi hummed softly.
Zhuang Yan raised his eyebrows: "I think our purpose is the same, you don't have to be so rude to me."
Yan Xi raised his chin: "You don't have to talk so much nonsense, I do think you are not pleasing to the eye, but I won't trip you up."
He paused and added: "Especially on things related to Xie Ning."
Zhuang Yan smiled, and said blankly: "If this is the case, I won't pretend to be."
Yan Xi snorted: "Let's talk, what is the reason for looking for me this time."
Zhuang Yan's hand moved along the wall of the cup: "Xie Ning moved into my house these past few days."
Yan Xi was taken aback: "...you!"
"Don't be angry." Zhuang Yan raised his eyebrows, seeming to pull back a city. "This was agreed with Xie Ning. Xu Qing found his residence in the lakeside villa before."
He explained Xu Qing's affairs clearly in a few words: "I think it is not safe for Xie Ning to continue living alone, so let him live with me, rest assured, I didn't do anything to him."
Yan Xi looked even more strange when he heard this. He looked at Zhuang Yan for a while before murmured: "I also persuaded him to move to my place before, but he never agreed. Why do you say..."
He agreed.
Yan Xi's expression became more and more weird, and finally he sighed, leaned back in the chair, and his expression eased: "What else? Wouldn't you just come to me to show off this."
Zhuang Yan: "You are Xie Ning's best friend, and you have an extraordinary position in his mind."
Yan Xi raised her eyebrows: "What? First raise and then decline?"
Zhuang Yan went on to say: "Although I think you are quite blind, but I came here this time to hope you can see clearly, I am not the stupid Xu Qing, I deserve you to give Xie Ning to me."
Yan Xi: "...Are you asking for my approval?"
"No, just tell." Zhuang Yan said quickly, "Even if you don't agree, you can't do much."
Yan Xi twitched his mouth: "Oh, then you can roll."
Zhuang Yan ignored him. He seemed to think of something again, put down the cup, tapped the table twice, frowned, "Xie Ning, he..."
He hesitated for a long time.
Yan Xi didn't speak, just looking at him like this, his expression gradually became serious.
Zhuang Yan finally asked in a low voice: "...Does he have any psychological problems?"
Yan Xi's expression paused.
Zhuang Yan looked down and saw Yan Xi's reaction, he knew he had found the right person.
Yan Xi frowned and asked for a while: "How much do you know."
"Not much." Zhuang Yan let out a sigh of relief, "I just saw his address book accidentally. There is one named Ji Wenbin in it. The note is a psychologist. I don't know the others."
Yan Xi turned his head and looked out the window: "I introduced him to the doctor."
Zhuang Yan asked again: "What is the problem with him? Is it serious?"
Yan Xi spread his hands: "I'm not a psychiatrist, how can I know this. But I suspect... he may have depression."
"Depression?" Zhuang Yan was taken aback.
Yan Xi nodded: "Yeah."
Zhuang Yan doubted this answer: "It doesn't look like...it doesn't look like it."
It took a long time for Yan Xi to say: "There are tens of thousands of ways to express depression. Not every depression patient hurts the spring and the autumn every day. And..."
"what?"
"Xie Ning's reaction in front of you is completely different from when he faced others." Yan Xi said unconvincingly. "You have never seen Xie Ning's appearance in another way."
Zhuang Yan rubbed his eyebrows.
He remembered that Qi Rui once said that Xie Ning was a noble and indifferent person.
At that time he suspected that they were talking about two Shainins.
Zhuang Yan was slightly distracted.
Yan Xi said again: "Besides, I'm just skeptical. Doubt, I didn't say it must be."
Zhuang Yan couldn't help mocking: "What is this, Schrodinger's... depression?"
Yan Xi glared at him: "I asked the psychologist to describe Xie Ning's performance a little bit. The consultant suspected that he was depressed... But, after all, I am not myself. The consultant said that I would recommend him personally. Go to a psychiatrist for counseling and identification."
Zhuang Yan: "Xie Ning's psychologist is called Ji Wenbin, right? Have you asked him?"
"No," Yan Xi said. "It's useless to ask. Xie Ning hasn't looked for him yet."
Zhuang Yan was taken aback: "He didn't go?"
Yan Xi nodded, pursed her lips, and said in a low voice, "Xie Ning...he rejects the psychologist very much."
"Psychotherapy requires the cooperation of the person concerned. If he is very repulsive and disgusted, the effect may be counterproductive. So I can only persuade him a little bit, and dare not force him to see a psychologist."
There was a knock at the door, and after three clicks, the waiter came in with a tray to serve tea.
Yan Xi said thank you to the waiter.
Zhuang Yan pondered for a long time, until after the waiter left, he looked up at Yan Xi: "What did you look for before?"
"This is also the case." Yan Xi took a sip of tea. "Xie Ning has always been extremely repulsive of psychologists. Until the Chinese New Year, he suddenly asked me for the contact information of Doctor Ji."
Zhuang Yan: "At the time of Chinese New Year?"
Yan Xi glanced at him: "Yes, I think it should be related to you."
Zhuang Yan moved in his heart and asked, "What's the specific time? What day?"
Yan Xi said a few days.
Zhuang Yan recalled that with mixed feelings in his heart, he murmured, "It was... the day I confessed to him."
"I'm looking for you because of this." Yan Xi said, "Although I don't want to admit it,... you are special to Xie Ning."
Zhuang Yan repeated it in a low voice: "...special?"
Yan Xi said coldly: "He is very dependent on you. In other words, you can give him a sense of security. On Lan Zhai, I saw that he treats you differently, otherwise you think I will be easy to anyone. Let him take Xie Ning?"
Various clips of him and Xie Ning flashed in Zhuang Yan's mind, especially... Xie Ning was very dependent on his embrace.
Said it is safe and at ease.
He closed his eyes and opened them: "He has not responded to my confession so far because of this psychological problem-although I don't know what it is."
Yan Xi glanced at him and said impatiently, "How do I know."
Zhuang Yan ignored him, only feeling that he had knocked over a five-flavored bottle in his heart, and the tastes were mixed.
Yan Xi took a sip of tea: "I came to you because I think you should be informed about this matter, and...maybe you can help."
"What's busy?" Zhuang Yan asked, "Take him to see a psychologist?"
Yan Xi shook his head and solemnly said: "Don't force him, he..."
Before he finished speaking, his cell phone rang suddenly.
Yan Xi took out the phone and took a look, then raised his eyebrows in surprise.
He stood up and said quickly towards Zhuang Yan: "Doctor Ji sent me a message saying that Xie Ning went to him just now."
...
As the name suggests, Ji Wenbin is a gentle and gentle person.
His skin is slightly white, he wears a pair of elegant eyes, he has a bookish temperament on his body, and his first impression is very good.
Ji Wenbin poured a glass of water for Xie Ning.
Xie Ning sat on the sofa and looked at the water glass on the table blankly without moving.
"You look a little nervous." Ji Wenbin smiled at him. "You can talk about it first, whatever you want."
After half a day, Xie Ning slowly stretched out his hand and picked up the water glass.
"Thank you." He said the first sentence after entering the door, his voice a little dumb.
...
Two hours later, the conversation was over, Xie Ning paled and left in a hurry.
Half an hour later, two people appeared in Ji Wenbin's office.
Zhuang Yan and Yan Xi.
"For professional ethics, I can't tell anyone about the patient's specific situation." Ji Wenbin said, "I can only say that this conversation...very unsatisfactory."
Zhuang Yan asked: "How to say?"
Ji Wenbin sighed: "He has a strong psychological resistance. Although he is actively seeking psychotherapy, he is still very repulsive subconsciously. His nerves collapsed too tight, and his body was shaking unconsciously. I spoke very well all the time. Be careful, for fear of irritating him."
Yan Xi was not surprised: "He has always been very resistant."
"This kind of patient is the most difficult." Ji Wenbin pushed his glasses, "because he doesn't trust me at all, and he will have reservations about what I say. I can't make judgments easily. I can only slowly eliminate his My rejection."
Zhuang Yanjiao frowned nicely and asked, "Is there anything I can do?"
Ji Wenbin said: "Don't put pressure on him, try to lead him to psychotherapy as slowly as possible, but don't force him or give him hints in this regard."
He glanced at Zhuang Yan and said, "He took the initiative to come to me this time, which is a good start."
Zhuang Yan nodded.
"Also, according to my observation, it is not me that he is resisting." Ji Wenbin said slowly, "He is resisting...all psychiatrists. He should have received psychotherapy before. What may have happened during this period? He left a very bad impression, so he would be so repulsive."
"Of course, this is just my guess."
As Ji Wenbin said something in the notebook, Yan Xi looked at his slowly moving pen and was stunned for a moment.
Zhuang Yan was silent for a while, and finally asked in a low voice, "Then...what is his psychological problem, is it convenient to disclose?"
"Sorry, I cannot disclose any information related to his condition without the person's consent." Ji Wenbin thought for a while, bowed his head and wrote in the notebook, then tore off the piece of paper and handed it to Zhuang Yan ,"This is my contact information."
Yan Xi watched Zhuang Yan take the paper, but still did not speak.
Zhuang Yan frowned: "Can't you disclose it at all?"
Ji Wenbin said mildly: "The progress of this conversation can be called zero. To be honest, I have nothing to disclose. I know that you care about him, but I am also out of respect and protection for the patient. I hope you can understand. "
Zhuang Yan rubbed his eyebrows, and then said for a while: "Then trouble Dr. Ji, I may come to bother you often in the future."
Ji Wenbin nodded: "I also have this intention."
When the two of them were about to leave, Ji Wenbin suddenly said, "As he is not very cooperative, I hope you can provide me with more information."
He said: "I suspect that his illness is inseparable from his past experience."
...
When the two came out of Ji Wenbin's office, Yan Xi still didn't say a word, as if he was worried about Xie Ning.
He took two steps in a daze, and his arms stopped in front of him.
Yan Xi looked up and faced Zhuang Yan's gloomy eyes.
Zhuang Yan raised his eyebrows and said, "About Xie Ning, should we talk more."
Yan Xi looked at him and nodded blankly.
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