Chapter 383: .convince

"Yes, she takes the blame, but Qingqing, when she made the first mistake, it was because she wanted to help us. I always thought you were a kind person, but why did you have no sympathy for Bang Sha Sha?"
Meng Qingqing was angry, but she didn't want to fight with Qin Haonan because of people like Meng Shasha. She patiently said: "It's not to help us, it's to help you. She is not so kind to me. She admires you, and the blind can see it. , So for you, she sacrificed herself tragically, why did she do this? If she is really selfless to do everything for you, and does not need your return, why did she tell me, tell you, not to get Your sympathy, your attention. She has a bad intention."
Seeing Meng Qingqing's anger, Qin Haonan was very excited, and his words had never been more intense. He wanted to say something, but in the end he said nothing.
Meng Qingqing knew that he didn't say anything, it didn't mean that he turned the corner.
"Hao Nan, if we compensate Bangsar Sha, we will admit that her current ending is our fault, what is wrong with us"
"I didn't say that we were wrong. I also admit that Bangsar Sha asked for everything. I just think she is pitiful, the child is small, and her health is not good. Give her a little money to help her. This is for us. It’s not that difficult."
"Yes, money is not a problem. It is a very simple thing for us to give her a little money. I don’t care about that little money. I sympathize with her, but I just can’t give her any help, even if it’s Money is the simplest thing, because I don’t want to have anything to do with her. Once you have a relationship with her, it’s endless troubles. If you meet someone, it’s your blessing and he will bring you Come and be happy, but some people you encounter are your disasters, they will bring you endless troubles and troubles and even destroy you. So for this kind of person, the best way is to stay away from him , The farther the better, Bangsar Sha is such a person, so you'd better stay away from her. Poor people must be hateful. Although she is pitiful, she is not worthy of help."
"Okay, my wife, I don't care about her anymore, let's do it, how come I feel a lot of jealousy?" Qin Haonan said with ease in order to ease the atmosphere.
Meng Qingqing disagrees, "She, Bang Sha Sha, I will be jealous because of her, your taste will not be so low, right"
"So I just want to help her, you won't have such a big reaction, you know, I only have you in my heart, I can't tolerate any other women, let alone people like Bangsar, so don't worry."
"Hao Nan, you completely understand what I mean. I am opposed to you helping Bangsar Sha, not because she likes you, nor because I don’t worry about you. I don’t have to be jealous for her. I just don’t think she deserves your help. When you wanted to sponsor her to go to school, I told you that you provoke her, maybe she will become a trouble for you in the future. What did you say at the time, do you remember?"
"I said that I just funded her to go to school. It is impossible for me to have any intersection with her in the future. We may never see her again."
"What's the truth? Not only did you meet her, you also took her home as a girlfriend."
"Qingqing, didn't you say that you don't mention this matter anymore? This matter has passed, we are now together, and there is Dudu."
"Why can't I mention this matter? This matter has really existed before. It has hurt my feelings seriously. I repeat the old things to remind you not to repeat the same mistakes. A girl who grew up in a remote mountainous area in Bangsar Sa was lonely and ignorant. In her life, your appearance is to her as if a came to save her, so she admired you for excuses. If you didn’t take her home as a girlfriend, she You may just admire you, but you gave her hope and made her feel that you are not so far away from her, and you can still reach it. You gave her such hope. Don’t you think it’s harming her? When hope fell to the bottom of despair again, she made such a sacrifice without hesitation. She wanted to use that way of destroying herself to prove how much she loves you. The purpose is to arouse your sympathy. Now, if you help again She, gave her the opportunity to fantasize about you again. I don't know what shocking things she will do next time to make you pay attention to her again."
Qin Haonan reached out and took Meng Qingqing into his arms.
"Qingqing, I just wanted to help her, but I didn't expect this to happen. Maybe, I was really self-defeating. From the beginning, I shouldn't support her and let her live in her hometown and find an ordinary man to live. An ordinary life is not necessarily bad. Qingqing, I will listen to you and stop worrying about it. Let her go. What she has become and how she is doing has nothing to do with us. You have to rely on yourself, no one's help can solve all his own problems."
Meng Qingqing sighed, "Hao Nan, in the future, don’t do things based on your own enthusiasm. Are you helping others? You are kind, but you have to pay attention to the methods and methods. Otherwise, you will do bad things with kindness. You sponsored anonymously, and it may be a simple good thing for you and her, but she knows the true situation of the person who sponsored it, and this matter is not so simple."
"Qingqing, how can you see this matter so thoroughly, and analyze it so rationally and calmly? You see people always fall into the dark, which makes me sigh."
"Because my dad is a living example, you know, my dad sacrificed himself for his brothers and sisters and made others perfect, but what did he get? Of course, helping others does not need to be rewarded, but they are ungrateful. That’s all, it’s worse, this is a kind of trampling on you, if it were you, would you still think it’s a good thing to help others? As his daughter, as a sober bystander, no one can understand it better than me That feeling."
Qin Haonan nodded, "I understand."
"You don’t understand, because you must think that my father’s situation is different from your funding of Bangsar Sa. Bangsar Sa will not be ungrateful to you, and will not make it worse. She even wants to repay you. But if you continue to help her , She did some extreme things to come out, and you won’t get married. At that time, you knew that when you helped people who shouldn’t be helped, the end result was almost the same. It’s all regrets when you scratch the coupon Just scrape out a word of thanks. You must scrape out thank you for your patronage before you know you are disappointed." To be continued.