Chapter 906: The Wedge of the Past

What kind of experience is the difference in education between husband and wife?
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For me, it was a very good experience.
I have a double degree Ph.D. My daughter-in-law graduated from a general college. She is six years younger than me.
Knowing her was a coincidence and fate.
She saved my life once when she was very young, but I didn't know it at the time, and then it took a long time to realize that it was fate.
I can play chess, and so can my daughter-in-law. I have played against her a few times in the arena. I am not impressed with her.
The real encounter should be when I was eighteen years old, when she was twelve years old and just finished the first year of junior high school.
It was a summer vacation. I was called by a friend to KTV to celebrate his birthday. My daughter-in-law also sang on KTV with a group of friends. We didn't know each other. The group of them went out without money, so my daughter-in-law asked me to borrow money.
The daughter-in-law asked me if I had any money.
I said there was no money, and I would not borrow if I had it.
The little girl was not very old and her temper was not too young. She took off the AJ worn on my feet as a collateral, and took away all the three hundred dollars in my pocket.
Before leaving, he said he wanted to pay me back, but I haven't paid back.
We are in the same school, the junior high school and the high school are together. She is in the second year of junior high school, and I am in the third year of high school.
I hadn't seen her a few times before in the first year of the middle school, but I met her several times by accident.
During that time, my parents and I had a very stiff fight.
My parents wanted me to study in the United States. I didn't want to go to the United States, and I couldn't argue with them. At that time, I was young and vigorous and broke off with my parents.
Severing the relationship means that I have no financial resources. It happened that my daughter-in-law's father was looking for a tutor for her, six thousand a month, and I took the job after thinking about it.
In the beginning, she only regarded her as a little sister who did not study well, dull, stubborn, wayward, and savage.
After getting along for a long time, I think she is a little cute, her eyes are good, and the first time I see people, I like to look at people's eyes.
Later, when she had a fever, I took care of her and she kissed me in a daze.
That was my first kiss.
I was confused.
I imagined my first kiss before. It should be after I fell in love with a girl, I confessed my heart, kissed her carefully and told her that I would treat her well.
I am a person who has always been more disciplined, doing everything according to the plan of my parents, although I have my own opinions in my heart, I want to break free from their shackles, but I have more than enough energy.
After the kiss was gone, I didn't feel much uncomfortable, on the contrary it was relaxed.
Some things that I had ridiculously persisted for a long time ended with this kiss.
I like her first.
Once I identify a person, I will be her in this life.
I want to take her abroad and feel that I will take good care of her. I have been taking care of her as a child's daughter-in-law, and a series of changes happened in the middle.
We have missed each other for ten years.
I don't know what is good about her.
I have been thinking about her and I am not willing to let go.
My friend advised me to look farther, I can’t hear these words.
During this period, I have been on blind dates several times and met other girls, and I became disgusted in less than three minutes.
In fact, I am a person who lacks maternal love. Since childhood, my mother has been harsh and strict with me, and I can't get used to some of my mother's style.
Before I met my daughter-in-law, I felt that I would find a very gentle woman in the future, the kind of quiet time, know how to take care of others, very gentle, and speak slowly.
It’s not that this type of girl confessed to me before.
Strangely, I don't even feel anything.
It may be because I am more machismo. I like to take care of others. When I see that person is well taken care of by me, I feel a sense of accomplishment and I like to be dependent on my partner.
After we got married with our daughter-in-law, there was a lot of resistance between us.
I love her as always, and sometimes she is wayward, and I am tolerant.
After more than four years of marriage, she mentioned two divorces, and I mentioned it once, but in the end she never divorced.
We agreed that no one would mention it a third time.
Her second divorce, there was a lot of trouble at the time, and I still remember it.
Both of us had registered permanent residence in the Civil Affairs Bureau. I did it on purpose, just to see if she still cares about me.
Fortunately, she didn't let me down, her legs became weak at the door, and she retreated and pulled her girlfriend away.
I won the bet.
I didn't dare to think about what would happen if I really got divorced if I lost the bet. I definitely wouldn't let her go with someone else. I wouldn't be able to do it a second time in my life.
Many times I love her more and get used to her getting more and more child-tempered. She is more impulsive, does not go through the brain more often, is bluffing, and careless.
Fortunately, there is me.
She doesn’t have as much knowledge and experience as I have, and she doesn’t know many things in these years, and she’s turbulent. I treat her more calmly. If she doesn’t understand, I give her advice. She listens to me. I like the feeling that she depends on me. .
Yesterday, I saw her tears secretly turning over her phone by herself. I saw this question:
What is the experience of the big gap in education between husband and wife?
Know that she is inferior again.
She sometimes feels that she is not worthy of me, and has asked me why I chose her many times.
She is quite a fanatic, and I don't understand the crazy thoughts in her mind.
But this does not prevent me from loving her.
She was pregnant for three years. She gave me three children, two sons and one daughter.
I always love her.
Now she lay in my arms and fell asleep.
Good night, my little wife.