: Live seriously, write books seriously

From tomorrow on until the 5th, there will be single changes. I have to take my children out to play and collect manuscripts.
In the summer vacation, I will continue to take the child out to play, traveling by car, and spend more time-I promised my child that I will take him on a self-driving tour every summer vacation, and strive to slowly travel all over China, and read thousands of books and travel thousands of miles. Well—so I have to save manuscripts for this...it gives me a headache when I think about it, and I feel like digging a hole for myself. You must avoid the summer vacation when you open a new book in the future, because there is really no time to go around during the new book period.
I have heard a song "Return to the Mountain" before, and there is a line in it that makes me feel very touched:
"Middle-aged people have worked hard, but there are so many strange debts to be paid."
The writing of this book is actually very emotional and passionate, but there are still many cases of requesting leave orders. I am really sorry. It's really difficult for me to break out like before when I'm almost 40 years old. There are subjective reasons. Both my body and spirit are not as good as before.
There are also various fetters of being a father, a husband, and a son of man—when I was a child, the holidays were my happiest time, because I don’t have to worry about anything to get delicious, fun and new clothes. I always feel that these are the reasons for the holidays.
Nowadays, Chinese New Year holidays have become a big trouble for me. I have to make holiday arrangements in advance. If I want to go out to play, I have to make plans, book hotels, arrange itineraries...
On the day of the holiday, I got up early, yawned and drove out, and the child sat in the back and continued to sleep. When I wake up, I will arrive at the destination as soon as I open my eyes. Maybe it will be the same idea as when I was a child—traveling is really fun, of course it is fun. Traveling should be fun and enjoyable.
But in fact, it was taken for granted when I was young, but it was our parents who did all the work behind it for granted.
But these things were completely unexpected when I was a child, until I became someone else's parent.
There are a lot of parent role images in this book, and I feel very touched almost every time when I wrote it.
A few days ago, I met a junior high school classmate who had not seen me for many years. The classmate asked me how to experience life when I write at home all day.
I said that I make chai, rice, oil, salt, sauce and vinegar tea with my wife and children every day. I am in my life. Where do I need to experience it?
In this book, you can often see that some readers say that XX is written in great detail, and there is life...
Of course, I used to be young and ignorant, but now I am very serious about living.
I don't smoke, but my father-in-law smokes. There are children at home, so he turns on the range hood to smoke in the kitchen. For him, standing in the kitchen with a mobile phone, turning on the cooker hood, and smoking while brushing the phone, may be his leisure time, a rare and beautiful moment.
There is also the conflict of ideas between the child and the parent. When I was a child, I sat on the side of the child. After I had a child, I realized what the parents thought and understood a lot of things. In fact, it is not who is right or who is wrong. This change in mentality naturally made me write it in the book, just like the conflict between Hu Lai and his father Hu Lixin.
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It's been a long time since I wrote a single chapter. During the May 1st holiday, I sent it out with thoughts. Write a single chapter and chat with everyone.
Regarding the results of this book, at present, it is going up. Although the speed is very slow, but it is indeed advancing towards the 10,000 mark. Thanks to everyone's love on the monthly ticket list, I rank well even when I am not very outraged.
I now hope to finish writing this book with guaranteed quality, and then have a long vacation for myself. Let my mind rest. After all, I lie in bed before going to bed every day thinking about what to write next and how to write. When I wake up every day, I lie in bed thinking about what to write next and how to write. hard…
Of course, that will be a long time later, and I currently expect to write this book for at least another year.
So it's like this for me now:
Live seriously and write books seriously.
Finally, although I know that it is a single change at the moment, but since I have written a single chapter, I still need to ask everyone for a monthly pass. During the double monthly pass period, thank you!