Chapter 337: The dutiful man in a patriarchal family (7)

Although Tian's mother heard that the two had a conflict with the Ji family before moving out, she did not expect the problem to be so serious. Tian Jing was married far away, and there was such a troublesome husband's family. She couldn't calm down and was really worried.
After Ji's mother and Ji's father left, the atmosphere in the room was also solemn. Tian Jing didn't have any interest in drinking soup. She put her spoon on the bed, silent and calm.
The child born in October of pregnancy, desperately lives, that is her baby, is so despised, how can I feel so angry to eat?
Tian's mother looked at her two granddaughters and thought about what happened to her daughter. Isn't it that she didn't give birth to her son and was rejected? When she looked at Tian Jing, she couldn't help being sad, "She is your mother-in-law, and her relationship is so bad, and she may not know how bad she is in the future. If this child is a boy, it will be fine."
She didn't have any bad intentions. She simply felt that her daughter was not easy. Now she has such bad luck. Both children are daughters. What can I do in the future?
Not giving birth, stress, giving birth, suffering and raising another child.
Tian Jing's body was already recovering, tired easily, she didn't refute when she heard Tian's mother, her lips were tight, and she leaned against the wall and simply closed her eyes, not wanting to speak.
"Mom, I don't like to hear what you said, Qiqi is still here, don't pass on this kind of thought to her, boys and girls are the same, both are children of me and Xiaojing." Ji Huai frowned and looked to the side. Ji Tianqi, who was listening to them, was ignorant, but he listened carefully, and his words were serious, "We and my parents will not live together in the future. It doesn't matter how they think, and I did not ask Xiaojing to honor me with me. Parents, it's me who owes them kindness, not Xiaojing, she doesn't have to have any thought burden."
Tian's mother moved her mouth, and after pulling Ji Tianqi, she also quickly said with satisfaction, "Yes, Mom is wrong, just don't stay together."
When the son-in-law was able to pick it up, her heavy heart was mostly gone.
Yes, why should her daughter bear it? The Ji family did not give birth to her, and she was still wronged after marrying. She felt distressed and aggrieved.
When Tian Jing heard Ji Huai's words, she opened her eyes again, feeling much better, her eyes fell on him, and she said lightly, "I don't want to go back this year. You go back by yourself."
"That's not okay? It's for the Chinese New Year." Tian's mother was anxious, and she felt that this was too much. She couldn't provide her daughter with any help, and she didn't dare to make her daughter and her mother-in-law make a fuss too much. .
Tian Jing stayed unmoved, sat up and continued to drink soup, "I did not worry about having this baby, and my health was not good. After sitting for confinement, I still don’t know if I can raise it better. Just now, your mother was so to her daughter. Can I have good fruit to eat? I will feel angry when I go back."
I'm so annoying, what was Ji Mu's behavior just now? Being a mother is simply intolerable. She felt that even if she gave birth to a boy, the other party didn't like it, but she wanted a boy with inherited genitals.
Tian Jing directly referred to Ji’s mother as your mother this time. In addition, Ji’s father and Ji’s mother would not expect to see this child. Ji Huai also agreed at the moment, "Okay, I will go back by myself. I can’t live there anyway, I’ll go back. Just come back, take care of yourself, don’t get angry."
Tian Mu observed and found that Ji Huai was not dissatisfied, and she was quietly relieved.
In the afternoon, Tian Jing was discharged from the hospital and went home for confinement.
The baby is really troublesome. This child is even more troublesome than Ji Tianqi. He cries all day long and has to hold it when he sleeps. When he puts it down, he wakes up and toss people.
But Tian Jing thought it was okay. Ji Mu didn't help her at all before, so she brought it up to her when it was time to eat. He looked at the child and didn't want to help at all.
It's Tian's mother now. It's his own mother. Anyone who can help her will help her, and she can sleep during the day.
Ji Huai is afraid that Ji Tianqi has emotions, so between the two children, his focus will be slightly biased towards the eldest daughter. When Tian Jing and Tian's mother were taking care of the youngest daughter, he was watching cartoons with each other, or he was taking care of the youngest daughter and asked Tian Jing to play intellectual games with his eldest daughter.
The family is getting along fairly harmoniously. The baby slowly grows apart, exactly the same as Ji Tianqi when he was a child. Tian's mother missed Ji Tianqi's growth, so she was very concerned and loved the little girl.
The talents of the Ji family don't care about the name of the child. The name was chosen by Tian Jing, Ji Tianyi.
At the full moon, there was no big event, but there were also ceremonies. Jihuai spent several thousand yuan, booked a private room in the hotel, ordered a table of dishes, and invited better colleagues and friends to celebrate.
Ji Tianyi did not receive the blessings of the Ji family, but he also received a lot of blessings. I didn't want to give red envelopes at first, but everyone was still stuck.
Ji Huai also thought that when Ji Tianqi was born, she didn't do anything because she was a girl, and promised Ji Tianqi that when she celebrated her third birthday, she would definitely decorate her with more beautiful decorations.
Ji Tianqi laughed, very happy, and kissed him, "Thank you, Dad."
Tian's mother thought that they were both daughters, and Ji Huai would be a little unhappy. Tian Jing was not afraid that he was upset, but that he felt regretful.
Ji Huai still has a sense of responsibility towards his family. He will also listen to many opinions from his parents. This incident is indeed not a trivial matter, and she is true to it. If he expresses other emotions, she will be chilled.
Fortunately, he didn't. Although he didn't express too much about the two daughters, he could feel his love, the love in the eyes of his heart, and there was no dissatisfaction at all because they were daughters.
Since Ji Huai’s salary increase, their lives are fairly well-off, but the things he buys for the child, for her, and for the family are not bad. They all need to use the best within their abilities. Spend money like running water. He didn't agree with Jing wanting to save.
Throughout the year, only those year-end bonuses are saved.
In a blink of an eye, Tian's mother has been here for half a year. The original thought was that she would take care of Tian Jing for a few months. After the confinement, Ji Tianqi was already in kindergarten and Tian Jing could relax a little bit, so she sent Tian's mother back.
But this year Tian Jing didn't return to Ji's house, and since she felt sorry for her daughter to bring two children alone, Tian's mother didn't want to go back to celebrate the New Year. She stayed and helped her daughter.
She sighed, "If I go back, I don't know when I will come next time. You are carrying the big one and the small one. How tired is that?"
Tian Jing thought for a while, then said, "If you don't go back, there will be father and elder brother left at home. What's the flavor of that year?"
People in small mountain villages are still very traditional in thinking. During the New Year, everyone in the family will come back to live for a while, and everyone else's home will be lively and lively, but their home is deserted and deserted.
Tian's mother didn't know how to return. Tian's father and brother Tian were vulgar, and the daughter-in-law in question hadn't come in yet. There was no woman in the family, so she really didn't know what she was like.
Ji Huai was playing jigsaw puzzles with Ji Tianqi, and said, "Well, I will buy air tickets for Dad and Brother so that they can also come here to celebrate the New Year. Everyone has fun together and have fun by the way."
"Forget it, how much does it cost? You still have two children. If you can save it, it's not necessary." Tian Mu refused as soon as she heard it, for fear of spending their money.
"It's also my fault. Xiaojing has been married for so long. I haven't asked my dad to come here to play with you. This time, let them come. Get together. That's all. , I will buy air tickets for dad and brother.
Ji Huai insisted, and asked by the way,
Big brother still has a fiancee. Then I will ask her if she will come. I will buy her tickets by the way. Everyone will go back during the Chinese New Year. , The hotel is not expensive and cost-effective."
Tian Jing really wanted her family to come. Father Tian met Ji Huai. When she decided to get married, she took Ji Huai back and stayed for a day. Father Tian had not seen her child either.
Tian's mother is mainly afraid that they will spend money, she can't help her daughter, and she feels guilty for dragging her back. But when the son-in-law said so, she could only agree.
Father Tian is reluctant to leave the small mountain village. Like Mother Tian, ​​he doesn’t know anything about things outside, but his daughter and wife are there. This time he is going with his son again. He is talking about trouble, but he still knows nothing in his heart. very happy.
The air ticket was also bought by the son-in-law, and he said that he would take him to play. This feeling is the same as the feeling that his daughter and son suddenly have a good life. Anyway, it is proud. Don't mention how good the mood is.
His daughter is the first major college student in the village, and now she has let him go to the big city to play, can she be upset?
Brother Tian's girlfriend is also from the village and has no culture, but the two have a good relationship. They are already engaged. They are planning to get married in the middle of the year and want to see them. Ji Huai has booked the air tickets together.
The house rented for Tian Mu was definitely not enough, so Ji Huai booked two hotel rooms and waited for them to come.
When the Tian family came, they ate together and went to nearby tourist attractions. Tian Jing was accompanied by the Tian family, and she looked better than before.
When she returned to bed that day, she whispered, "Thank you."
Although she has been relatively independent since she was a child, she has lived alone since she was admitted to the junior high school in the town, but she also has a family who loves her, but because she is married far away and cannot be reunited with her family, she will still be sad and regretful when she thinks about it.
"It should be. If parents want to come in the future, we will buy them air tickets for as long as they can stay. I hope they can visit you often and stay with you." Ji Huai said with apologetics and said truthfully. "Before getting married, I said you would go back whenever you want to go back, but later I found that it is impossible. It is very inconvenient to go back once, and there are various things. This time I hope my parents live longer and the money can be spent. Make more money, but I don’t know when next time, because my parents may not be free to come."
Hearing this, Tian Jing looked down.
This is indeed the case. It’s troublesome to come back and forth, and it’s also troublesome to go back. She also thinks that if her parents live longer, she will be happier. With parents around, it’s really easy and happy.
On New Year’s Eve, Tian’s family accompanied Tian Jing. Ji Huai took the bought gifts and went to the bank to fetch two thousand yuan. He returned to Ji’s house alone, and the tenant returned to his hometown. Now the family of Ji is left in the house.
Brother Ji and sister-in-law Ji were both here. At the end of the year, the two had a fierce quarrel, but now they are better again. When Ji Huai came back, she was lying in the living room gnawing melon seeds with her high belly alone.
When Ji Mu saw him coming back, she didn't give him a good face, she looked behind him, and said, "Where is the outsider?"
What a foreigner, and foreigners are not good things!
Ji Huai looked unhappy, but still said, "Xiaojing's parents are here, to accompany her parents today."
"Her parents are here? Come to blood? Come to you to ask for money?" When Ji mother heard it, her eyes widened, and she sternly said, "I tell you, don't give a penny. I asked you not to You didn’t listen to marrying this foreigner, okay now? People treat you as stupid and catch you to blood! Everything is given to the mountain people, do you think you are stupid?!"
In her opinion, outsiders are poor, stupid, and greedy. They are all beggars in the ravines. How can they be compared with her "city people"?
Ji Huai couldn't resist asking, raising his voice, "What do I have for others to be greedy? Is it rich or right? Have you ever asked if my wife gave birth to a child? Or is my mother-in-law taking care of me from the mountains, what do we have for others to be greedy? Jian The money for the house has not yet been paid off, do you have a pension? Do you have money? Did you give the gift? What are they greedy for?"
Ji Mu was speechless, but she quickly found a point and jumped back, "Why didn't I take care of it? I didn't agree to give birth at the beginning. If I give birth to a boy, can I not take care of it? I will definitely take care of it. she was"
Before he finished speaking, he interrupted in a deep voice, "You have a boy all day long. You are also a girl. Can you decide if you have a boy or a girl? Didn't your grandma give birth to you? You don’t have a lot of family possessions, and you need to have a boy. Inheritance, the house is not enough!"
Ji Mu could not say about him, and she scolded hysterically, "Anyway, she is about to give birth to a boy. The daughter belongs to someone else's family. If a married woman throws out the water, people will laugh at you without a boy. No matter how much money you make, it’s useless. Nothing works!"
Sister Ji and Brother Ji were also there. When they heard this, they didn't show disapproval on their faces, but felt reasonable. Sister Ji looked at her high bulging belly, her eyes were even more annoying.
It's a girl again, bad luck!
Ji Huai was unmoved at all, and his tone was even more ridiculous, "Does it matter what I said, it's not you who are here to laugh, who will laugh at me? What am I laughing at? Did they give birth to a boy and brought Jinshan or Yinshan? Can I not work for the rest of my life or get a national reward? I think they are a joke!"
"Did the foreigner teach you?" Ji Mu turned blue, and shouted again, "Divorce! Divorce her immediately! Divorce from the foreigner immediately, have you heard?!"
Now that she has regretted her intestines, she shouldn't let this outsider come in. She doesn't want to call Tian Jing's name now, it's all the scourge outsider, outsiders in the valley!
"You are not qualified to join my marriage. I don't think you welcome me to go home for the New Year. This little money is my honor to you. I will not eat any more food. I will leave." Ji Huai did not quarrel with her. Put the gift aside, put two thousand yuan on the table, ready to leave.
Sister Ji saw the money, her eyes flashed, and the money had to be subsidized to her little family in the end.
Brother Ji came out to persuade him, and each said a few words, but they were all irrelevant. After saying that, he pulled Ji Huai aside, "You don't care about mom, it's all a family, can mom still harm you? Your family is closest to you, so don't be angry with your mother."
Ji Huai didn't believe that he was here to persuade him to make peace. Since he moved out to the present, it has been several months. Ji's father and Ji's mother couldn't bear to send him a message. Big Brother Ji will not know this, right? They didn't care.
The other party has been selfish since he was a child. Most of them heard that he didn't have his share of the house if he didn't come back, and hoped that he wouldn't come back.
"Don't she just want to harm my daughter? Isn't it a harm? Isn't it a life to kill? That's not my child? Isn't it the life I owe? Is she angry with me or am I angry with her?" Ji Huai asked in a series of rhetorical questions.
Brother Ji's face changed and he couldn't answer the conversation.
In this way, he owes too many lives, but it is not their birth, nothing has been paid, everything is a woman's business, sister Ji's abortion is the same as laying eggs, is it serious?
Seeing his stubbornness, Father Ji let go of his cruel words, "I tell you, if the foreigner refuses to give birth, then you will divorce and find someone who is willing to give birth. If you don't give birth to a boy, your mother and I will die! We too! I don't recognize you as a son!"
No matter what Ji Huai said, he was going to give birth to a boy, and desperately gave birth to a boy!
Without a boy, everything is meaningless.
He still doesn't believe it. If he can't force them to give birth to a boy, is it possible that Ji Huai really doesn't want his parents? Just spent time with that outsider?
Ji Huai didn't show the urgency they wanted to see, but only left a light sentence, "If this is the case, I can't help it."
Before he finished his words, he turned and left without eating.
Ji Mu stood up and pointed to the direction Ji Huai had left with trembling hands. Qi Qiaoshengyan said, "What does he mean? Promise or disapproval?! What is no way? There are so many people who can give birth. Which woman can't give birth? !"
"Tian Jing graduated from a key university. She definitely doesn't want to have a baby." Sister Ji said slowly.
In her opinion, Tian Jing is stupid, giving birth to a boy, both in-laws and husband are valued, and in the future, the waist will be straight, she is a great hero, who dares to say her?
Isn’t it good for others to make money for themselves? How tired is it to make money by yourself?
"What's wrong with graduating from a key university? It's not from the gutters? I think it's a silly reading!" Ji Mu now has a very bad impression of Tian Jing, and she is extremely disgusted. She can't wait to let Ji Huai divorce her immediately and divorce immediately.
The sister-in-law Ji gave a few words of comfort, which was almost like fanning the flames.
Ji's mother and Ji's father were called anger, and they were sure of anger to Ji Huai, but it was their own cause, so the anger was on Tian Jing's body, gritted his teeth with hatred.
It must be divorced. The outsider brought a family of vampires and got divorced. Ji Huai asked Ji Huai to find another "obedient" local.
However, this was only their wishful thinking. Ji Huai left as soon as he said. He didn't come back that year during the Chinese New Year. They vomited blood. They didn't even know where Ji Huai lived, let alone forced a divorce, and called. , People say busy, at work.
In a perfunctory reply, if it wasn't for something, Ji Huai would hang up the phone before they got angry.
During the Chinese New Year this year, the company took a week off. The Tian family also stayed for a week. Ji Huai took them around to play around. The family got along fairly well.
When discussing to go back, Tian's mother hesitated to leave. Tian Jing's youngest daughter was only a few months old and was very noisy. Although Ji Huai can send Ji Tianqi to kindergarten in the morning, Tian Jing has to pick it up in the afternoon, and take the small one to pick up the big one. When he comes back, he is busy cooking and washing clothes. Where can he survive?
"Forget it, I won't leave, I will stay here and take care of the two children a little bit older." Tian Mu made up her mind.
The Ji family is definitely not reliable. After a few months, she is also used to life here. In the final analysis, it is more interesting here. She is in poor health and can't do farm work when she goes back. It is better to stay and help her daughter. .
Ji Huai made a suggestion, "Or dad stay and live for a while? The chopsticks are not bad at home, and Mom is not alone."
Father Tian definitely disagrees. Brother Tian is also a little hesitant. If he is alone in his family and can't get enough work, his parents are here. What will he do when he goes back alone?
And getting married in the middle of the year, there are many things.
Ji Huai said, "The harvest from the home is there. I suggest that my eldest brother and sister-in-law go out to work. There are many opportunities here. Xiaojing and I will find jobs for you. Even if we go to the factory, each person will cost five or six thousand per month. Two people are tens of thousands, which is better than farming at home."
They didn't think about it, they fell into deep thought, Tian Fu struggled, "I can't leave the things at home? What should I do with the things at home?"
Tian Jing used to be unable to take them out, and her parents did not dare to come out. She would rather stay in her comfort zone. If her brother came out, it would be bad if only the parents were left at home, and no one would take care of them. I don’t want them to go back again and persuade them,
How much can the things at home be worth? How much savings can you and mom have for a lifetime of hard work? Big brother and sister-in-law are still so young, do you really continue to farm?"
"Although the rent is expensive here, the salary is also high. If two people rent a house several thousand yuan a month, they can still save several thousand, tens of thousands or even tens of thousands a year. A few tens of thousands? The price is not good, and one year is nothing. Try it first, if it doesn’t work, you can go back."
Brother Tian’s fiancee is also a young girl in the mountains. She came here to see the bustling city. She didn’t want to go back to farming. She stretched out the hand of Brother Latian, and whispered,
Or, let’s stay and find a job. It’s okay to save some money and go back to open a shop."
Young people who want to farm? Facing the loess and back to the sky.
Besides, the sister-in-law is here, there are people to help, working in the field and earning tens of thousands a year is different from working in the shop and earning tens of thousands a year.
Brother Tian thought for a while, and agreed, "Okay! Let's stay and try."
He had only been to the provincial capital to work as far as he was, and his salary was not high, because he had no diploma, no skills, and the place was backward. The factory in the provincial capital provided food and housing, and only paid two thousand five thousand a month. Tian Jing had also persuaded him to come out before, but he didn't dare to come out this time, but also moved his mind to stay.
His sister is here, and his parents are here, so he has nothing to worry about. Ji Huai originally rented a house to Tian’s mother. The addition of Tian’s father would not affect her. But for Tian Jing, she was so happy, not because of the ease of having her parents help her take care of her children, but I am really happy to have my parents by my side.
With her family there, she doesn't need to be homesick.
The Tian family decided to stay, but Big Brother Tian and his fiancee had to go back to deal with matters and obtain certificates, rent out the land at home at a low price, and then come back to find work.
Ji Huai originally wanted to help him find it, but others were diligent and went to find a job delivering express delivery. When they saw him being simple, they hired him right away.
The salary has a basic salary, but if you add money according to the delivery, if you are diligent, it will be five or six thousand yuan a month. Sister Tian finds a relatively easy job. When she goes to a hotel as a waiter, she can get nearly four thousand, and she also includes food. Wrap around.
The two have an income of 10,000, and they can save a little a month or save four or five thousand. The two have goals and want to work hard for a few years. If they can't stay longer and save money, they will go back to the town to buy a house instead of staying in the mountain village.
Whenever they think so, both of them are very motivated.