Chapter 118: 118

After several seminars, a professor took a class and instructed the members in person before starting to prepare for the real work.
Give psychological counseling to the students.
It is mainly the seniors and sisters of the sophomore and above, the freshmen of the freshman year are listening, watching, learning, and fighting. The previous meeting and dinner Qiao Lan can be pushed off. This time, I have to follow anyway. Tan Mo is not good to participate in this kind of activity.
Tan Mo was really not happy.
Qiao Lan easily noticed Tan Mo's unhappiness.
Since Tan Mo was not allowed to lie to her anymore, Tan Mo would usually put his mood on his face, and would not hide anything from her.
Qiao Lan was also a little embarrassed.
She remembered her original intention of reporting to the club because the club was helpful for learning the professional knowledge. The facts proved to be really helpful. The professor even gave them a special lecture two days ago.
But if you remember the original intention of studying psychology, it is obvious that there is only one, and that is Tan Mo.
Therefore, whether it is applying for psychology or entering this club, it is all for Tan Mo. Now Tan Mo is unhappy for the club. Between the club and Tan Mo, Qiao Lan can make a choice without even thinking about it.
If Tan Mo doesn't like it, then it's not impossible to give up.
But recently... it may not work well. The community has been very busy recently, and it is inevitable that it would be too irresponsible to leave suddenly like this.
Looking at Tan Mo, who had become silent because she was going to be busy, Qiao Lan touched Tan Mo's earlobe and said, "When I finish my work recently, I will go to the president to quit the club, and I will accompany you every day after I quit."
Tan Mo's eyes lit up, "Really?"
"Of course it's true, when did I lie to you?" Qiao Lan smiled, "I'm leaving now."
Tan Mo couldn't hold back and kissed her, "Then I will pick you up at night."
Qiao Lan waved her hand with a smile and said hello.
When I got into the club, I saw Roman running around behind Ji Su again, watching her come in and say hello and then followed Ji Su again.
Everyone seemed interested in the theater at first, but they have been chasing for almost two months, so they have become ridiculous.
When everyone is here, we will start today’s task assignment. The senior elder sisters will lead the younger elder sisters. The senior elder sisters will naturally call them. Qiao Lan didn’t go to join in the fun until Ji Su called out. She said.
Qiao Lan looked up, and for a moment, Ji Su looked calm, "Today you follow me and Pei Beijia."
"Oh, good", Qiao Lan glanced at the senior sister who was standing next to Ji Su and smiling at her, and gave her a smile.
Because of Tan Mo's relationship, she is indeed suspicious of Ji Su, but it has been a rotation for the past few days. These freshmen and every senior sister can get in touch with Ji Su, not to mention that there is nothing more than that. Another senior sister.
After packing up his things, he waited for Ji Su to arrange work, followed by Ji Su and Pei Beijia out.
Qiao Lan walked next to Pei Beijia and listened to Ji Su and Pei Beijia talking about something very professional. Qiao Lan listened very seriously. When he got to the place, Pei Beijia glanced at the phone and said something was wrong. Leave for a while. Qiao Lan reacted and left in a hurry.
Qiao Lan frowned, didn't say anything, sat on another chair beside the table, and glanced at the time.
Nineteen seventeen.
Ji Su flipped through the roster in his hand and asked her casually, "What's the matter, is there something urgent?"
"No", Qiao Lan received her mobile phone, "Senior, when will the classmates coming for consultation arrive?"
"It was arranged at half past seven, and there are still more than ten minutes."
Qiao Lan nodded and said nothing, but unconsciously moved the chair a little further.
Ji Su paused with the pen in his hand, tapped his fingertips on the paper twice, raised his head and glanced at Qiao Lan suddenly and said, "I don't know if it is my illusion, I think you are a bit repelling me."
Ok?
Qiao Lan really didn't expect Ji Su to be so sharp-eyed, let alone ask him so directly.
After a moment of surprise, Qiao Lan smiled slightly, "Thinking too much, I didn't reject the senior, after all, we don't have much communication," Qiao Lan said as usual.
"It seems that I feel wrong?"
"That's not true", Qiao Lan shook her head, "Maybe it's because I deliberately stay away from any opposite sex."
Ji Su nodded with interest, "Does your boyfriend like it?"
"...For this reason," Qiao Lan said, "but I think since I have a boyfriend, staying away from other opposite is something that the other half should do."
It's just being in love, already called the other half by the other half? Ji Su was a little unhappy, but still smiled and couldn't see anything, but continued to discuss this issue with Qiao Lan.
"It may be that our views are slightly different. I think even if you have a boyfriend or a girlfriend, you don't have to completely abandon friends of the opposite sex. Even the other half has no right to not allow people you like to have friends."
"There is no conflict between having friends of the opposite and staying away from friends of the opposite sex," Qiao Lan said. "I think that no matter when you are, you can't live without friends. Friends are an indispensable part of life, but I think After having a boyfriend, it is also necessary to keep a certain distance with friends of the opposite sex, the seniors think."
Ji Su looked at the girl in front of him.
Beautiful, smart, generous, and direct, no matter what, he feels extremely satisfied.
"You are right, then I have another question for you, if one day you are asked to choose between your significant other and a very important friend, what would you do?"
"A more rational approach is naturally not the right thing for people."
"Are you a rational person."
"I am not", Qiao Lan shook her head decisively, "I am not right with people, I am very protective and partial."
"Eccentric boyfriend?"
"of course."
"Even if it is indeed your boyfriend's fault?"
"Yes."
Even this may be really wrong, even if others will say that she is fascinated by feelings, even if such feelings are somewhat abnormal in the eyes of others, her choice will never change.
For any question, there is only one correct answer to her, and that is Tan Mo.
Ji Su suddenly didn't want to speak, Qiao Lan was still the Qiao Lan, who made him helpless.
There was no way to get close before, and it was finally easy to get close, but it was useless to say that it was a lot, but it only made him feel bad.
Fortunately, the first student to come for consultation has arrived, and the conversation between Ji Su and Qiao Lan has ended.
After Qiao Lan followed for a few days, she was really amazed at the various secrets hidden in the heart of the students, lamenting that there are so many people in this world who think too much and are overly paranoid. Everyone is doing psychological counseling while sorting out the cases. After a few days of rest, all sit together and analyze the case.
In order to protect the students’ sex, the cases were not signed. Ji Su and other seniors selected the most representative and probably the most extreme cases to discuss together.
There is a case today that happens to be the case.
I don’t know which senior elder sister dealt with. Qiao Lan has not met after several days. The protagonist of the case should be a girl according to the analysis of the incident. One sentence explanation is that the girl thinks her boyfriend is too extreme, so she broke up, boyfriend Resolutely disagree, and made a series of extreme behaviors to prevent her from breaking up.
What made the girl unbearable in the end was that her boyfriend came to tell her that if she mentioned the breakup, he would commit suicide.
"He will always scold me and be violent at me. When he scolds and cry, I will say that he is wrong, but he will always scold me and violent me. I cannot talk to anyone other than him, including female classmates, in qq If you don’t reply in the last minute, you will get angry. If you don’t reply in 1 minute, he will keep sending it until I get back. I can’t see it in time every time. It’s really crazy...every time my friend When I was unhappy, he would say, don’t care about other people’s affairs, but my good friends, he would say let them go to hell, I was really driven crazy, and I wanted to break up and get rid of it. But he threatened me to commit suicide..."
Recently, there was a suicide incident in school. The girl was really frightened by her boyfriend's threats. For the time being, she didn't dare not to mention breaking up, but because of her boyfriend's behavior, she was even more anxious and afraid of him.
Ji Su asked the members to send the information to everyone, and let everyone read it carefully.
For this kind of problem, just like the few girls who made comments immediately after listening to them, they felt that they must be divided and divided immediately.
A grumpy girl just didn't hold back and said directly, "Divided, divided right away. I don't believe that he will really commit suicide. This kind of selfish person is reluctant to commit suicide."
After all the information was sent to my hands, I discovered that things were not that simple.
Because from the girl’s narrative, the boyfriend’s suicide was not a deliberate threat, and he might actually commit suicide.
The girl cited a series of extreme behaviors by her boyfriends, which are absolutely impossible for normal people to do, but he did one after another.
After everyone was silent for a while after reading the information, a boy said in silence, "This boy, is he sick."
After speaking, he hurriedly said, "I am not scolding him, I am stating the facts and saying that he is ill, which means he is mentally ill."
This conclusion has been unanimously approved by everyone, because normal people cannot do such things.
Qiao Lan looked at the manuscript in her hand and listened to the chattering discussions around her, without speaking.
Ji Su also has been patiently [biqusa www.biqusa.info] after listening to everyone discussing for a while, and then he began to say,
"Accurately speaking, excessive possessiveness and paranoia are not a mental illness, but it also depends on how strong possessiveness is, whether there is excessive suspicion or improper behavior like monitoring the other party, and your possessiveness. It does not seriously affect your state or anything. Of course, whether or not mental illness is too possessive is not a good thing in itself."
"Generally, people who are too possessive tend to have low self-esteem, and they feel that they are not good enough and they are afraid of being abandoned by the other party, so they want to control and possess each other. These problems, in general, communicate properly, and use the correct way to guide it is normal. To solve it, the topic we are discussing today is not this one, but another one, not for the possessive behavior, but for the real people with mental illness."
"Here, I raise a question, people with mental illness, do you think they can have the love of a normal person like a normal person?"