Chapter 1066: Do not encourage and perfect (3/3)

Dad’s question is too good to answer. The game of playing a stack of cups is not fun, of course, happy! He smiled awkwardly and nodded with his father.
"That dad describes an environment with you, that is, if you give a room, for example, we are in this bedroom, you are playing a stack of cups in the room alone, do you feel happy, or are we having fun tonight?" The problem description is very clear.
However, he still opened his brain. She licked her head and curiously asked: "Is Xiner playing with me?"
"There is no sweet child, only you are alone." Yang Lan shook his head.
Rubbing his eyes, he quickly shook his head and said with a small mouth: "I don't want to play alone!"
When I was a child, I was quite lonely. But since I was four years old, I have a father at home. My mom and dad will take her out for a business trip, and there are friends in the kindergarten to play together. Later, there are many more. Good friends, this makes her a little bit accustomed to being alone!
Yang Lan mentioned this, just made a small contrast, and did not intend to scare, so I saw him smile a little, then said: "Do you think that when you play tonight, you stack the cups special Great, then Mom and Dad, and my brother applauding you, especially have a sense of accomplishment?"
I immediately thought of the feeling just now, and suddenly I rose up and said: "Yeah, yes, super happy!"
"So, this is what we are trying to do, not only for ourselves, but also for the recognition of more people. The praise or encouragement of others is a very strong for each of us. Motivation! After you get everyone's praise, you are even more happy, and I hope that I can do better?" Yang Lan shook his fist and said to him.
It happened to nod.
"Do you think that when Dad calls you, applauds the mother, or applauds the younger brother, are they unhappy?" Yang Lan then threw a question.
With a blink of an eye, this topic, she has something to say, only to see her happy holding the hand of her father, said: "Hey, I told you, oh, I and you, and my brother, after applauding Ma Ma is willing to play with a stack of cups, and then she does not know that she is also super powerful!"
The look of the little girl is delighted. It seems that Murphy’s credit for playing a fast stack of cups is the same as her.
Yang Lan was amused by the little girl's innocence. He laughed, stretched out his right hand and licked his hair and some slightly damp hair. He said, "Yes, your encouragement is very important!"
"There is also a younger brother. He also likes to play. When I give him a thumbs up, he is also very happy!" He smiled with his father with a small thumb.
"Well, that's right, this is the first topic that Dad wants to talk to you tonight. We can't bear to say something encouraging to others!" Yang said softly. "You also saw, how strong is the power of encouragement? Is it that others encourage you, or do you encourage others, just a short sentence, a simple gesture..."
Yang Hao raised his thumb and pointed his thumb at the thumb: "It's easy to do, but it can give others, or others can give us more joy, and better motivation."
Although Dad was laughing, but his attitude was right, he felt it, and he looked at his father intently and listened carefully.
"Don't underestimate this little encouragement, although such encouragement is not the key to a person's success, but this encouragement can help each other and do one thing better!" Yang Lan said softly, "You Think, you are so good tonight, the stack of cups is fast and accurate. If there is no encouragement from father, mother or brother, the mood is more general. Is it possible that it is not so powerful?"
He nodded hard and his father's metaphors were relatively easy to understand. Until now, I heard that there is not much burden, because she is still in a state of ignorance, do not know where these principles should be used.

Why is Dad telling you this topic?
Yang Hao said with a slight smile.
Because today’s evening, when Dad picks you up and Xiner goes home, you and Xiner are in the car, not that you don’t like the squad leader’s care. Xiao Yan?"
When I saw my father suddenly said this thing, I realized that I might not do it right. She twisted her nervously in the chair and nodded reluctantly.
"Dad thinks that your mentality may not be very good. Before we do something, we first deny the ability of others. This will give the other party a negative energy for us." Yang Xiao smiled. "Dad said this, you may be hard to understand, that is, we have to think about it another way. If we were at the beginning, we didn’t look at the problem with this unhappy attitude, but instead, as the father said. Said to Cao Ruolin, the squad leader, I believe that you will take care of Xiaoxi, you are also very caring people! Then, she is in a good mood, will she also try hard to take care of Xiaoyan?"
He whispered his little mouth and said, "But I hope that Xiaoxiao can come to our house to play!"
"This is the second topic that Dad wants to tell you tonight. We must have a heart that pursues perfection, but what we have to do is not perfect, but perfect! Because in this world, not everything, Can satisfy our own wishes.
Yang Lan took the example of tonight to give an example.
For example, tonight, when you play a stack of cups, you feel that you are stacking speed. Compared with your mom and dad, who stacks more fast?"
Being exposed to reality, I feel very unhappy, and she reluctantly swears: "Hey and hemp are faster."
"Yes, you have not been able to do your best, but it doesn't matter! Dad still thinks that you are doing very well tonight, and you are very happy. We are all very happy, because although you have not been able to do the best, but although you have not been able to do the best, but Dad thinks that you have done a great job. You can do it well on the first day, and you will have better progress in the future! By thinking, your performance is very commendable and joyful, you said Isn't it?" Yang said softly.
I heard my father said this. When I thought about it, I did a good job. It’s no wonder that my father and mother were so happy and they were in a good mood. She smiled and said,
Yes!

"So, yeah, we want to do our best, but sometimes we can't do our best. It doesn't matter, as long as we work hard, get progress, or get what we should have at this stage, This is already very good!" Yang Lan rushed and gave a thumbs up.
"Please tell me how to come to our house to be a guest. You are very kind. I hope that Xiaoyan can come home and get good care. This idea is very good, but other students have such an idea. It is impossible for everyone to Satisfied. So the teacher also considered this question. Maybe this weekend, Xiao Xiao went to the home of the squad leader Cao Ruolin. Next week, maybe Xiao Xiao will come to our house. Even if he doesn’t come next week, it may come next next week. of."
"The teacher believes in you very much. You are very caring children. No matter who you go to, you can have fun." Yang said softly. "If it is next week, Xiao Xiao will come to us." Come home, will you entertain it with great enthusiasm?"
"Of course!" 地点 nodded hard and raised the volume and said, "I want to give my little room to my room, so that they won't scare them!"
"Look, although this weekend, Xiaoxi has not been able to come to our home, this is not the most perfect, but if it comes in the future, you will still be very happy, isn't it?" Yang said softly.
"Well!" He nodded relatively quickly, but this time he didn't laugh, just pouting and trying to accept it.
"If that, we don't want to be so low, I am very happy to congratulate Cao Ruolin and encourage her. I hope she will take care of Xiaoxiao. When we come to our home next time, we will take better care of Xiaoxiao, you. Is it the same to be happy?" Yang said with a smile.
"Actually, the squad leader is still very good. When she was on Thursday, she was not afraid when she smacked the smack. Then she bought a lot of rags!" He finally said a fair word, originally, these The discovery was hidden in her heart.