Chapter 681: How to guide your curiosity (4/4, for Ning Xiaojia's Wanjue plus)
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House Dad’s Literary Life
- Happy Family
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- 2021-02-11 01:46:24
This question is really sincere, especially in front of a small scorpion...
Yang Lan looked at the curious big eyes and said helplessly: "Dad is of course the same as the boy... because Dad is also a boy!"
"But, but..." I still want to say something.
"Okay!" Yang yelled at the little girl's head and said with a smile. "There is something wrong. Let's go home and say it, now, don't say it."
"Okay..." I regretted that she still had some intentions. It seems that there is still the possibility of discussion on this topic.
I finally calmed down, but this faint feeling of lingering in this hotel box, until after the lunch of Mo Xiaojuan, excuses something, leave early.
Anyway, Yang Lan is back, no need to accompany her with Murphy.
At noon, after sleeping, Yang Lan came to the bedroom next door. Murphy was lying on the bed. He was gently screaming at the song. He was a little noisy and wanted to play.
The little guy is still asleep now, the little hand is placed on the stomach, one is placed next to him, then the little face is facing the direction of the mother, the small mouth is slightly raised, I don’t know if I listen to the song. I am very happy to sleep.
Murphy saw that Xiaoxiao was asleep, and she took a sigh of relief and hugged the little one into the crib, so that she could lay in Yang Lan with peace of mind.
"I don't know, I'm so curious to see the cockroaches' ." Murphy pulled over Yang's hand so that he could snuggle in his arms and then look at Yang's side face and ask. "You said, do I need to find an opportunity to talk to her about this?"
Today, Mo Xiaojuan came to accompany her. The two sisters watched TV and chatted. Of course, they also took care of the children. Oh, it’s okay, I’m playing with her dolls on the side of the game, I don’t have to worry about Murphy, and I’m almost a little, he’s not yet able to climb the world, Murphy. Hold him, or put it in a small shaker, the little guy can stare at the little stars hanging on the small shaker for a long time.
Since Murphy got married, the two sisters didn't have time to sit down and have a good chat. This time, Murphy did not ask Mo Xiaojuan's marriage problem. This forced her to uselessly. Only afterwards, the two were just like before, watching the people on TV comment on the foot.
Either explore the dressing of some actresses, or study which male star is more handsome. The topic of these girls is that they often talk when they are young. Now chatting with them, it is also a recollection of the memories of those girls.
Mo Xiaojuan's eyes are slightly different from Murphy's. She prefers a good-looking man. This looks good, obviously adding some feminine elements to the handsome.
"But it is not only good-looking, but also mature enough and gentle. Those little boys can't, I can't stand them stupid." Mo Xiaojuan said.
She also commented on Murphy's vision: "Sister, your vision will not work. I am not saying that my brother-in-law is not good, others are very good, mature, gentle enough for you, but not good-looking! Not even handsome enough... Of course Now, it doesn't make sense to say this, you are already his person!"
Although Mo Xiaojuan is joking, Murphy is very dissatisfied with Mo Xiaojuan’s evaluation. In her opinion, Yang Lan is very handsome and really handsome!
I didn’t think it before, but since Yang’s character changed, it’s not as sloppy as before, the hair is shaved, the beard is generally clean, and the taste of dressing is put up, Murphy gradually feels Yang Lan is very handsome!
This is not the lover's eyes, but Murphy really thinks that Yang Lan is in line with his own aesthetics, and it is more and more eye-catching, now looking at the tough face of Yang Lan, and the eyes that are as deep as the stars. Hey, Murphy feels that his heart is a little rough.
How can such a man say that he is not handsome?
Yang Lan certainly didn't know the whispers between Murphy and the sisters of Mo Xiaojuan. He was thinking about what Murphy said.
"I don't think it's necessary to talk about these problems with great care." Yang Lan said to Murphy.
"But, the little cards that you made before, let me talk about education, isn't the effect good?" Murphy said inexplicably. "Why don't you continue to talk to you? She is so curious and should be satisfied." Her curiosity prevents her from exploring."
Yang Lan gently shook his head and said: "The nature of these two is different. She is at the age of gender consciousness, so I am very curious about these, but we, as parents, for children, What should be done is modest education and guidance. That is to say, you need to know that men and women are different, but you don't need to know too much, so as not to cause her greater curiosity."
"For example, we can tell her that boys are different from girls. Boys go to boys' toilets, girls go to girls' toilets, and when they go to the toilet, they can't let others see them, but there is no need to tell her that they will be seen by others. What's not good, what the bad guys will do. Or, for example, we can tell her that boys and girls can't kiss, but there is no need to tell her that you are so small, not sensible, and kissing boys will be cheaper. ""
"I understand that the thinking of these adults does not need to be instilled in the children too early." Murphy suddenly realized.
"Yes, including men and women, what is the difference in the specific use of the place, we do not need to tell her now." Yang Xiao smiled.
"What should I do? How do you reasonably guide your curiosity according to what you said?" Murphy asked inexplicably.
"This, I will talk to her later!" Yang Yan said.
In the afternoon, Yang Lan found a time, took a few printed pictures, and sat in front of him.
"Today my mother told my father that you are very curious, why the younger brother is not the same as you, right?" Yang said softly and said that she was playing with her toy.
"Yeah!" The little girl suddenly came to the spirit, and the movements in her hands stopped. Her eyes focused on her eyes and said to her father, "Ma Ma said that it was different when going to the toilet."
"Well, my mother is right, not completely right." Yang Xiao smiled. "Dad tells you a myth story. Of course, it may be true or false. A long time ago, there was a called a woman." Oh..."
Yang Lan is telling the story of a son-in-law who created a man. However, this story was modified by Yang Lan. Men and women are different when they are pinching the soil.
"You have also played with plasticine. The things you pinch are somewhat uncontrollable. Even if you want to pinch two identical pigs, they are still different, right?"
I nodded ignorantly.
"Yes, so when the son-in-law is pinching people with mud with magical power, the shape of the person is different, so there is a difference between boys and girls. This is a normal thing." Yang Lan said.
"Look, what are these two pictures?" Yang Lan took out two pictures and smiled and asked.
"Lion! Hey, hey, I know the lion!" When the little girl answered her own question, she smiled and gradually forgot the curiosity that was very persistent at the beginning.
"Yeah, what is the difference between these two lions?" Yang said.
"The big hair is the boy lion, the girl without the hair is the girl lion!" They all put their toys down, and went to Dad's side, glaring at Dad's hand, and said cheerfully.
These Yang Lan used to talk to her when she was reading the album. The little girl had a good memory.
And this?
Yang Lan took out two photos of the kangaroo.
What is the difference between the two?
"This baby is sitting in the belly of a kangaroo, this is a kangaroo!" The singer was clear. Before Lu Weisha sent a photo, Yang Lan told her that there is a baby kangaroo in the nursery bag. It is a male kangaroo.
"Yes? So, lions and kangaroos have their own differences. People are the same, but we have wisdom. In addition to these physical differences, we can distinguish from their clothes and hair that they are boys or Girls... at least most of them can be clearly divided." Yang Lan summed up.
The difference between organs is guided to the big differences, but it is macroscopic but it seems to be very reasonable. I understand it and smiled awkwardly: "The boy is short hair, the girl is long hair!"
"This is not certain, but it is basically the same. It doesn't matter. In the future, if you look at other people's faces, you can see some differences." Yang Xiao smiled and licked the little girl's head and said, "You still have If you don't understand anything, come back to Dad, okay?"
"Hmm!" The little girl finally nodded with satisfaction.