Chapter 273: Marie Su's Men 8

"Dad, how did you and your mother were together?"
When the original wife died, as the eldest daughter, Duo Duojin was eight years old. For the mother, even after more than ten years, her mind still has a memory about the other side and is deeply stored in the depths of the sea.
In the memory of Yu Duojin, her mother is a woman with a strong personality. She is straightforward and slick. Now she can have such a foundation in her family. It is also unrelated to her original contribution. In the family, the other is also a A very good mother, even if she wanted a son because of her old ideas, she did not ignore the daughters in front of them.
What's more, the ability to let such a good father mourn for half a lifetime, and no rest for the rest of his life, this is enough to prove the charm of the mother, and the feelings of both parents.
"We were different from you at that time. There were several ways to find an object. Parents introduced, colleagues introduced, relatives introduced. Only a small number of people talked about their own objects. At that time, they did not fall in love and looked at each other. The family background is also suitable, you can decide to get a marriage certificate, and then you will come over for a lifetime. My mom and I are relatives introduced, the first day to meet, the matchmaker got a positive reply on both sides, the next day I She went to the movie and went to the park on the third day. Then the marriage was settled. After the two elders talked about the dowry, after completing these processes, I got married with your mother one month later."
晏褚 I will see it from the original memory, and repeat it as it is.
"Is it just a blind date?" 晏多金 is a bit strange. In the past, Dad rarely mentioned things about his mother. Their sisters were also daddy who was afraid of touching the scene. They also paid attention to this on weekdays.
She always thought that Dad could be single for the rest of his life. It must be because they had a strong feeling before. Now it seems that she thinks more?
"Then when you saw your mother on the first day, did you have the kind of heartbeat acceleration, the feeling of love at first sight?" 晏多金 could not help but ask.
"Where is it so mysterious."
Yan Renjun couldn't help but touched the head of the prostitute. "Your mother has more brothers and sisters. When she was young, she and her former brother and sister were sent to the grandmother's house in the country until they reached the age of the object. At that time, she was black, tied with two twists, wearing a new dark blue shirt. She looked a bit cautious. At the time, I still felt that she was not good. I wanted your grandmother to take the bridge with the middle. The red man of the line said, "We haven't seen your mother here."
Although he said that he was demeaning, but his face was filled with a smile of remembrance, and more gold understood that even though his father did not look at his mother, he must have changed his mother later, otherwise it would not be like this. The attitude does not cover up the things of the year.
"But your mom is not the same. Your dad is a young man when he is young. He is still a high school diploma. On the day of the blind date, your milk helped me to lick it. It seems that Sven, your mother just saw me. My eyes are straight, and if I fall in love at first sight, she might be like this."
"Dad, since you didn't look at my mother at first, then how did you both become a thing?" Yan Duojin asked in a hurry.
He took a picture of her daughter's shoulder and motioned her not to worry.
"I didn't say it before. We looked for objects at that time. It was more about looking at the family and seeing the meaning of both parents. At that time, I didn't look at your mother, but your grandmother looked at them. They felt that your mother was physically strong. It’s a diligent woman, and your mom’s temper is refreshing. This is more of your grandmother’s appetite. At that time, she always felt that I was doing something warm, and I needed this temperate woman to neutralize my temper. Since everyone around me said Ok, I just want to try it, so I asked your mom to watch a movie and asked her to go to the park to play. In the middle of getting along, I felt that your mom is as good as your grandmother said. We should have this marriage, then we will get married, and then you will have it."
At that time, the marriage was so complicated, it was suitable to get married, and there was no love or love. Let’s live together, have children, and if there is nothing unexpected, it will come over in a lifetime.
What I said, it’s very different from the stories of the sisters’ parents who were originally fantasies, and they’re so eager to think of themselves.
"Dad, what kind of feelings do you have for your mother, is it a responsibility?"
Yu Duojin associates himself with his parents' marriage. At present, Yao Zhan is indeed the one that is most suitable for her. In particular, the two companies are now harmoniously cooperating. If they can really be together, they can also strengthen the two. Cooperation, this is a win-win situation.
She does not seem to need to consider other more complicated situations.
I saw the thoughts of the eldest daughter, could not help but sigh, and then corrected her sitting posture, let her face to face themselves.
"When I was with your mother, the relationship was cultivated mainly after marriage. Is there love? It must be there, but more couples, who support them after marriage, are responsible and affectionate."
Some lucky couples find that the other party is the other half suitable for them after marriage. They gradually have a love, they are lucky, and some couples, in the marriage, they did not fall in love with each other. However, they have developed a family relationship. On the road afterwards, they support each other for the rest of their lives. These people are also fortunate, and they are also the majority of their time.
It is the responsibility of both of them to test the husband and wife in the latter half of the test.
In the 1970s and 1980s, material life was just basically satisfied. Many people did not have the leisure time to pursue spiritual wealth. The husband and wife lived together, surrounded by rice and oil, and surrounded the children's parents.
After the 1990s, people's material level went up, and entertainment and life were more abundant. At this time, the test came.
The man who dislikes his wife is not beautiful enough. No woman outside will dress up. It is not gentle enough to dislike his wife. He only knows how to care for a three-cented man. It is like a woman outside, knowing and understanding, and gentle.
In the same way, a woman will also abandon her husband. A husband who does not have a family will make money. Abandoning that her husband has not given her a good life, and a woman whose husband is enough to make money may even dislike that the other party does not have enough time to accompany them. Compared to the temptations of sweet talk around me, the current marriage is lacking.
At this time, they will think of the beginning of this marriage, but it is only from the family, but it will only be a part of the life, and breaking the wrong marriage shackle is the beginning of freedom.
Divorce has become frequent and has become more arrogant. It is like a new wife who is proud of the new style of progress in the Republic of China. It is not as proud and high-profile as the original wife of Ming Media. It is like the original marriage, it is someone else’s knife. They carried out on their necks and completely forgot the poor woman who was equally painful in this marriage.
At this time, responsibility becomes extremely important.
Even if the outside temptation is big, those who are responsible will remember who they are with them through difficult days, who are the children who give birth to them, and who they follow with their elders.
This world, not just love and love to run, in addition to love, there are other things worth sticking to.
Before you choose the other half, since you chose it, then in the subsequent marriage, you should understand each other and understand each other, instead of being tempted by the outside world, with the words of me and you without feelings. , draw a full stop for marriage.
I don't know if the original body had any love for his wife, but I am sure that he was a responsible man before the strange Zhong Rong Duo appeared.
"but."
When Duo Jinjin thought that the most important thing for Dad to teach her marriage was responsibility, he suddenly turned around and changed a rhetoric.
"We didn't choose in that era. Everyone said that you are not young. You have to get married. Everyone says that the object is right for you. You have to confess with him. That society is like this. You can't be unconventional. Can follow the planned life, step by step life."
晏褚 For the prostitute, the hair of the horns is broken behind the ear, watching her daughter's eyes are very loving: "I like the present era, because it can accommodate more voices."
"I hope that when you lead your boyfriend to appear in front of Dad, it is because he is the person you like, not just a suitable person. I hope that one day you will take your hand and hand you over to another man. The reason is because you love him because you want to marry him, not because others say that when you are old, you should get married, you should have a baby, that is not true."
"Dabao, Dad hopes that in your marriage, not only will it have responsibility, but also love."
I have a somewhat puzzled look at Shangyu Duojin. I laughed and laughed: "You can rest assured that Dad is very open-minded. If you don't find the one you really want to marry, then let's talk about the love of a lifetime. When you want to be the collar A girl came back and said that it was a woman you like, and Dad also supported his hands, but one thing, Dad wants you to remember, that is, don’t marry for marriage, that life will not be what Dad wants to see. of."
I don't think that the marriage that suits each other is not good, just because Yu Duojin is his daughter, so he wants her to live better.
"father."
Yan Duojin’s eyes were slightly red, and he couldn’t help but bury his head in his father’s chest, and then hugged him.
She thinks that Dad should know the troubles she has recently entangled. Just the words, it is also his advice as a father.
To tell the truth, marriage in this circle is not a rare thing. When I decided to inherit Yu's family, I was ready to find a husband who was quite a family. Yao, who is good for the development of Yu, is such a People, there is nothing that you like or dislike, just because the other person is suitable.
Just as Yao Zhan expressed satisfaction with her, it was only because of the union of interests.
But now Dad’s meaning is that she just wants her to simply find a man she likes, instead of finding a husband who is good for her.
Yan Duojin feels that the luckiest thing in her life is probably to have such a wise and loving father.
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