Chapter 317: Poor woman in patriarchal family (2)

"Life is terrible, you have a baby girl, what can you do in the future?"
"Ah, let's go."
The speaker sighed heavily. The mother on the bed reddened her eyes, tears burst into tears, and she cried, "She is so small."
"What is crying on confinement? Is there any way to be unlucky?" Aimu looked at her daughter who was struggling. "Find a relative from the countryside to support and give me some money. When you have a son, you will pick it up again, and it will double the pain. And spend a little more money to settle accounts. "
"Just give birth to this one? Do you think about reality? Your mother-in-law agrees? Do you want a divorce? By then the child will have no father or mother, and will be more pitiful than she is now." Isn't divorce asking someone to poke the backbone? "
"Everyone knows the reason, and I also know that this is unfair to that girl. Isn't there a way to do it? Consider the tradeoffs, or do you want to live with Ji Yang?"
Ai held the sheet, tears dripping onto the sheet.
"Fight to have a son, and your life will be smooth." Ai Mu continued, "If you have a son, you will have a dependency in the future, otherwise what do you do with Ji Yang?"
"We have wages and we don't need people to support them." Ai Yi wanted to refute, but shut up.
Ai also gave her a younger brother, saying that it would be nice to have a son to support him. In fact, he had to take care of his grandson while he was busy at home, and had to be scolded by his children.
But when she thinks about Ji's family and Li Qiuxiang, she feels weak in her hands and feet. Moreover, Ji Yang is the eldest son, and she has a little preference for boys.
She is confused.
"What can wages do? No one burns incense for the New Year and the New Year, and gives birth to a baby girl. Marrying is someone from someone else's house. In the future, everything is owned by her, and son-in-law doesn't have to do anything for free." Agree with her statement, stern face, very serious scolding.
"Mom." Ji Yang came in from outside and called out, Aimu quickly stopped, he smiled, "You are here? You come to take care of Xiaoxiong, my mother can't walk away."
"Whatever is hard or not, it should be, anyway, I'm also idle." Ai's face was full of laughter, as if with a hint of guilt.
She is very satisfied with the son-in-law who eats public meals, but unfortunately, her daughter gave birth to a girl.
How good would it be a boy?
She didn't believe that Li Qiuxiang was free. It wasn't that Ai Yi gave birth to a daughter, so she didn't bother to watch it.
"How can it be?" Ji Yang walked over and looked at the sky outside. "It's getting dark. I just took a vacation in these two days. I will take care of Xiaoyu at night. I'll take my mother back?"
"Okay, I'll come tomorrow." Aimu thought that there was still a lot of work at home, and packed up and went out, facing Ji Yangdao, "Don't give it away, I will go back by myself, you go and watch Xiaoyu . "
"I called Mom a car, and I don't worry about you alone." Ji Yang returned to her.
"also."
The two walked to the entrance of the hospital, Ji Yang reached out to stop the car, and Ai sighed and looked at him, "Xiao Yang, the girl child is just a girl child. You are still young and still able to give birth, mainly to let Xiao Yang support her Well, this one will be sent to the countryside, and a baby boy will be able to live a good life. "
People around do this, don't go to the hukou, nobody knows.
She also worried that Ji's family was in trouble.
Ji Yang drove the door to her, "I have all my life, how can I give it to someone else to raise? Don't worry about it, I don't think about it for the time being."
"No, you have to think about it." Aimmo was relieved, and a heart raised again when he heard him say so.
How can you not want to?
Who doesn't have a boy?
"Mom, you go back first. I'll watch Xiaoyu and report home safety." Ji Yang closed the door and paid.
Ji Yang didn't listen to her continue to say, let the master drive.
If you think about it, their husband and wife are college students and have received higher education, but why ca n’t they bother the
destruction
of the two.
See what happened in the end?
But think about it, like everyone around this small place, following the crowd is better than going against the road. People live in society and are subject to many restraints.
Back in the ward, he saw Ai Yi reach out his hand to wipe his tears. When the other party saw him come back, he immediately lowered his head and blocked him from seeing him.
In the previous life, she also fought, but in the face of more and more troubles, the original owner threatened to divorce before giving birth, and finally the other party compromised in order to give the child a home and a home.
Conceiving in October, whoever has a child who hurts.
How can there be so many chic options? Everything is the best way to look after measuring, the best choice in the circumstances.
"Want to drink some water? Are you thirsty?" Ji Yang got up and poured water for her, and sat down on the chair beside her.
Ai Yi stared at him for a few times and then stopped talking.
"I went to see the child. I have to be with you tomorrow. I took some pictures." Ji Yang sat down and passed her mobile phone with a smile.
Ai Yi's eyes lit up. As a result, she looked at the little girl in the photo of the phone, a smile appeared on her mouth, and her eyes were moist.
This is her child. The moment she saw her, all the suffering was worth it, but when she remembered what Emma said, her smile converged.
Distressed.
"Take care of yourself and you are still on maternity leave. Would you like your mom to take it for you? After all, I have to go to work." Ji Yang took the lead.
Both work at the bank and she has regular maternity leave.
"I can do it alone," Ai said.
Not to mention whether Li Qiuxiang will come. Even if she does, she will have a hard time. As for Ai Mu, there is still a lot of farm work at home, and the other party can't be quiet when she comes.
Even if she is tired, she wants to bring her own.
I don't know what the child's final destiny is, she wants to get along longer, and she will do her best to take care of her and protect her.
"I'm afraid you will not be taken care of by confinement." Ji Yang said he was worried. "Children are also upset."
"Will you help me? We will bring it by ourselves." Ai Yi's tone was a little soft, and she just cried secretly just now, looking a little helpless at this moment.
Subconsciously, she put herself in a relatively low position, even with a little pleading.
Ji Yang is a bit masculine, thinking that washing, cooking, and having children are all things that women do.
Outside the male lead, inside the female lead.
It was really impossible for him to bring a child, but she had no other opinion, no one helped her, that kind of helplessness, no one could understand.
"That's also my child. Why can't you help? If you don't find it hard, then we will bring it by ourselves." Ji Yang didn't seem to think much and agreed.
Obediently, Ai was relieved.
He didn't say anything about boys and girls, so she wouldn't ask, why not find herself uncomfortable?
The next day, the child was returned to her.
The newly born child has not yet opened up, and a wrinkled ball, Ji Yang said that she looks like her.
She really couldn't see where it looked good. Such a small child would sleep and cry. Ai mother taught her how to hold her and how to feed her. Ji Yang also learned awkwardly on the side.
Li Qiuxiang and Ji Chunjun never appeared, and once again knew that their news was also received on the fourth day.
"Oh, Ji Yang, your brother gave birth to a big fat boy with a full weight of seven pounds, and that voice was so loud." The laughter of both of them couldn't stop, and it came out through the phone, in the ward It reverberated for a long time.
"That's fine." Ji Yang said something salty and hung up.
The atmosphere of the ward also changed. Ai Mu secretly sighed and touched Ai's hand. "This time, your life will be more difficult."
I am most afraid of comparison, especially having children.
From Ai's point of view, everything is over. If her daughter can't have a daughter, she won't be able to lift her head at her in-law's house for a lifetime.
Her concept is still very old. I think that the most important thing for a woman is to marry a man. A man is good to her, and this life is good. A man is not good to her, and this life is ruined.
"Xiao Mu's daughter-in-law gave birth to a child, born in the morning." Ji Yang lightly lifted over and walked over to milk powder for her daughter.
"I'll go see her tomorrow." Ai Yi said with a shudder.
As a grandma, there is still something to do.
"You have just given birth to a few days, there is no need to go, I will go and see tomorrow, when you are discharged from the hospital, go again, it is not bad these days." Ji Yang gave her a bottle and Ai tried it Temperature, gently pick up her daughter and feed it with a baby bottle.
"It's all good luck for others, and he's a son all his life." Ai Mu said so unintentionally, Ai Yan's eyes sank and she didn't speak.
"Why are you so particular about your sons and daughters this time? Don't let yourself be too often, your daughter is also born of a ten-month caesarean after a hard labor." Ji Yang reminded softly.
Ai Mu closed her mouth, her heart was even more uncomfortable, and she still had a caesarean section. The doctor also said that she could no longer be pregnant for a long time, and she remembered that her hair had turned white several times.
auzw.com Ji Yang's words made Ai Yi feel relieved, hugged her daughter, and touched her soft little hand.
What's wrong with my daughter?
Daughter is the little cotton jacket in the hearts of parents!
In the afternoon, Ji Yang said hello to her, and went to the inpatient department downstairs to see the younger brother Ning Fengsheng's son.
Ai Yi didn't want to think too much, but always felt tears swirling in his eyes.
Ji Yang was afraid that he was disappointed. The two also discussed this issue. Although the other party didn't say it clearly, the traditional thought also restrained him.
She thought he wanted a son, and he must have it.
It didn't take long for Ji Yang to walk in, still holding fruit in her hand, and came up to the bed.
"Haven't you gone yet?" She asked.
"Going to the door, it's all people. It should be the brother-in-law's family." Ji Yang sat down. "It doesn't matter if you don't go. Wait until my parents come up and say, your mother is back. I don't worry about it, just in case the child is troubled. "
"Um." Ai Yi nodded.
Li Qiuxiang and Ji Chunjun are still underneath, so there is a floor. Will they always come to see her?
Ai Yihao counted so much that he did not count the two did not come.
On the day she was discharged from the hospital, five days had passed since Ning Feng had a baby, and Ji's family had never seen her once.
The Ning family is complicated, and it is impossible for Ning's mother to take care of Ning Feng. Li Qiuxiang must take care of it.
But the other party hadn't even seen her, nor had she seen her granddaughter.
On the day she was discharged from hospital, Ai Yi couldn't help crying. The mood in the confinement was easy to get excited, and her daughter was noisy and couldn't stop crying.
Ji Yang was so angry that she threw all the apples she was going to take into the trash can, and said angrily, "If you don't come, you won't come, and we won't go!"
"You are still confinement, don't cry, crying is also suffering from your own body." Ji Yang comforted her.
Ai Mu didn't come today. Ai Yi and Ji Yang packed up, didn't go to see Ning Feng, went straight down the stairs with her daughter, and took a taxi to go back.
And at this time.
"Mom, is Grandma still upstairs?" Ning Feng cut her short hair and made up her hair during pregnancy. Her body was a bit blissful, mellow and round, drinking chicken soup.
"Yeah." Li Qiuxiang looked at the grandson lying down, and couldn't stop smiling. "Pissing again? Grandma will change it."
"Don't toss him like this, the nurse said, be light, what should I do if something happened?" Ning Feng suddenly scolded, so angry that she didn't even drink the chicken soup.
"I lightly, lightly." Li Qiuxiang looked vague, slow motion, for fear of hurting the baby.
"Mom, this is your baby grandson, so be careful." Ji Mu leaned on Erlang's legs and was holding a mobile phone while playing games without raising his head.
"Mom knows." Li Qiuxiang was scolded and could return cheerfully, looking at Ning Feng, "Xiao Feng, drink more and supplement your nutrition to have milk for your child."
"I see." Ning Feng's words were very impatient, and the words turned around again and again, "What's the room where Dasao is? I'll see her too."
"What's so good?" Li Qiuxiang converged, Shen said, "She will also come to see you, she is a few days earlier than you. As a grandma, I don't understand this etiquette, and I don't know how Aijia taught it. . "
"I don't care about this, she doesn't come to see me, I'll go and see her, it's not a big deal anyway." Ning Feng behaved very generously.
"Others have no etiquette, we have Xiaofeng." Ji Mu complimented his wife while playing games.
"Mom called to ask." Li Qiuxiang would not reject the "big hero" of their old quarter.
It's okay not to call.
In a dozen, Ji Yang said lightly, "Don't watch, we are discharged today, we have just arrived home."
"Don't say anything when you are discharged." Li Qiuxiang was dissatisfied. "Xiao Feng has been hospitalized for a few days, and Ai Yi didn't come to see. Is there anything like this?"
Ning Feng was drinking chicken soup, heard Li Qiuxiang's scolding sound, took another sip and felt really relieved.
They have been arguing for so long. She has never won Ai Yi. The other person looks good, has a higher education background than her, works better than her, and lives outside.
But now she turned over.
She can have a son. The other party works in a bank. She can only have one child and a daughter.
This life is about to be pressed under her feet, and she can never lift her head.
Ji Yang's mobile phone was a bit out of the box. When Li Qiuxiang said this, Ai Yi just happened to be holding her child upstairs. All of them were heard. She entered the room silently and did not speak.
Soon, Ji Yang's words passed into her ears, "Mom, both of you are your daughter-in-law. You have been serving Ningfeng for a few days below, and I haven't seen you come up to see Xiaoyi and your granddaughter."
"Granddaughter is no longer a human being? You don't want to see her so much, why should we bother you?"
Ji Yang said without hesitation.
Li Qiuxiang was stunned. She didn't expect her son to say such things. The oldest son is a college student and doing decent work at the bank. Although she hurts her younger son, her oldest son is her pride.
A girl was born, and now the couple must think about how to solve this girl and have a boy again.
Why did she suddenly fire at her?
"What's wrong?" Ning Feng saw that her face wasn't right.
"Your grandma, I don't know what's going on, but I'm so sorry. I'm not good for her at all? I have only one person who can't do it?" Li Qiuxiang will never say that his son is not, anything is It's all the daughter-in-law's fault.
In her opinion, she was angry because she didn't take care of her.
She said that she would be taken to the countryside to be raised in the countryside, and the girls would be raised in low price.
"It's not mom, you're so nice to her at the moment, now she's kicking her nose on her face." Ji Mu didn't look up, and came to say something.
"I see it too." Li Qiuxiang snorted softly from his nose. "When I am bullying, it is simply too much!"
How can there be a mother-in-law who is pinched by her daughter-in-law?
Isn't her daughter-in-law married to honor her parents with her husband?

The door didn't close.
Ji Yang also went in with Ai Yi. Here is the two-bedroom and one-living room they bought on loan, and it wasn't long before they got pregnant.
The house is not very big, and the usable area is less than 70 square meters. Because I work in the city and go back to the countryside, it is also troublesome, so I bought it with teeth.
Ai Yi carefully placed the child on the bed, but the other side was very sensitive. When she put it down, she woke up and started to cry.
"Don't cry, don't cry, mother won't let go." Ai Yi reached out and shook her gently, cooing softly.
I didn't sleep, but cried louder.
In the past two days, Ai Mu had no time, Ai Yi had no help, and the baby kept buzzing, her head buzzed, and she was tired physically and mentally when she heard what Li Qiuxiang had just said.
She was afraid of accidental depression.
"I'll come." Ji Yang took it from her and looked at her. "You didn't sleep much last night, let's sleep."
In the past, she didn't expect Ji Yang to help her, but the current conditions of the two are to be honest, the money that can be borrowed has been borrowed to buy a house. Although working in a bank, the position of the two is not high, it can only be said that Grassroots.
How much can I get? After the loan repayment, the life is very tight. With the children's meeting, the life is even more tight.
No one helped them, and they couldn't even afford a babysitter, they could only hold each other like this.
Since he was exporting, Ai did not refuse, even if she was not sleepy, she would go to bed and close her eyes to sleep.
The child is a child of two people. If Ji Yang can participate in the process of caring for the child, the father and daughter will have deeper feelings.
She loves this child and wants him to love their children.
Ji Yang walked out with her child in her arms, and closed the door to her by the way. From time to time, outside coursing voices came and calmed her irritability.
The pregnant woman couldn't stand the cold. She also wore thick socks on her feet, put on a hat, got into the quilt, closed her eyes, and fell asleep.
Ji Yang can only take a few days off. She must have a good spirit to bring her children.
The author has something to say: This poor girl not only refers to the small baby born in the family, but also refers to Ai Yi, even Ning Feng Li Qiuxiang and Ai Mu. This is a big bad situation. It exists not only in rural areas, cities There are better, some are even high intellectuals.
Even if gender equality is promoted, this phenomenon still exists in many, many places.
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