Chapter 322: Poor woman in patriarchal family (7)

Li Qiuxiang is a good scolder. Women quarrel in the village and take her as a helper. Who can scold her?
Ai Yi replied, she scolded you a hundred words, scolded all over the ancestors in the eighteenth generation without repeating, forcing her to pull up her sleeves and grit your teeth, you might get started in the next second.
"It's this daughter-in-law who is not filial and encourages my son to centrifuge with me. What's wrong with me? I worked hard to save money for them to buy a house, and my father and I worked hard all my life."
"With my wife, I forgot my mother, I forgot my mother."
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When the neighbors came to see her, she said she caught someone and sang a bitter drama with tears in her mouth.
In the past, Li Qiuxiang was very kind to her when she went back. She also treated her as her mother-in-law, and suddenly changed.
Nor was the argument, nor was it. The child was crying flushed, her head buzzing.
After thinking about it, she also lost face with scolding. She walked back to the room with a calm face, locked the door directly, and dialed a phone number for Ji Yang.
The situation now is not that Li Qiuxiang asked Ji Yang to return. She wanted to let him return immediately to resolve these broken things caused by his family.
Ai hangs up the phone, puts the child down, gets up to make milk, and starts a light music for her daughter.
She didn't want her daughter to be affected, and she could isolate the boring voice.
After half an hour.
Li Qiuxiang yelled dry, and when Ji Yang returned, he immediately shut up and sat at the door with a miserable appearance.
"What are you doing?" Ji Yang looked at each other's indecent gesture, and then looked at the neighbors, his tone was not very good, "Not enough shame?"
"What shame? You have registered your hukou without telling me and your dad at all, do you still know that I am your mother? What do I want to do? In the future, people will know that you have only one daughter and only one daughter in your life. You Even if this vein is broken, I will be laughed out of my teeth all my life. What do I want to do with this face? "Li Qiuxiang cried out, expressing the true feelings and licking her chest.
"Who has only one daughter? The daughter-in-law of Zheng Wu's family went to do test tube babies again. Without success, they were divorced. Now they have married a man from outside the province and have a baby."
In her opinion, having a daughter is ruined in her life, her hands and feet have to be weak.
"What age is this? You still need a man at home to work? You also change your mind." Ji Yang closed the door, his tone was not very good.
In the past, production depended on manpower, and there were many people and power, and there was no labor in the family without a boy.
"How can there be no boy? Who will give you the old-age care in the future? After the death, your daughter will not be able to collect the money when you die. Who cares about you at that time?" Li Qiuxiang was justified.
"Let's talk nonchalantly." Ji Yang was impatient. "I don't believe in such things. What money do I spend after my death?"
"Mom won't hurt you." She wiped her tears, stood up, leaned closer to him, with a glimmer of hope, "Can the hukou be eliminated? Let's eliminate it."
"You're joking? How can the hukou be eliminated?" Ji Yang looked at her silently.
"The mother doesn't agree that you continue to be with Ai Yi. Although she works well, she can't take care of the children. We are in such a good condition, why raise her baby? Why not divorce?" Li Qiuxiang pointed at him.
Every strong mother-in-law thinks that her son is excellent and no one is worthy. When she confronts her daughter-in-law, she will be beaten to death.
Their excellent son, even if divorced, is also a "quality man" that will make women line up to compete.
"What's her? It's not mine? Even if Qiaoyi doesn't have a full moon, mom, are you here to stop me?" Ji Yang's face was covered with dark clouds, and the eyes were flaming with fire, and he re-voiced, " If you like a male grandson, go home and hug it. Can you put it back when you are born? I dare bring it to you? "
Others do n’t talk about Li Qiuxiang, but Ji Yang does, and she does n’t know how ridiculous she is.
"I can harm you?" Li Qiuxiang whispered, both inside and outside the words "I'm good for you", but also to convince Ji Yang with life experience.
"What isn't it that hurts me? Born without raising, in my opinion, the evils created can go down to eighteen floors of without turning over." Ji Yang snorted coldly.
I divorced every now and then. When I got married, I still mixed up with him from time to time. To put it bluntly, there still exists the thought of controlling my son, and I want to grab the daughter-in-law and be the first in my son's heart.
"A baby girl, what retribution can I have? I have thrown ten or eight on the way before, and I was starved to death for a few days. What retribution is there? Raising her counts as her life!" Li Qiuxiang raised her hips and raised her voice to the inside Ai Yi listened.
Just to let Ai know that she's fine.
The end result was that her grumpy son blasted her out directly, and closed the door directly, and raised this one when he put down his words, regardless of whether he agreed.
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Li Qiuxiang's trouble? Who cares?
After getting tired, he had to go back dimly, and the boy is still waiting for her to take care of her at home.

Ji Yang took a half-day vacation and would not go to work in the afternoon.
After Li Qiuxiang left, he walked into the bedroom. Ai was teasing his daughter on the bed. He didn't look up, didn't look at him, and didn't talk.
"What to eat at noon, I'll buy it." He stood for a moment and asked.
Ai said a few dishes.
"Um." Ji Yang wrote down and thought about it. "Don't worry about what Mom said. You must raise it when you are born, and don't go back for the time being."
Ai Yi didn't respond.
Ji Yang stood for a while and went out to buy food.
They came back after half an hour, and the two took a look and ate a meal.
Xiao Qiaoyi slept well in the morning, and was woken up again. She was also upset. She cried extremely frequently today, and Ai was so upset that she passed the child to her.
Ji Yang followed her daughter and began to coax.
If there was a quarrel in the past, Ai Yi must have persuaded Ji Yang to go back. How could there be an overnight feud between parents? Moreover, home and everything are up against each other.
But in this matter, she will not compromise, even if he wants to go back, she will not go back.
"Mom is angry." Ji Yang was sitting on the sofa hugging her daughter, touching her little hand while feeding with a bottle in her hand, and Yu Guang glanced at Ai Yi on the bed when she said this.
She had a soft temper and was quite able to tolerate his temper. Today, she is afraid of being angry.
"My mother is like this. It may take a while to make a noise. It won't make sense in a short period of time. If you don't touch it, don't get angry with yourself." Ji Yang said to her.
People like Li Qiuxiang are hard to change. They just wait for their own losses.
Of course, Ai Yi knew this and looked sideways at him. "The child will grow up slowly. If she knows how sad she should be? What should she think?"
"From birth, she was an unwelcome existence. How should she live well?"
That was what she was worried about.
"Sufficient?" Ji Yang looked down at her daughter, pulled out a piece of paper, and carefully wiped the corners of her mouth before looking at Ai Yi, pointed to her, and pointed to herself, "The child of our two, she You only need to know our thoughts. Parents' thoughts are very difficult to change. If they are hard, how many times will they be angry? You do n’t need to eat when you are full. "
"If we give her a good life, she can live a good life. It is we who show her to the world, not anyone."
Ai Yi's eyes changed.
"Society will change slowly, and people's minds will change slowly. We cannot change the minds of others." Ji Yang looked at her half-closed daughter and hugged herself to the bed. "The question is what do you think, You think it's okay to have one, and it's good to have a daughter. It doesn't matter if the boy is satisfied, it's enough for both men and women. "
"I figured it out. I can't do anything like send her to the country, and I'm relieved to be around."
Upon hearing that, Ai looked at him, suddenly ashamed of the thoughts in her heart.
Ji Yang can all say that, why bother to worry about what others think of her daughter, the more she cares, the more she cares.
After all, is it still the imprint of the original family and the cognitive biases that have always existed? She should also take a close look at herself and change the backward thoughts in her bones.
The author has something to say: What do you say, dear in the comment area, said Ai Yi ’s temperament is too weak or how? Mier think it, every family has a difficult experience, ca n’t bear to be a home, and Li Qiuxiang Such stubborn people are not a good way to quarrel, and they are often more disadvantaged.
Ai Yi's temperament determined that she couldn't do it face to face, and that she would be stubborn at every turn. It would not work, which might cause new contradictions.
Mother-in-law does not remember to hate her son, but for her daughter-in-law, it is quite hateful.
Always changing slowly ^ _ ^
Mier went to her house at the same table with the university before. I still remember that she pointed to a road and told me that before, five or six baby girls were often thrown on this road, telling me to starve to death a few days. I do n’t know. Is there any exaggeration, but it shows that this phenomenon exists?