Chapter 41:

Eating melon is good, but it is a bit supportive.
After listening to Xiao Jiayu's thoughts about the young girl, Huatang felt that she was still a little full, and she didn't even have the thought of gluttonous supper.
When I turned over the wall and returned to the community, I didn't bother to watch whether the residents had a good dinner, and went straight to Yao Xiaomiao's house happily.
Maybe some parents don't like their children to be introverted and quiet, and they always feel that this kind of personality will suffer in society.
But Huatang likes it very much. Today she jumped out of the community because she likes Xiao Jiayu's well-behaved and restrained temperament.
Like Yao Xiaomiao, they are all slim girls who don't like to express themselves and prefer to bloom quietly.
How nice, evil cat likes it very much.
Stepping on a brisk step, Huatang knocked on the window of Yao Xiaomiao's bedroom on time. The little girl immediately got out of bed in the dark, stepped on her slippers and carried the cat in.
The night does not affect Huatang's eyesight. The cat took two tissues and carefully wiped the paw pads before getting into the small bed.
Huatang's large piece of soft cat cake made Yao Xiaomiao happily reach out and circle it, snuggling together and falling into a sweet dream.
Just a hard-working life is enough, what kind of character do you choose?
Some people are more picky than evil cats, and Huatang will replace the villains to express condemnation and circle them.
Young girls with personality like Yao Xiaomiao and Xiao Jiayu must have a more sensitive mind and a richer inner world. They don't want to tell the world what is in their hearts. It doesn't mean that they have empty heads and don't want anything.
Yao Xiaomiao’s parental education method is biased towards the West. He once bought a parenting guide that has been popular in many countries. He believes that children’s independence should be trained from infants’ sleep.
Well, it's the infamous "Cry Immunity Method".
The proponents of this theory mainly asked for crying not to hug, and to hug if not crying, so that small-month-old babies lose their company and comfort, and they are forcibly trained to be good babies who rarely cry and let parents save effort.
Listen, it works well.
However, these adults who have tried to transform their babies have never thought that children trained in crying immunity will not gain any sense of security during their most precious babies. The so-called "independence" is not as good as bubbles.
A little older, from sleep disorders to personality disorders and even schizophrenia.
In the suffering of not getting a response, adults will accumulate great fear and anger, let alone an infant who cannot resist.
The Yao family’s situation is a little better. Their young couple’s starting point is correct. They hope their children can get a better way of education. In order to improve their parenting knowledge, they also bought books to read them back.
This "Cry Immunization Method" is very beautifully packaged. There are any successful cases abroad. After a period of training, my mother has indeed saved a lot of worry and effort.
But coaxing a child is instinct and instinct. Yao Xiaomiao's mother really feels distressed for the child who is crying hoarsely, and sometimes she will secretly pick up Yao Xiaomiao.
Later, it was Yao Xiaomiao’s grandmother and grandmother who arrived home and found that the young couple dared to mess around in taking care of the children, whether it was a best-selling book published in the United States, or what scientific method, they furiously reprimanded the two of them. Retrain Yao Xiaomiao.
Until Yao Xiaomiao was two or three years old, he was much quieter than his peers. If he didn't get what he wanted, he would easily give up and shut himself up in silence.
The couple was a little strange. After doing a lot of interaction with the children, they discovered that Yao Xiaomiao basically did not trust his parents.
How could this happen to such a little old child?
Panicked and hugged to see the doctor. After going to several hospitals, they realized that the problem was in the months of "Cry Immunization".
The gray-haired doctor looked at the child sitting next to him distressedly, and he didn't know what it was good for the young parents.
"This training method has long been pointed out as harmful. Even the founder's child committed suicide by suicide, wandering and wandering, suffering for the rest of his life."
Do not give infants and young children enough response and sense of security, and their lack of perception of love will definitely leave a psychological shadow throughout their lives.
Yao's parents were shocked and overwhelmed by the doctor's words. In fact, their training method was only half completed, but it also left scars on the children that were indelible.
"Cultivate children's awareness of independence, and at least after the age of three, parents must listen, read and learn more. How can this nature of mothers and children be violated?"
The doctor emphatically criticized Yao Xiaomiao's father. The world's most worry-free method for mothers is not the crying immunity method, but the father gets up to solve it.
Otherwise, what do you call your father? Does it increase the child's vocabulary?
After learning about the problem, young couples are also trying to find a way to make up, and do their best to save their relationship with their children.
Fortunately, it was discovered early, otherwise Yao Xiaomiao's current character is not as simple as being quiet and restrained.
But what happened is what happened. Yao Xiaomiao still has some differences with his peers. For example, he is passive when getting along with his parents and will not actively ask for anything. For example, when he just started preschool, he took a picture book and asked himself. Sleep in one room.
Let’s not mention how regretful Yao Xiaomiao’s parents are. Yao Xiaomiao is indeed a young child in Huatang’s fragrant soft bed and sleeping alone in his bedroom.
Huatang remembers that when she drilled Yao Xiaomiao's bed for the first time, the child probably wasn't used to having a panting next to him. He hid in the bed and watched nervously at the uninvited cat, taking up half of the bed.
But the evil cat just wants to be familiar, Huatang is hot and chubby, watching Yao Xiaomiao pretending to sleep stiffly, deliberately mischievous, squeezed into Yao Xiaomiao's arms, and shocked her.
Cats have a higher body temperature than humans, plush and thick, forcibly squeezing away Yao Xiaomiao's frustration and subconscious disappointment with the outside world, and began to learn to trap black cats when sleeping.
Huatang slept on all sides, sometimes with her front paws sticking out of the quilt, but Yao Xiaomiao liked this kind of sleeping method with a strong sense of existence.
After moving from Yao's family to the Jiuzhou community, Huatang began to drill Yao Xiaomiao's bed. She couldn't make up for the special memory of Yao Xiaomiao's baby, so she simply gave her a unique cat and cat cake to cover the shadow pit.
After all, the cat cake that can knock on the window and drill the bed is just such a hot one, and the other kids basically don’t have it~
Today is also the day when Yao Xiaomiao fell into a deep sleep while rubbing against Huatang's temperature!
As always, Huatang got up before dawn and went away. Yao's parents still don't know that there is a little black skin rubbing her daughter's pillow at night.
The two of them worked in a division of labor. One came to wake up their daughter in the morning, and the other came to talk to her daughter in the other evening. Today, Yao Xiaomiao’s mother came to call her daughter to get up, and she saw her cheeks flushing. Sheets, could not help but kiss the child's forehead.
"Miaomiao, can you get up and have breakfast? Mom made you preserved egg porridge. Shall we go for a drink together?"
Next to the temperature of Huatang, Yao Xiaomiao let her mother put the clothes she was going to wear next to her, then stretched out her little hand and gently scratched the back of her mother's hand.
This is still learned from Huatang, and the actions are the same as the kitten.
But Yao Xiaomiao's mother was excited, and she watched her daughter slowly put on clothes and followed her out to wash and eat, then rushed to the kitchen to make some breakfast, and the table was filled.
Even the friend-making snacks she often prepares for Yao Xiaomiao have happily upgraded from puffs or biscuits to mousse cakes.
"Mom, isn't it too much?" Yao Xiaomiao was shocked, watching the snacks in the lunch box, which had become a big carton today, about the size of a schoolbag.
"Not much, not much, let’s save some for Huatang~" Yao Xiaomiao’s mother was happy, and somehow she thought that her daughter insisted that Huatang’s snacks should be divided among good friends. After sending her daughter to school, she took the cake to the small restaurant and gave it to Huatang.
Yao Xiaomiao was stunned for a moment, then bent his eyes and covered his mouth and laughed.
"mom."
"Hey, what's wrong with Miao Miao?"
Yao Xiaomiao shook his head, signaled that he was okay, and shouted, "Mom."
I also got a patient response from my mother.
This is great, Yao Xiaomiao thought, when he celebrates his birthday, he must tell his parents this big secret. Huatang is really her good friend, and they will share the little quilt together.
Running out of Yao Xiaomiao's house, Huatang thought that Bai Hefei was always at school recently, so she ran to the small restaurant to find a place to sleep.
Gu Yusheng took the sweet shrimp out for a run. Even the bed was spread out and tidied up. It was a long time since Huatang deliberately stepped on the tofu-like quilt, and then went to sleep with her paws.
You can eat breakfast directly when you wake up.
Ye Yulan was going to take Xiao Fenghuang back to her hometown. They were going to sweep her mother’s tomb. After she was full, Huatang visited Professor Li’s house once, focusing on the growth of Phoenix-tail orchid before going on to other places. Wander around the place.
The life of the evil cat is not boring. After all, there are so many assets that Huatang needs to patrol every day.
Look at this lake, look at this building, look at this community, the villain’s happiness is unimaginable.
Who doesn't want to be a bad cat?
When patrolling at night, Huatang thought of the little girl under the street light she met yesterday. She had her forepaws, then turned to the wall and squatted to see if Xiao Jiayu would come today.
After waiting for a while, Xiao Jiayu, who came over with his schoolbag on his back, brightened his eyes. Seeing that there were no passersby around, he greeted Huatang in a low voice.
"Maomao, good evening~"
Hee hee, Hua Tang thought, Xiao Jiayu's parents probably didn't know that their good daughter secretly escaped from evening study in the past two days and squatted at the intersection to talk to the cat.
Huatang jumped off the wall and watched Xiao Jiayu sit down with a workbook and squeeze into her arms.
Come on, continue to tell the story, the evil cat is ready.
But Xiao Jiayu was in a very good mood today. He took out two chocolates from his schoolbag and showed them to Huatang as if they were treasures. "Today I received the chocolate that the boy gave me. Although he gave a lot of people, I am still fine. Happy, these two pieces are the shape of love."
Maybe it was a happy event in the family of the boy who was secretly in love. He brought a bag of candies and chocolates and divided some casually. The two hearts in Xiao Jiayu's hands happened to be two hearts.
Although he knew that the other party might not care about such trivial matters, Xiao Jiayu was so happy that he couldn't bear to eat it at all and put it in the bag carefully.