Chapter 2636: The most important thing

Luffy sighed, "I also think this kind of man is simply hopeless, a scum, even a woman with the Virgin's Heart can't save him."
He Chuyao smiled and said, "I understand. Writer Zhuang, you have analyzed for a long time, just want to say that the root of these two family tragedies is that the couple did not coordinate the family relationship well."
Zhuang Mengdie shook his head, "No! Not exactly that. Before, I emphasized one point because these two women have a strong vanity. It is vanity that makes them choose their own marriage. Marriage on a material basis is obviously not strong. Once the advantages they valued disappear, conflicts will arise immediately. For example, when Ms. Bai’s own worth increases, there is a gap between the two. At this time, Ms. Bai will look at her own The husband obviously feels that he does not have any advantage in front of him. And the mainland girl, let alone work. Although her income is not high, she at least has an account, which is better than the husband who stays at home and sits in the sky. There are many. So after marriage, the two women re-examined their husbands and found many of their shortcomings."
He Chuyao smiled and said, "That is to say, these two marriages are wrong in terms of choice."
Zhuang Mengdie nodded, "Yes, how can marriage be regarded as a child's play? When choosing a partner, you must be cautious, lest you regret it in the future."
The corpse laughed. "Young people, I have listened to your analysis for a long time. Let me say a few words. In fact, you young and young people have no right to speak about marriage, because you are not married yet, so how can you qualify? What kind of marriage are we talking about? Only the two old guys are qualified to talk about marriage."
The old man smiled and said, "Brother, what you said is really good. Unmarried young people talk about marriage as if talking on paper. It's useless because you haven't experienced it yourself."
Zhuang Mengdie smiled, "I haven't eaten pork, haven't I seen a pig run?"
The old man laughed, "This girl, your remarks are really interesting. I ask you now, do you think you know the taste of pork after seeing a pig run? Then I tell you, your idea is really naive. Marriage is A very complicated relationship between two people is not as simple as you think. I now ask you, have you washed your child’s diapers? Do you know what it feels like to have diapers in the room? Does it feel like a warm and soft body hugs in your arms? Then how exciting it will be to watch a child who only knows how to open his mouth and cry every day to grow his first tooth? When you reach out and stroke the little baby tooth At that time, I felt happier than winning the Mark Six."
At this time, Zhuang Mengdie was dumbfounded and did not know how to answer. She looked back and found that everyone present, except for the two old men, had a blank face, only the dead body showed a knowing smile.
The old man smiled, "Every time I hold the child and smell the faint milk fragrance on the child's body, my heart is always filled with happiness, twisting the child's little fleshy face, I said to myself, this is the real What about his life." Then, he walked to Zhuang Mengdie, stopped, and smiled, "Writer Zhuang, I know that your writers have a lot of imagination. Can you imagine talking to a fat kid Do you feel relative to each other day and night? You feed this child every day, teach him how to walk, teach him how to speak, then teach him how to write, and then teach him how to behave when he is a little sensible Writer Zhuang, if you only rely on your own imagination, you can't appreciate the hardship of raising a child, let alone the sweetness and joy of being a parent."
Zhuang Mengdie smiled and said, "Master, you are right. In fact, we really don't have much say in marriage. Only you who come here are qualified to speak."
The corpse laughed, "So, marriage is a very serious matter. Don't treat it as a child's play, let alone choose a person because of a person's external material conditions, because the times are always changing and people are in society. We must also follow in the footsteps of the society and seek new changes. Today’s wealth may become a pile of waste paper tomorrow. So when choosing a marriage partner, we must put emotions first, and any plan to get benefits through marriage The idea of ​​??is always wrong, because there are always two aspects of things. When you get the benefits, the disadvantages are also revealed. Therefore, as far as marriage is concerned, firstly, it is based on feelings, and secondly, it is better to have two people A common career, such a marriage is the most stable. Of course, it is best to have strong men and weak women. Families where women are too strong will soon be dissolved. Because Chinese men are still relatively conservative, so-called big men Doctrine, a woman who is too strong, is destined to be unable to win the favor of a man. Divorce is a matter of time."
Zhuang Mengdie smiled, "Master, according to your analysis, what do you think of these two marital tragedies?"
The dead body smiled, "First of all, these two women, whether it is Ms. Bai or the mainland girl in the movie, when they choose marriage, they all value material conditions and ignore the most important point of being together. Luffy , I ask you now, what is the most important point for two people together?"
Luffy was listening with enthusiasm, and was suddenly dumbfounded by the dead body.
"Ah? Old man, you shouldn’t ask me this question. I’m only seventeen years old and I’ve never been in a relationship. In my opinion, if you ask me, it’s better to ask writer Zhuang and He forensic doctors, both of them. At least as an adult, their answer should be more relevant than mine."
The corpse shook his head, "No, I think you are a smart boy. I want to know your answer. I believe your answer and will not disappoint me."
Luffy frowned and thought for a long time before he cautiously said, "This is the most important point, isn't it true love?"
The corpse nodded, "Yes, modern people’s marriage has been obscured by matter. When modern women choose marriage, they put the house first. In fact, it’s the car and savings. They are thinking about material conditions. However, the most important thing for two people to be together is their feelings. If there is no deep emotional foundation, but only by temporary material conditions, such a marriage will not have a good result, and it is destined to last. Specific reasons , I have also analyzed it for everyone. Because the times are changing and society is developing rapidly, everyone must keep pace with the times in order to keep pace with the times, seeking new innovations and changes. Anyone who stagnates will eventually be The rapidly developing society is ruthlessly eliminated. The same applies to marriage."