Chapter 3102: In fact, she is also a hard life

Mo Yue smiled and said, "Don't tell me, Xiao Bao is young, so his analysis makes sense."
Lu Fei nodded, "Yes. The villagers marry a wife for an extra helper, and of course, to have a son. Because the villagers have to do farm work, giving birth to a daughter must be almost the same. After all, girls have poor physical strength, so they start farm work. , Is not as strong as a man. Therefore, rural people still like sons, because the sons grow up, can do farm work, and can inherit the family business. Daughters are not good, daughters must be married, in rural areas, daughters cannot inherit Family business. Therefore, a woman who gives birth to a daughter will naturally be despised by her husband’s family. In addition, rural mothers-in-laws like diligent wives and don’t have a good impression of lazy wives. Moreover, I also heard that rural people Very superstitious, I think that the kind of daughter-in-law who gave birth to a daughter in the first child may still be a daughter if she is born again."
Mo Yue smiled and said, "Is there such a saying?"
Lu Fei smiled, "Yes. Rural people are superstitious, but this statement is not necessarily unfounded. At that time, because there was no family planning, the family had several children. Like five golden flowers or four There are quite a few Jinhua families."
Mo Yue smiled and said, "This is really interesting. The woman who gave birth to a daughter for the first time is likely to have a daughter later."
Lu Fei smiled and said, "Yes. I guess that the woman's previous husband's family was worried that she would have a bunch of girls next time, so he quickly found an excuse to send her away."
Mo Yue smiled bitterly, "The rural people are really realistic."
Lu Fei smiled and said, "There is no way, the countryside at that time, unlike now, the countryside is now where the uncle is raised. Nowadays, farmers, especially those in the suburbs, don’t have to do farm work. As long as they have land at home, they sell land. Also earn a lot of money, or if you have a house at home, you can live on rent. There is no need to face the loess and back to the sky to ask for a living. At that time, the rural area, but you have to work, it is not enough if there is no labor at home. So , Like Xiaobao’s stepmother, a woman who is likely to have no sons is naturally unwelcome. Coupled with her lazy nature, she definitely won’t be pleased with her mother-in-law. In the countryside, a wife who won’t be pleased by her mother-in-law is destined to be angry. Because the mother-in-law will definitely say bad things about the daughter-in-law in front of the son when she catches the opportunity. Of course, the daughter-in-law will also say that the mother-in-law is wrong in front of the son. Therefore, the mother-in-law and the mother-in-law surround the son every day and talk to each other’s shortcomings and wrongs. For the son, naturally he still believes in the mother-in-law a little more. After all, the mother-in-law is his mother, and the daughter-in-law is not as beautiful as his mother after all. Therefore, in the battle between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law, it is generally regarded as the loss of the daughter-in-law. The ending. Of course, there are also a few men, who are mad at their heads, focused on their daughter-in-law, and angry with their mother. After all, such men are a minority."
Mo Yue frowned, "Is there any kind of man too? He doesn't turn to his own mother?"
Luffy smiled and said, "Of course, the forest is big and there are all kinds of birds. For example, Xiaobao's father has been working towards his stepmother and sister. It is very sad that he doesn't take Xiaobao's biological son seriously. Matter. If you want to talk about the things between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in the countryside, I am afraid that you can't finish it for three days and three nights. The rural feudal thinking is strong, there are many rules, and there are many things between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Okay, I'll continue to tell the story. Man After listening to Xiaobao’s analysis, I couldn’t believe my ears and asked, ah? Could it be that she was dismissed for these reasons? Xiaobao sneered, uncle, what do you think it was? The guy sighed. She told me that the mother-in-law is doing a lot of cooking, she said it was salty, and she put less salt, and the mother-in-law said it was tasteless. In short, the old lady was very difficult to serve. It seemed that no matter what she did, the old lady would not Satisfied, the fault can always be found. She told me that the old lady is just picking bones in the egg, and she has nothing to do all day long. Xiaobao smiled, uncle, I ask you, why does her former mother-in-law always have nothing to do? The man frowned. , How do I know? People are not good. I guess that is a particularly tricky old lady. Xiaobao smiled, in my opinion, right? I feel that the problem is not with the old lady, but with her. Even if the old lady loves to look for things, but what she did was to make the old lady find the fault. The man shook his head, no! She told me that once, when she was cooking, the old lady was too indifferent. As a result, she I had to add a little salt, which was just a small teaspoon. As a result, the old lady immediately lost her temper, saying that she had deliberately put a lot of salt and planned to kill her. She refused to accept and tried to defend her. The two were arguing and the son came back. After asking the whole story, she immediately raised her hand and slapped her. She felt very aggrieved, sobbed and ran into the bedroom. But when she came out of crying, she found that the mother and son had finished their meal a long time ago. The dish was said to kill her and was eaten well. Just when she looked at the empty plate in a daze, the mother-in-law came over and ordered her to clean up the dishes. That day, not only did she have no food to eat, but she also had to wash the dishes. Wiping the floor and doing a lot of tasks, she told me that she felt very wronged that day. Xiaobao smiled, it was not her own business, if she could please her mother-in-law, so she was picky by her mother-in-law. The man sighed , You, you have a prejudice against her, in fact, she is also a bitter person. Xiaobao sneered, her life is bitter, I can't control it, but she made me a bitter person, this is her fault. For a long time The silent little man suddenly snorted and laughed, this woman’s life, whether it’s hard or not, lies in themselves, the old Zhao’s family in our village is too poor, his son can’t marry a daughter-in-law, and his daughter can’t get married. Because the family was too poor to give the bride price, and could not afford to dowry, his daughters were always old girls because they had no dowry. Later, Zhao became anxious and found the matchmaker Wang in the village, and asked her to take the family’s The girl sent out one. Matchmaker Wang didn’t speak for a long time, and finally said one word—difficult. When Lao Zhao heard that matchmaker Wang said, he shook his heart and immediately accompanied the smiling face and said, his Aunt Wang, this kind of thing, I am one It’s not appropriate for you to show up, so you have to give it to you. Line, there are three girls in my family. The eldest is twenty-five and the youngest is eighteen, and none of them are married. You must find a way to get one out. It also makes my old man feel relieved. Wang Matchpo sneered, isn't your family without a dowry? No one would marry a girl without a dowry. You have lived in this village for decades. Do you still understand this truth? Old Zhao sighed, of course I understand this, or I have to ask you to find a way. "