Vol 4 Chapter 22: Wang Ai and his friends (3)

"Is there no way? Can't you control it? Judging from my investigations, early love will delay schooling, distract young people's energy, and cause bad phenomena such as fights and alcoholism." Zhang Erwen of Liaoyang Daily tweeted. , Asked with serious thought.
"Therefore, our working methods should be more particular. More than 50 years since the founding of the People's Republic of China, our country has changed rapidly, and the economic foundation has continued to rise rapidly. This has allowed our superstructures, such as the ways and means to manage the problem of early love, always Facing the problem of keeping up with the requirements of the times. This also requires our educators to regularly summarize and research, and to deduce new methods to adapt to the times. "Wang Ai pointed at Jiang Shan with his head:" In fact, Difficult or difficult, after all, it is a combination of internal and external, two conflicts broke out. But it is simple and easy to say. I just told the story of Xiao Xu and me. To be honest, we can be such good friends today, there must be certain It ’s emotionally basic. They look good to each other and even like them, but why are they still confidants, not male and female friends? "
Zhang Erwen squinted and said suddenly: "Busy!"
Wang Ai patted his thigh and pointed at Zhang Erwen: "It's worthy of my brother, it's clear as soon as I say it. As I said just now, the problem of early love can't be suppressed, but you can't be overwhelmed if you don't suppress it. Why won't you guide Dayu? Why did his dad fail? His dad just repaired dams everywhere and blocked them, while Dayu dredged rivers. These are the two ways to deal with the same problem, and the results are immediate? "
Xinhua News Agency reporter frowned, recalling: "I have seen some European countries control early love ...
Wang Ailian shook his head again and again: "No, no, no, everything depends on Europe. They do not control well, especially in the Nordic countries. That's a bad thing. This problem still has to be viewed from the social background. European countries' population production Over the years, it has been a big problem, so they say it is control, it is better to indulge. The whole society, from politics to culture to economy, is encouraging population production. For example, girls are pregnant before marriage, how do we deal with it? No? What do they do? Born and given to others for foster care, is it right? This has nothing to do with any human rights or women's rights, that is, lack of people. Otherwise, West Germany would not import labor from Turkey after World War II, would it? Many things we can see how others do, but when we come to learn, we must be more attentive. Doctrine is not used to set it. It is mainly to help us open our minds. We did not learn the revolution with the Soviet Union. Is there a process of sinicization? In the end, it was not the siege of the countryside led by the that defeated the Soviet Union ’s attack on large cities in practice. Did the road succeed? It ’s the same today. China is so big and the situation is so special. Do n’t go to Xitian to read the scriptures and come back and read it. It ’s costly, even for decades. ... such as health care reform ... "
When Wang Aigang said this, Xu Qinglian was secretly stunned, and then he suddenly stopped.
The admiring people who were listening had noticed the small movements of the two, smiling with a smile, and Xu Qinglian who was smiling was flushed.
Xinhua News Agency reporter smiled and nodded: "Dr. Wang, then let's not talk about it, let's talk about early love."
"Okay, come back and talk about early love." Wang Ai nodded: "This question is actually very important. Teenagers are the future of the country. This period is also a critical period for learning. Even practicing is also a critical period for long balls. It ’s too late to pay full attention. Naturally, we should try to have as little interference as possible, especially the phenomenon of early success with a very low success rate. I noticed that some domestic experts also mentioned guidance, but the question is how to guide. Our current guidance is the teacher. The principal kept talking on the stage, this is not actually called guidance, but publicity. From the actual effect, it is still not good, it is better than rigidly.
"Then how to do it specifically? My brother just said well, busy!" Wang Ai shook his head: "This is very important. Think of the predecessors of the Revolutionary War. Why are there not many such things? Busy and stressful. As far as I know, there are very few people in the 85 National Youth League. Why? There are other sports. Are there any people? Yes, but rarely, why? Not all because of strict control. Still because it is too busy. You must know that athletes have many times more secretion of hormones than ordinary people, and the urge to the opposite is stronger. This can be controlled, so the feature of busyness is the best way to guide. Female classmates? I'll give you homework. I can't finish writing every day until nine o'clock in the evening. Do you still have nothing to do with other things? Don't you have the mental headache to stop people from school? I will give you physical education class, tired You can't even get on your bike, do you still have this restless mind? "
The reporters nodded their heads and lowered their heads to record. They listened to Wang Ai and then said, "In fact, let ’s talk about some bad phenomena in the society. What ’s wrong with gambling is actually too busy. This is a whim. You think about the hooliganism in the early 1980s, that is, Chi Zhiqiang's group of people. At that time, who were the high-income people? Are there many cultural people or workers? Why? Not because of cultural people Is it easy to work and have a lot of free time? Workers are exhausted from a busy day. How can I have the time and energy to pull this off? I have practiced for two years in the affiliated middle school of the National People's Congress, and I have a certain understanding of their learning. But rarely, why? It ’s busy, with high academic pressure, full arrangements, good teacher education, students' high interest in class, and more homework after class, naturally reducing the mentality and physical fitness of the calf. Naturally, this phenomenon not enough."
"Only one can be attached." Zhang Erwen said coldly.
"Education can be pressurized. Conditional secondary schools can improve the teaching level of teachers, increase the attractiveness of teaching, and increase the number of assignments. Those without conditions can also run various interest classes, associations, what kind of sports classes, calligraphy classes. Singing class, in short, the youth's time schedule is full, reducing the space left for their minds to think about it, and reducing the occurrence of early love phenomenon. "Wang Ai refuted two sentences and said frankly:" But must admit, do To complete control, no one will happen, it is impossible, and I do not recommend that schools punish early love students. Strictly speaking, as a person with incomplete capacity, the responsibility of the school is actually greater, you have not taught OK, you did n’t arrange it, you did n’t have a level. You ca n’t nail a student to the pole of shame because of early love, this is killing the chicken and the monkey. The problem is that the chicken itself is right, it ’s just according to the physiological instinct, the breeder only wrong."