Chapter 850: Responsibilities of elders

"It is very normal for you to have this idea now. In fact, my idea was exactly the same as you at the beginning. After all, I was very young at that time, and I was just thinking about how to do things better. Perfect.
But when you get to the back, you will slowly discover that many things are not as simple as you think. So when doing these things, you need to first consider whether it can meet the actual situation. After others hear what you said, can they think clearly about what you told them.
After all, everyone must have their own independent ideas. Therefore, in many cases, we cannot impose on others and make decisions for others based on our own ideas. It is also necessary for them to experience for themselves whether these things are good or bad.
Otherwise, we can only rely on our words to say that they can’t understand at all, and they may not even know for a lifetime whether this matter is good or bad. If we want to help, we can help them for a while, but completely They can't help them for the rest of their lives, because they will definitely enter society in the end.
Naturally, we have to walk the rivers and lakes by ourselves. We can never do things with them behind their and help them. So the only way is to let them know the sinister society of this society and try it for themselves. Finally, they will know that they will suffer after this thing is done, and this thing cannot be done. "
Elder Wen looked at the young big disciple as if he was looking at himself, indeed he was like him before. And all of a sudden, I felt that I was back when I was young. Indeed, at that time, what I was thinking about every day was how to help others, and because of this, it was actually quite easy to attract hatred. I always told others that I could not do this and that I could not do it.
But other people always don't understand why these things can't be done, and they thought they were those good treasures that they wanted to monopolize, so after talking about it, after suffering several times, they gradually understood. In fact, things are not like this. Many times when you are enthusiastic about helping others, it will make them feel very strange.
"Elder, I know."
Hearing what Elder Wen said, the disciples naturally understood it easily. Indeed, what he did this time was something wrong. After all, he helped others to do everything. If he chooses, how should others choose in the future? Everyone has many choices in their lives, so it is impossible to remind them everywhere.
And it's not necessarily that all of your reminders are correct. If you say that you have made a mistake in your judgment and caused you to tell them that you can't do these things, but after these things are done, it will be good for them. Then they will definitely blame themselves in the future. In the end, their good guys didn't do it, and instead they made a fishy mess.
"If you can hear it, it is naturally good. I have always known that you are a very smart kid, so I have never said these things to others, but since I told you today, I hope you Being able to stop in well, I do know that you are all for the sake of everyone.
It is hoped that everyone can become stronger together, but in many cases, if you intervene in these things, they may cause some harm to you in the future. After all, what everyone thinks in his heart is definitely himself, no Like you, think about how to help others.
Therefore, your help to others is likely to be perceived by others as having ulterior motives. This is also a very normal thing. I know you are a very kind child, so if you end up being mistaken like this, then It will definitely be very sad. "
In fact, what Elder Wen said were all things he had experienced before. This was because he had experienced it, so he didn't want this young man like himself to experience the same doubts as himself. I also hope that he can think more about himself in his life. After all, his dedicated character is really easy to cause a lot of trouble.
After all, in his eyes, what he wants to do is actually not important. If you say that you are doing a very important thing, it is even possible that you want to help others, and then interrupt this thing, then the damage to yourself will be very great. But is there any way? After all, in his heart, other people's affairs are always more important than their own affairs.
"Elder Wen, don't worry. After I have mentioned all these words, I will definitely change my way of doing things, especially when it comes to other people's affairs, I will not interfere too much. Now, maybe I’m the older one here, so I always look at them with the mentality of their brother, but I don’t know how they look at me anymore.
So now I have suddenly come to my senses. In fact, many times it is not me who can change this situation. If they say something they want to do, in the end, no matter what I do with them, they will be upset if I say it.
Next time I will definitely remember this. When doing something, I first think about whether this thing should be done, whether it is worth it, or not, and it will definitely help my strength to cultivate well. Indeed, during these days, in order to worry about this matter, I also delayed a lot of my own cultivation. "
I don’t know why, but the elder disciple feels that every time I chat with Elder Wen, I can gain a lot of things, but because I don’t want to disturb the elders, I basically say that I don’t explain my heart like Elder Wen. It's all about ideas. But after chatting like this today, I suddenly felt that my world had become brighter.
"If you have anything in the future, you can come over and tell me directly. I am not as busy as you think. After all, the elder’s duty is to teach you young disciples. You are still too young, so you don’t understand many things. Many truths are not clear, but after all I have lived for so many years, the salt I have eaten naturally is more than you have traveled.
So I will definitely understand many things better than you. If you don’t dislike it, then listen to my old man to say a few words, then it is naturally good. If you don’t think it is necessary to mention it, then neither do I I will talk to you more, so it is all your own thoughts. "
Elder Wen naturally understands what the big disciple is thinking in his heart now. After all, he just suddenly understood so many things in his heart. He must be very excited now. He must want to talk more to himself but he is scared. I have to deal with a lot of things, so I feel that after I stay here, I will lose time and dare not speak.