Chapter 331: Speech

Chen Xiaoqian nodded, and said solemnly and seriously: "A woman must first learn to be herself, create value for herself, and create value for her husband. Only then will he respect and cherish you.
After all, Chen Xiaoqian has traveled from modern times, so many ideas are very modern values. She has always felt that the relationship between men and women should not be the vassal of who, especially women, should have their own value.
After listening, everyone looked blank.
"Now, when you love someone, you don't want to serve him or rely on him, and he will give you what you want.
When a husband and wife get along, both men and women must manage themselves well and let each other understand that your presence is very precious to him.
In this way, he can't do without you..." All the ladies nodded in agreement: "It makes sense! "
Chen Xiaoqian said dryly, patted his chest, and said with emotion: "Oh my God, I have become an emotional expert. I'll tell this to the movie emperor surnamed Han, who believes..." She is a single mother and child... …Of course, I’m really out of the singles now, but I still don’t have much experience with feelings. Now I’m telling others about emotional issues. Chen Xiaoqian feels that he can’t believe it.
"what did you say?"
Upon hearing Chen Xiaoqian's endless sentence, the ladies couldn't help but ask in confusion.
"Cough cough..." Chen Xiaoqian coughed twice, and then said: "I mean, I don't really understand this, I just tell you some of my own opinions."
"Don't you say that."
One of the ladies hurriedly said, "Who doesn't know that your royal husband has skills in Xuanhu City?
There is really no woman in Xuanhu City that can compare to you. "
After hearing this sentence, Chen Xiaoqian became even more embarrassed and couldn't help but say: "Neither did I... Forget it, in short, there is only one sentence, that is, to stick to yourself and create your own value, so that men will not despise you."
The ladies all took out paper and pen to record... "To put it bluntly, it is hanging, who has no temper..." "You have to learn to lose your temper! You can't just say what the only non-committal man said!"
"Don't be polite when it's time to claim credit, otherwise, men always feel that everything you do is justified."
"Tears like acting like a baby can't be cured, everything works."
"Be hardened and make him afraid of you!"
Chen Xiaoqian's eyes widened as they heard their discussion, and he quickly said, "Huh?
No, no, no, misunderstanding, misunderstanding, come again..." Does the words she just said have this meaning?
Do these people want to make up so much?
Having said that, Chen Xiaoqian thought for a while, and then said again: "No matter what era or place, social status is determined by the social value that can be created. Only if you can create the same social value as a man can you truly Stand on the same position as men and treat them equally."
"Social value...social status..." When the ladies listened to Chen Xiaoqian's mysterious and mysterious words, their faces were full of ignorance, and they obviously didn't understand the meaning of Chen Xiaoqian's words.
"Cough!"
Chen Xiaoqian coughed twice, and after thinking about it for a while, he said again in an easy-to-understand way: "What about this social value... That is, if a man can do what a woman can do, then a man must do something right. wrong?
Since everyone is the same, of course it is impossible to say who is higher than anyone..." "I still don't understand what you mean, Madam Young. "
The ladies were stunned.
Chen Xiaoqian's mouth was about to talk dry. Seeing that they didn't understand, he suddenly wanted to lose his temper. However, thinking that all the noble ladies of Xuanhu City were present, Chen Xiaoqian was reluctantly suppressed and took a deep breath. Said in a tone.
"That's it... You can think of yourself as a woman in Huayuancheng... Of course, it's not that you should step on a man's head, but that you have to have your own opinions and don't blindly agree with men. No matter what it is, you must Consider it rationally. The husband and wife should support each other, and their status should be equal, and they should not be attached to the man in everything."
This time, the ladies of Yang Hucheng were not talking, but they blinked at Chen Xiaoqian, but they still didn't understand.
Chen Xiaoqian was about to collapse, wishing to go up and put aside their skulls to see what was inside, but in the end Chen Xiaoqian didn't have the courage, and just tried to explain what he just said.
"You don't understand what I said, and I can understand it. However, although some traditions are passed down from ancient times to the present, they are not necessarily correct. You should abandon your previous ideas and re-examine yourself."
Having said this, Chen Xiaoqian paused, "You keep telling yourself that men are nothing great. Women and men should enjoy the same rights, but at the same time they should also shoulder the same responsibilities. This is the case now. Did you ask?"
After saying this, a lady first spoke and said to Chen Xiaoqian: "What if you are dismissed as you said?"
"..." Chen Xiaoqian: "...That's why I asked you to pay attention to your sense of measure. What I just said was not to make you arrogant to men after returning home, but to treat your husbands in an equal and rational manner. Messing around is unacceptable."
Chen Xiaoqian wrote this script because of modern gender issues, so she hopes that women can be independent, and men should respect women, whether in the script or in her modern real life.
But now it seems that this goal is still far away.
Even so, Chen Xiaoqian will not be discouraged. Although she was not willing to contact these noble ladies, but now that it has started, she will also do her best to help them change the servility of women in the feudal era. thought.
And just not far from the door, the city owner's wife stood quietly with two maids, and the city owner's wife had a complicated expression.
He waited until Chen Xiaoqian's speech was over, then lifted the kerchief and wiped the corners of his eyes, and left before the ladies came out to notice her.
The maid beside him saw that the city lord’s wife seemed to be in a bad mood, so she couldn't help asking, "Madam?"
"It's like me when I was young."
Mrs. City Lord sighed softly, her eyes a little lost, she didn't know what she was thinking.
The maid carefully glanced at the expression on the face of the city lord's wife, trying to say something, but in the end she did not speak.
The wife of the city owner went all the way back to the bedroom of the main courtyard. At this time, the city owner Xuanhu had already returned, but her expression looked a little unhappy.