Chapter 362: The way of husband and wife

Looking back on the past, the city owner's wife inevitably carried some longing on her face.
Her father had only one daughter, so she was raised by a fake man since she was a child. She also thinks she is different, and she wants to make contributions.
Who has never been frivolous when he was young?
But later, after all, she was still bound by the cumbersome rules of this world, and completely became the kind of person she didn’t want to be before, and she was tied to the backyard like a normal boudoir. In the division of land, what I talked about all day is the shortness of the family, and there is no longer her family and country.
It is impossible to say that there is no feeling at all.
But this is the rule of Xuanhu City, men are respected, and women are only men's vassals, no matter how pretentious he is, he still has to marry.
After marrying someone and having a child, there will eventually be a bond, and it will no longer be the same as before.
Chen Xiaoqian felt a little regretful after hearing the words of the city lord’s wife, and couldn't help asking: "Then why are you no longer serving as a general?"
The wife of the city lord hesitated for a moment, and finally said: "I am the wife of the city lord after all, and you should be your father's decent wife.
Over time, I didn't expect the fake to become real, and I haven't touched these things for many years. "
While speaking, the hand of the wife of the city lord has been reluctantly stroking a book of "The Art of War".
There is no doubt that she loves her husband and son.
Therefore, she must be a good wife and a good mother.
Even if... eventually she would break her wings... Chen Xiaoqian could not help but cautiously ask, "Then do you regret it?"
Chen Xiaoqian felt that if she had been in the past, she would never give up her life for a man, otherwise she would not have been single for so many years in her previous life.
But now that she met Han Shuo, she was not so sure.
Actually speaking now, Chen Xiaoqian feels that she still has some similarities with the city lord’s wife. She gave up the entire Garden City for Han Shuo, and the city lord’s wife abandoned her ideals for the city lord Xuanhu. There are some similarities and similarities. .
Originally, Chen Xiaoqian thought that she was far away from the disputes in Huayuan City. After arriving in Xuanhu City, everything would be better, but she didn't expect that the first problem she encountered was the problem with Han Shuo's parents.
Although the attitude of Mrs. City Lord is still a bit unclear, the attitude of City Lord Xuanhu is always clear-definitely doesn't like her! Hearing Chen Xiaoqian's words, the city lord's wife thought about it seriously, but in the end she said: "Although I like the art of war and lead soldiers to fight, I love your father more.
I also gave birth to Han Shuo, and I taught him my knowledge, knowledge, and martial arts.
For them to give up these, I have not regretted it. "
"Then now that Han Shuo is an adult, haven't you thought of leading soldiers again?"
Chen Xiaoqian asked again.
How can I say that Han Shuo is now an adult, so the city lord’s wife naturally no longer has to take care of her son and deal with the troubles of Xuanhucheng with the main and auxiliary, so that she can always spare time to continue her career, right?
The wife of the city lord looked at Chen Xiaoqian, her eyes hesitated a bit helplessly, but in the end she said: "I didn't dare to think about it before. After all, it is very difficult for a woman to want a family but also a career. How to balance the two? not good at."
How could the wife of the city lord not consider what Chen Xiaoqian said just now?
The City Lord’s wife not only considered it, but also tried it, but it failed in the end.
After all, Xuanhu City is still a man. If she wants to marry the city lord of Xuanhu City, she must give up her identity in the military camp. There is no room for change in any case.
In Xuanhu City, most men look down on women, and it is almost impossible for her to control Huayuan City's guard army as a woman, not to mention that she is the wife of the city lord of Xuanhu City.
If the city lord’s wife still holds the power of the city guard after marrying the city lord, it will inevitably be controversial, and the city lord Xuanhu will also become the subject of everyone.
Therefore, for the sake of City Lord Xuanhu, the wife of the City Lord is also willing to retreat and give up her life in the guard barracks.
Chen Xiaoqian thought for a while and couldn't help but said: "No, in Huayuan City, women are the masters of the house, make money to support the family, and men do housework. They are also very harmonious. Why is it possible in Huayuan City and not in Xuanhu City?"
Hearing these words, Mrs. City Lord frowned first, and then smiled helplessly: "But the Huayuan man is like my Xuanhu woman, and he can't do what he wants to do."
As soon as this statement came out, Chen Xiaoqian was stunned.
She created Huayuan City, where women are superior to men and men are inferior to men. She originally thought that she would raise her eyebrows, but she never considered the situation of Huayuan men.
In this way, this is not the same unfair.
Don’t do to others what you don’t want to do to others... It seems that her script does have some problems... Seeing Chen Xiaoqian’s thoughtful appearance, the city lord’s wife couldn’t help smiling and said,
It’s hard for men to support the family outside. ."
At this moment, Chen Xiaoqian suddenly asked: "What is a family?"
This problem was completely unconceived by Chen Xiaoqian when he wrote this script.
When Chen Xiaoqian wrote this script, it seemed to write about the love and hatred of the characters in the script, but in fact it was actually about the relationship between the sexes.
Therefore, he created two cities with completely different systems, and let the heirs of the two cities be the protagonists and heroines. In fact, it can be regarded as a collision between the two sexes.
Now, after hearing the words of the city lord's wife, Chen Xiaoqian felt a sudden realization.
The wife of the city owner was taken aback for a moment, but soon she said without thinking, "A husband and a woman are one family."
Chen Xiaoqian thoughtfully said: "Two people are the family together. Maintaining the family should not be the responsibility of one of them."
Hearing these words, the city lord's wife looked at Chen Xiaoqian for a long time, and her heart seemed to be moved.
But Chen Xiaoqian had no intention of paying attention to the expression of the city lord's wife at this time, instead, his eyes fell into deep thought.
When she wrote the script "The Tiger Sniffs the Rose", her position was actually the issue of gender equality.
She has always felt that in the social system from ancient times to the present, women are the ones who are restricted. Many things in society are unfair to women, and it is precisely because of this that Huayuancheng was born.