Chapter 2618: Inferiority or self-esteem? (on)

In fact, Li Yueqin also likes Ji Feng. Although Ji Feng is a son, but he is polite and simple, after many contacts with Li Yueqin, he can see that Ji Feng is not the kind of person with heavy heart. When he treated Li Wei, he was very sincere. Li Yueqin also accepted Ji Feng in his heart.
However, Ji Feng saw that his sister Li Wei’s face was not so good, it seemed to be a little unhappy...
"Sister, I see you seem to be in a bad mood?"
Ji Feng asked.
Li Wei couldn't help but look at it, just shook his head and said nothing.
When Ji Feng saw it, he couldn't help but ask: "Sister, is there something happening? You don't even say it?"
"Don't ask!" Li couldn't help but shook his head. "This is a thing... you can't solve it."
"You haven't said it yet, how do you know that I can't solve it?" Ji Feng said with a smile. "It may be a problem for you, but it may be easy to solve it here? Right?"
"Ugh……"
Li Wei still said nothing, just looked at his mother.
Ji Feng is a bit strange, look at his sister's appearance, this thing seems to be related to Aunt Li?
He suddenly thought about it, which is probably related to his sister's emotional problems, because when he came last time, their mother and daughter were somewhat uncomfortable because of Li's emotional problems.
"Xiao Feng, don't ask her, I will tell you."
Sure enough, Li Yueqin couldn’t help but said,
Your sister is in a bad mood because she did something wrong and was criticized by me.

Li Weidao: "Mom!"
Li Yueqin said that he did not pay attention to his daughter, but said: "Things are like this. Last time I told you that your sister had broken up with the man named Liu Wei. In fact, she was lying to me, I later Only then did she discover that she was still secretly interacting with Liu Wei!"
Ji Feng heard that she couldn't help but look at her sister Li Wei, but it was not too unexpected, because the last time he came, Li Wei had already told him that she had contact with Liu Wei. And the last time Ji Feng came, I just met Liu Wei who was asking Li Yueqin to promise him and his sister.
But now it seems that this matter should be discovered by Li Yueqin.
"That... what do you think?!" asked Ji Feng.
"My thoughts are the same as before. The young man named Liu Wei is not bad, but it is not suitable for your sister." Li Yueqin said: "So, I will let them divide."
"mom!"
Li Weidao: "Do you know Liu Wei?"
Li Yueqin said: "I don't need to know him, Xiao Yan, Mom, although I don't have any knowledge, but I have lived for half a lifetime anyway. What kind of people have seen it, the young man named Liu Wei, I don't deserve him." The family is poor, and I don’t deny him anything else, but his character makes me dislike it!"
"can……"
Li Yugang was interrupted by Li Yueqin when he wanted to speak.
Just listen to Li Yueqin and said: "Small, in fact, I don't like it, because it is the most important thing to find the object you like. This mother certainly understands, but this is called Liu Wei is not suitable for you."
"why?!"
Li said: "Is it just like you said, he is just because of personality problems, so you think that we are not suitable between the two?"
Li Yueqin said: "Yes."
"Then you are unreasonable!" Li said with a sigh of relief. "Mom, Liu Wei’s character is very strong and very forward. I really don’t know where you are dissatisfied with him!"
Li Yueqin sighed and said: "Xiao Xiao, can't I tell you enough? Liu Yi, the boy is good, but he is too inferior! The inferiority is very imaginary, inferior. It’s also selfish, you live with such people, and you won’t be happy in the future!


You think about what a person with low self-esteem looks like in life?

Li Yueqin said: "It may seem that such a person has a strong self-respect, but do you know that self-esteem and inferiority can be clearly defined by himself? A person with inferiority, perhaps you have an unintentional sentence in your life, or Any small thing, it may touch his very sensitive nerves, the result is either a quarrel or a cold war!"
"Twice and twice, if the number is more?" Li Yueqin asked. "The time is long, the number of times is too much, the feelings between you are weak, what will the final result be?!"
Li Wei listened, silent.
But looking at her look, there are some who don't believe it.
Ji Feng looked at it and couldn't help but sigh. At this point, he felt that Li Yueqin was right.
Of course, until now he has only seen the side of Liu Wei, and even two people have not said a word positively, so Ji Feng is not good to say how this is called Liu Wei, is not very inferior.
But if Li Yueqin sees the standard and says it is treated, Liu Wei is indeed a person who is very inferior in his heart. That Li Yueqin’s practice of preventing his sister from being with him is right!
A person who has a strong inferiority in his heart may often express strong self-esteem on his appearance. However, when such a person communicates with others, perhaps someone else is just an unintentional sentence that will touch his sensitive nerves.
Some people who are particularly inferior will even make very radical things at some point. This kind of case often happens.
Therefore, at this point, Ji Feng is more inclined to Li Yueqin's practice.
"Sister, do you really understand Liu Wei?"
Finally, Ji Feng opened up. He said: "I don't know how this person is, but there is one thing. I think that you are the only daughter of Auntie anyway, she will not harm you?"
Li Weidao: "Younger brother, I don't mean this, but... my mother really doesn't understand Liu Wei. He doesn't have the inferiority she said!"
"What if it is?" asked Ji Feng.
"in case……"
Li Wei shook his head and said: "This kind of thing is, isn't it, what is it?"
Li Yueqin heard the words and wanted to talk. Ji Feng quickly gave her a look, indicating that she would not say it first, then said: "Sister, then let us take a step back, if this person named Liu Wei is not very inferior Then, if you think about it carefully, is he a confident person in his usual actions, manners, and so on?"
Li Wei heard a word, and Ji Feng’s words made her say something unexpected, because she really never considered it from this aspect.
Li Yueqin was not surprised at all. She did not think that Ji Feng would be from this point of view, but soon she understood the meaning of Ji Feng, could not help but secretly nod, this method of Ji Feng may be really effective. .
Seeing that my sister was a little worried, Ji Feng smiled and said: "Sister, then let's think about it from another angle. Isn't it right? A person who has a strong sense of inferiority is basically strong. Self-respect. This is relative, because someone who is truly confident, he does not care about the slurs or doubts of others."
Seeing Li Wei’s thoughtful look, Ji Feng continued:
You can think about it, when you are in contact with Liu Wei, is he sensitive in some aspects, such as when you are talking about money? In terms of time, or the future, and so on, is there any aspect in which he has a different level of peace when you talk about that question?"
"he……"
Li Wei opened his mouth, but did not know how to answer. However, the look on her face changed slightly, apparently being moved by Ji Feng.
Li Yueqin’s heart was so happy that she did not expect that Ji Feng would actually tell Li Wei.
Her own daughter is naturally the most understandable. Don't look at the usual weakness of Li Wei, but sometimes she is also very stubborn in her heart. For example, this time on emotional issues, she has strongly opposed her daughter and that Liu Wei’s people come and go, but who knows that his daughter is still in contact with Liu Wei in secret.
Now, under the guidance of Ji Feng, Li Wei seems to have signs of loosening!
"Sister, you think about it again, is Auntie doing this for you?" asked Ji Feng.
"I also know that at this point, what she did is something wrong. If she doesn't understand anything, she will oppose it. It is too overbearing!" Li Wei said with some helplessness.
"Why did the aunt object?" asked Ji Feng.
"Isn't that just the reason I just said? She said that Liu Wei is inferior!" Li said.
Ji Feng shook his head and smiled. "This is not the most fundamental reason! In fact, the reason why the aunt will oppose it is because she loves you, afraid that you will be hurt! In fact, the aunt can completely rely on your wishes, you say good That's good, she chooses who she says, so she won't make you feel resentful, nor will Liu Liu remember, but why should she stop?...I am right?"
Li Wei is silent.
She glanced at her mother and saw the wrinkles on her mother's face. She couldn't help but think of her mother and daughter when they were in Yunshan. How much mother loved her, her eyes were red.
"Sister, you insist on your choice and want to fight for your love. That's right." Ji Feng continued: "Auntie stopped, want to do a good job for you, this is also true, but why things will come This is the point? Who is wrong?"
"..."
Li Wei couldn’t help but sigh, yes, who is wrong?
She said: "Yes... Liu Wei is wrong?"
Ji Feng shook his head and said: "No, it is the way you handle the problem is wrong!"
Li Wei is a glimpse. She didn't understand what Ji Feng said.
Ji Feng said: "Let's say that, Auntie thinks that Liu Wei is a person with inferiority. Then she naturally has her reason. Because Auntie has a very rich life experience, she must be more accurate than you. This sister, you admit it. ?"