Chapter 2637: Deep emotional foundation

Luffy sighed, "Master, if this is the case, then these two failed marriages, doesn't it mean that among the couple, the person who can't keep up will be eliminated by the other person who walks fast? "
The corpse smiled, "Of course not, didn't I just say it? It depends on the basis of the marriage of the couple. If the basis of the marriage is money and material, then when these things depreciate or disappear completely, Then this marriage established due to material foundation will inevitably collapse."
Luffy smiled and said, "Isn’t that still the case? After the couple get married, there will definitely be one that is developing rapidly and one that is stagnant. According to your logic, isn’t the one behind that should be run fast? Abandon that one?"
The dead body shook his head, "Luffy, what I just analyzed for you is a marriage based on a material basis. This kind of marriage is like a skyscraper without a good foundation, although the whole building is built in a mighty fashion, but it is the foundation. It’s not strong, so it’s a slight earthquake or something, and the whole building immediately faces the fate of collapse. Therefore, this kind of marriage is very unstable. However, if the husband and wife have established each other through a period of understanding Deep affection, and then form a family, this kind of marriage has a deep emotional foundation, because when two people first came together, it was not for money and material. Maybe when the two people were together, they had no separation. Wen, even so poor that they can’t even open the pot, this kind of couple who made it out of nothing is really more affectionate than Jin Jian. Nothing can separate them."
The old man smiled, "For example, my wife and I, when we were together, I was so poor that I was so poor that my wife wanted a larger full-length mirror, and I couldn't afford it. We both made do with each other every day. My little mirror washes his face and dresses. I squeezed into a small bungalow of more than 30 square meters with my parents. At that time, the living conditions were very difficult than now. But now, we have lived happily together for more than 40 years. Although the days are not rich, but there are all the things that should be there. The house in the family is not big, and it is a decent building. It is many times better than the previous small bungalow. The building is clean and comfortable, and the square is dark and humid, especially when Rain, everything in the house is moldy. Speaking of it, my wife is following me, really hardship. I always say that others marry people, wear gold and silver, eat fragrant and spicy food, you follow me, I am poor, I have nothing, you still I have to take care of my parents, how wronged. She said it’s okay. I married you to help you lighten your burden, not to enjoy your luck. I know your family is poor, and I’ve long been prepared to endure hardship."
The dead body smiled and said, "Have you seen? A truly happy marriage is like my old man. Although it is not wealthy, the two of them go hand in hand, ups and downs. It will last for more than 40 years. How many things did the two have to go through together?"
The old man smiled and said, "If you want to talk about the experience, that's more. The old man was hospitalized, the child became sick, then the old man died, the child got married, and then gave birth to grandchildren. Looking back now, everything is vividly visible. It seems to have happened yesterday. I remember that year, my father suddenly became seriously ill. He sat at home and watched TV. It was all right at once. I remember very clearly that my father had his head tilted and was leaning on the sofa unconscious. I saw it and knew that my father might not be good. I called my wife over, and the two of them grabbed my father’s hand and shouted for a long time, but my father didn’t react at all. I tried it, and there was breathing and pulse. , It’s just that my breathing and pulse are weak. I know my father is very dangerous. At that time, it was not like now, when there is a patient in the family who directly call 120, the ambulance will arrive immediately, and at that time, it is rare to see a taxi on the street. My husband and I carried my father out of the yard and stood on the side of the road. They didn't even have a taxi."
Luffy was taken aback, "Old man, what age do you say? As for there is no taxi?"
The old man smiled bitterly, "More than forty years ago, at that time, we were just married and we hadn't had any children yet. I just caught up with such a thing and felt depressed even thinking about it."
The dead body smiled, "Oh, more than forty years ago, wasn't that in the seventies?"
The old man sighed, "Yes, I remember it clearly, that year was 1978."
The corpse laughed, "In the 1970s, there were really no taxis on the street. And at night, there were no more cars on the street."
Luffy said, "Why is there no car at night?"
The dead body smiled and said, "It's very simple, because at that time, the people were poor and didn't even have money to eat. How could we go out to spend money at night? At that time, we went out and walked, or we rode bicycles. You thought you were like you Like young people nowadays, they can’t sleep at night, go singing and dancing everywhere, or just play games and eat supper together. Back then, it was an age when food was not enough, and there was really no spare money to spend."
Luffy frowned, "That said, that era was too hard."
The corpse smiled and said, "That's not true. I was hungry when I was a child. You think you are all born under the national flag, just like you young people, living a good life with food and clothing. We had nothing at that time. Even the clothes I wear are still patched."
Luffy smiled and said, "It looks like I'm really in time."
The old man smiled and said, "That's not the case. So you kids, you are fed and warmed up and don’t study well. Who do you say are you worthy of? At that time, the conditions were really tough, but it’s just that hard. Give up studying."
Lu Fei smiled and said, "Master, I understand, I will definitely study hard from now on. My mother always teaches me that everything we enjoy today is the blood of our predecessors, and even life, so We must cherish everything today, because it is not easy to get it."
The old man smiled and said, "Well, the child can be taught, this child has a good understanding and has a future."
Zhuang Mengdie coughed and coughed, "I said Luffy. The old man just said that that night, his father was seriously ill. He and his wife carried his father downstairs and stood on the side of the road waiting for the bus. Interrupted, why are you still talking? We want to know the follow-up story."
Luffy tweeted, "Writer Zhuang, I didn’t interrupt it. It was obviously the old man who said this and stopped by himself. As a result, the two old men talked happily about the past, and I couldn’t even intervene. Come on, where is this interrupted by me?"
Zhuang Mengdie smiled, "Luffy, just quibble. I can't bear to interrupt you just now when you were very engaged in a conversation with the two old men."