Chapter 3521: middle age crisis

Luffy smiled, "It's really weird to say that your explanation is, because of love, even if you raise your fist, you will drop it, rather than slap it."
Mo Yue smiled and said, "Yes. In love, because hormones highly stimulate the cerebral cortex, men and women in love will do a lot of incredible behaviors. According to common sense, if a man is irritated by others, once his anger is full , I must make a fist. However, because the person who is angry with him is his little wife, watching his wife's beautiful and beautiful face, the husband's fist can't go down."
Luffy coughed and coughed, "Is this the explanation you made? It's because of love."
Mo Yue smiled and said, "Yes. So, young couples rarely fight, at most quarrel. Because they are young, their appearance and working conditions are at the peak of their lives. At that time, The husband and wife appreciate each other more than each other's grievances. Therefore, even if the husband is so angry with his wife that he raises his fist, the fist designates that he cannot go down. However, the marriage of the two continues to seven years or even ten years later. Changes, things are different, and the faces and careers of the couple have undergone major changes. The handsome and handsome boy has now become the wretched and greasy bald uncle, and the cute and cute little sister has also become a face full of flesh and blood. Then the eyebrows are cold, oh, yes, there is also Obasan who talks endlessly every day. The two stand together again, completely without the original feeling of handsome men and beautiful women, plus they are both suffering All kinds of depression and torture in life, such as career decline, unemployment, etc., middle-aged people must face the embarrassment of life. In this case, the contradictions and shortcomings between the two people have become increasingly prominent. Once they break out, it is very likely It can only be resolved through divorce."
Luffy smiled, "But didn't you just say that because of love, even if the wife raises his fist because of love, he will still be reluctant to fight?"
Mo Yue smiled and said, "Luffy, look at you, and you only listen to half of your words. The premise I just said, you didn't hear clearly. I'm talking about young couples. When they are young, they will bond because of love. The two were in the same boat and worked hard together. At that time, the two of them still loved each other deeply. And I have also analyzed for you that in the young age, the appearance and career of the couple are at the peak of life. But once they stepped Entering middle age, that is to say, after seven or ten years of marriage, the two of them have become old and their careers may also be facing signs of decline. This situation is what we usually call a midlife crisis. Work and career The ups and downs are already exhausting. Have you ever thought that even if your work performance is severely reduced and your income plummets, you still have to work hard to make money to maintain your family’s living expenses, and even pay for your home loan and car loan every month Even if you work hard, you still haven’t made enough money to pay for your mortgage and car loans. Your mobile phone keeps ringing every day, and it’s the banking profession and family relatives calling in to collect debts. What kind of pressure is that? And hardships? People are under that kind of huge life pressure, and it is inevitable that various negative emotions will breed. At this time, the handsome boy has become a sordid and greasy uncle, and the sweet girl has become an unlovable and nagging middle. Aunt Nian, you said, between them, who will tolerate whom? At this time, the fist raised by the husband before was decisively pulled down and hit Huanglianpo’s face. I think at this time, men will not only Beat your wife, maybe you will beat you to death."
Luffy frowned, "Well, it turns out that after middle-aged people, there is no love. The handsome guy is tortured by the hard life into a grumpy middle-aged wretched uncle, and the sweet and lovely girl has also become a bitch. Auntie, who would love such two people?"
Mo Yue smiled and said, "Yes, if the couple's life has reached the point I just said, they are entangled by various creditors every day, and they are troubled. You said that two people like this, living together every day, will have a good mood? What? Two people live under the same roof, with big eyes and small eyes, as if every day they can’t find anything else to do except picking each other’s shortcomings and faults. Picking the faults and picking the eye, and then hitting people. It couldn't be more normal.
And for a long time, who can live this kind of life for how long? "
Lu Fei smiled, "Sure enough, as the rumors say, when people reach middle age, their careers will decline, and love will also be in crisis. In the end, it really is a shortage of people and wealth."
Mo Yue smiled and said, "You are right about the middle-age crisis, but you are wrong when you say there is a crisis in love."
Luffy smiled bitterly, "The two are already in a fight, and you still say that there is a crisis in love?"
Mo Yue smiled and said, "Yes, the two fought each other, which can only show that the relationship between the two is precarious. It does not involve love."
Luffy smiled, "Enough, don't play word games anymore, you are talking about things I don't understand, I am really drunk. What is meant by a precarious relationship, but it is not about love? Yours I can’t understand the statement. I feel your words are inconsistent and puzzling."
Mo Yue smiled and said, "Luffy, your brain is really pitted. I have just analyzed with you that there is no such thing as love when you are middle-aged. The love between couples when they were young was boring and even repressed. Where is the love left? If it is a conscientious man and woman, he will still miss the old relationship and continue to live with his spouse and try to maintain a complete family. If one of the couple is more practical, Naturally, they will secretly empathize with each other and wait for their extramarital relationship to stabilize before filing for divorce with their spouse."
Lu Fei smiled and said, "Oh, it's really a middle-aged person, and there are many crises."
Moyue laughed, "There is a saying that the couple are birds of the same forest and fly separately when the disaster comes. This is the situation. Once the whole family is in a serious economic crisis, it is rare that the couple will work together. , To support together and overcome difficulties together, most couples will choose divorce to solve the problem."
Lu Fei smiled, "Oh, yes, it's no wonder that the divorce rate of middle-aged couples remains high."
Moyue smiled and said, "Yes, it's very simple. After middle age, regardless of men and women, the aura that attracts the opposite gradually fades. The aura I am talking about, you know, is nothing more than a beautiful appearance and a temporary Outstanding talents, but with the passage of time, the two auras that relied on attracting the opposite gradually faded, until they disappeared, then the shortcomings of both parties were immediately exposed. At this time, if the two spouses' careers do not develop simultaneously For example, a career keeps advancing and has a bright future, while a career is gloomy and gradually declines. In this case, the gap between the two is getting wider and the contradiction is getting sharper."