Chapter 376: Desperately (four)

Chapter 376 Desperate (four)
"No, Miss Wang, you listen to me, it's not like this. He doesn't like me. How can he marry you if he likes me? He is cold to me now and hates me in his heart, although I I'm very reluctant to say that, but in fact, I know very well in my heart that it's impossible for me and him, and it has been impossible for a long time. I just ask him not to hate me." When Li Xiaoxiao said this, his eyes started to red again. , She is a girl who likes to cry.
"He told me about you and him. You are still immature, and you may not have experienced so much. And he is a person who has a long and dull reflection on emotional matters. It's messy. If he doesn't love you, why would he abandon me and run back to see you? All the obvious lies are believed, which shows how nervous, painful, and desperate he was at that time. You know why you and him. Are you not together?"
"why?"
"First, because you are too good. Second, because you are too kind to him." Wang Yaxin said lightly.
"what?"
"You are very good yourself, and your family background is equally good. He feels that he is not worthy of you. This is a big reason. He is a very persistent person. Another point is that your parents threatened you to separate from him last time. The incident gave him a big blow. It was probably because of that incident that he resolutely kept his distance from you, because he didn’t want to hurt you. The second and biggest reason is that you treat him Great." Wang Yaxin continued.
"Girl Xiaoxiao, you are a very good girl. Although I have only met you a few times, I can see that you are a very kind girl. You are very kind to him and you love him. Do everything you have to treat him well, but do you know that it is precisely because you are so good to him, so you put pressure on him, he is not another man, he has a strong self-esteem, and you did it this time Everything seems to be good to him, but he is not happy, on the contrary it makes him sad. He is a man, he wants to prove the value of his existence, what he wants is to rely on his own hands to create Life, and you, everything is arranged for him, everything is given to him, what do you make him think? He will only think that he is too useless, he will be sad. Xiaoxiao, if you really love He, then what you have to do is not you to arrange his life, but you to care and support his life. He is a man, you have to give him freedom, don’t take charge of him, so no matter what, even you You don’t think you can do anything to help him. Let him do everything himself. Let him arrange his own life to live the life he wants. All you have to do is support him behind his back, care for him, and be a The woman who gives silently behind him is just fine."
"For a simple example, if you help him secretly arrange a job with your sister, this is wrong. You make him passive, feel deceived, and feel that he has no value in existence. If it were me, At that time, I would choose to accompany him to find a job silently, and I would also tell him directly that your sister’s company is missing a position, but needs to apply, and then you accompany him to apply, then the result will be much better. There won’t be that much pressure. A man is a very strange animal, especially Fang Zhiqiang. Okay, girl Xiaoxiao, I have finished all I have to say, I hope you can be happy with him.
Wang Yaxin said, finally smiling again .
Li Xiaoxiao was stunned, and finally said: "No, no, Miss Wang, I am not here today to say this. I am here today to ask you for help. I want you to come and see him and comfort me. He, even, you two should be together again. Do you know that he is very uncomfortable now, very uncomfortable, only you can make him feel at ease, really, please, even if you help me?"
Wang Yaxin looked at Li Xiaoxiao with complicated eyes, and finally shook her head: "Xiaoxiao, you still don’t know him very well. He is not that fragile. He is much stronger than you think. He has a heart higher than the sky and feels himself. A man who can hold up a whole day with his hands. How can such a man be crushed by such a thing? Don't worry, his sadness is only temporary. After a few days, he will be alive and well. I don't have that. Ability can crush him, I don’t think anyone can. You spend more time with him and care about him, I think, at this time, your company is far more effective than mine. And I... Xiaoxiao, neither Say that I must not be with him, if, if one day you are not with him, if one day he is really mature and stable, and knows what he wants, maybe, maybe I will still Go and fight for him again, so you have to hurry up." Wang Yaxin suddenly paused at the end of the conversation, and said to Li Xiaoxiao with a smile, with a confident expression.
"Think about what I said. Treating a man is actually not easier than bringing a child. A man is actually the same as a child. Sometimes you have to follow him instead of trying to change him and let him follow you. It's not early, I won't keep you, and I have to accompany the children to practice piano." Wang Yaxin stood up and said.
Li Xiaoxiao stood up a little stupidly, nodded, and said, "I'm sorry to disturb you."
Then he walked out of Wang Yaxin's house with a dizzy mind, and drove his car away.
After Wang Yaxin waited for Li Xiaoxiao to leave, she walked into her bedroom alone, locked the door, and immediately heard the sound of sobbing from the room. The generosity, confidence, and indifference that she has just shown are all pretends.
And Li Xiaoxiao drove the car and walked slowly on the road, thinking about what Wang Yaxin said to her, over and over again.
Fang Zhiqiang still lives his own life. Now he is numb to life. He still gets up at four o'clock, gets up and drove to the vegetable market, and bought the food, but only one food was bought. A small half-car, because he was just sending orders for those restaurants. The absence of a booth does not mean that he is completely out of business, nor does it mean that he is completely fine to do. Now the school has not started, when the school starts, he will still work as usual, although his income will be reduced by a lot.