Chapter 2244: Life Class

At this moment, Li Xiaoxiao looked at her mother seriously. This was the first time she heard her mother talk about the past so seriously. After listening, Li Xiaoxiao did feel shocked and surprised.
"Mom, I didn't expect that you had such thoughts before..." Li Xiaoxiao still said in a somewhat incredulous tone.
"Xiaoxiao, anyone who has been married will have such thoughts, but whether to say it or not depends on the person. I never said it before, including your grandparents who didn’t know me. Have such thoughts."
Xiaoma raised her head again, looked at Li Xiaoxiao seriously, and continued.
"Xiaoxiao, do you feel that, in fact, my experience with your father is very similar to your experience with Zhiqiang?" Xiaoma continued to ask.
Hearing this, Li Xiaoxiao pondered for a long time, then nodded fiercely, indeed.
Li Yonggui was once looked down upon by Xiaoma's parents, and later succeeded after hard work, as did Fang Zhiqiang.
Their marriage was opposed by their parents, and their marriage with Fang Zhiqiang was also opposed.
Xiaoma had thoughts of divorce, and now she has thoughts of divorce.
"Do you know why?" Xiao Ma continued to ask.
"Why?" Li Xiaoxiao said seriously.
"Actually, Xiaoxiao, everyone’s marriage is the same. Marriage is two people living together. It’s impossible not to quarrel or quarrel. Everyone’s marriage is not as happy and sweet as it looks. There is always something wrong. Known sad deeds may have been in your eyes. My marriage with your father has always been very happy and beautiful, but in fact, there are many things you don’t understand. Today I will tell you these things, just to tell you , There has never been a fairy tale-like happy world in this world. The reality will always be unpredictable, sweet and bittersweet."
"Xiaoxiao, who used to be, I hope you will always believe that there are fairy tales in this world, because that is the driving force for us to continue to work hard, and it is the indelible childlike heart of our hearts. But now, you should probably understand, fairy tales It doesn’t exist. There are some in reality, but it’s enough to rely on our joint efforts to manage and try to get a stable and happy married life."
While talking, Xiaoma stretched out her hand, sorted out the messy hair in Li Xiaoxiao's ear, looked at her with a fond look, smiled and said, "I'm a big girl..."
At this time, Li Xiaoxiao was thinking very seriously about what her mother had just said. She seemed to realize that what she originally thought was right, in fact, there is no right or wrong at all. Life is not an exam, and not everything has a standard answer. Looking at things from different angles will have completely different results.
"In addition, my mother still wants to tell you today that every small decision you make now will affect your entire life. If you are cruel and say those two words, maybe both of you are in anger, really If you do that, then your life trajectory will undergo a major change. But if you endure that moment, then those two words, perhaps in your life will not appear again, because you will eventually usher in happiness At the beginning of life, at that time, you will find that all the troubles are just the clouds of yesterday. After today, looking back, it is nothing more than a post-dinner conversation and a joke about the past."
After listening carefully to all of her mother's words, Li Xiaoxiao finally nodded fiercely. She looked at her mother seriously and said, "Mom, I understand your good intentions. Next, I might know what to do."
Xiaoma closed her eyes and nodded, and then continued: "Xiaoxiao, in fact, mother is the least willing to see you grow. These words are not a last resort, and mother will not tell you. But you must understand that parents cannot accompany you. For the rest of your life, you have to walk on your own. If you don’t learn this, you will make many detours. Parents don’t want to be in another world and see the bumpy road ahead. Parents hope you can go smoothly. "
"Mom, don't say any more, my daughter understands."
Li Xiaoxiao plunged into her mother's arms, feeling the familiar taste, so familiar and so warm.
In the eyes of my parents, I will always be the object of care. What they carry is pressure that I can't imagine in my entire life.
Even at this age, he is still tireless in teaching himself. You cannot experience the mystery of life unless you personally walk it.
"Okay, now it's time for you to make your own decision. If you really feel that the next day will be difficult and you don't want to endure that kind of pain anymore, my mother will support you!"
Xiaoma rubbed Li Xiaoxiao's head, as if she was facing the little girl she used to say.
In fact, Xiaoma was very reluctant to give up Fang Zhiqiang. In her heart, apart from Fang Zhiqiang, no man could love Li Xiaoxiao more, and no man knew how to take care of her better than Fang Zhiqiang.
The reason why Xiaoma said this is to make Li Xiaoxiao soberly aware that no matter when her parents are still alive, she has the capital for willful mischief. Once one day they are gone, then it is. When she really took on everything.
It's a pity that Li Xiaoxiao still doesn't realize this. She just looked at her mother seriously, shook her head and said: "I have already thought about it, I don't want him to leave me."
"Well, good boy, as long as you have your own answer in your heart." Xiaoma squinted again and smiled, touching Li Xiaoxiao's hair, and then said.
"Mom, can you tell me how to be open-minded?" Li Xiaoxiao asked again.
"My good girl, you are actually very open-minded. When it comes to feelings, no woman has been truly open-minded since ancient times. If you can, it means that she doesn't love that man at all." Mom continued to say seriously.
"That..." Li Xiaoxiao nodded thoughtfully, but frowned again, wanting to say something.
"The way my mother thought of was to participate in work with your father, to experience his world, to feel his heart, and to realize his wishes."
Xiaoma naturally knew what Li Xiaoxiao wanted to ask, and she took the initiative to say so.
After listening, Li Xiaoxiao nodded seriously, and then said: "I seem to understand."
"Of course, my mother didn’t mean to keep you busy with him, but just wanted to tell you that many things, before you can understand it, are actually because you have limited your thinking and solidified your perspective of looking at problems. Modification, the same thing, there will be thousands of results."
Xiaoma looked at Li Xiaoxiao's sudden realization, and immediately added again.
"I understand, I will try to do it." Li Xiaoxiao nodded seriously and continued.
"Xiaoxiao, I hope you can really understand, what is the meaning of everything my mother said today."
Xiaoma suddenly took Li Xiaoxiao's hand from her palm, and then slowly got up, while speaking, she turned and walked towards the door.
Seeing her mother leaving her bedroom, Li Xiaoxiao looked at her reluctantly, as if this was the last farewell.
It wasn't until her figure completely disappeared at the door that Li Xiaoxiao came back to her senses again. Looking at the empty doorway, Li Xiaoxiao suddenly realized that she is still living under the care of her parents, as if she has not grown up yet. Like saplings, big trees shelter themselves from wind and rain, taking care of themselves to grow vigorously day after day.
However, how long can he survive under such a shade? When did you need to face the wind and rain and challenge your life alone?
Li Xiaoxiao, who just woke up at this moment, is not too late, because as long as his parents are still alive, he still has the willful capital!